geometrydaily:
#275 Perpendicular – A new minimal geometric composition each day
This is my new favorite tumblr, via Jim Rugg, who apparently is the only place I get inspiration from lately. I love this bit from the “about” page:
“Why are you doing this?
I love it. I get a serious flow when I draw simple shapes, combine them and experiment until they start to “sing”. I’m a designer with all my heart. It’s an experiment. A journey into a world of possibilities.
Contagion,” the extraordinary film portraying the outbreak of lethal virus that spreads rapidly around the world, may seem eerily familiar: from the medieval plague to the Spanish flu of 1918-19 to more recent fears of avian influenza, SARS, and H1N1 “swine flu”, contagions have long characterized the human condition. The film captures almost perfectly what a contemporary worst-case scenario might look like, and is eerily familiar because it trades on realistic fears. Contagion, the transmission of communicable infectious disease from one person to another (either by direct contact, as in this film — sneezing or coughing or touching one’s nose or mouth, then a surface like a tabletop or doorknob that someone else then touches
Sneedy was spooky with fiery red eyes and as Billy looked he doubled in size.
It looked like a mean grouchy 'ole brute, with jagged big teeth and a crooked
green snoot. He tried to breath fire, but it was only hot air, and the look on his
face made you too scared to stare.
His hair was orange and covered in soot, but you cannot judge a dragon
because of a look. Although Billy was scared, he watched Sneedy's face and
he looked like a dragon who felt out of place. Maybe Sneedy thought
he was supposed to be mean, since sometimes things are different from what they
seem.
The above excerpt is from one of my children's picture book manuscripts, Billy Board and the Reading Glasses. Billy, the protagonist, helps resolve a conflict between an entire kingdom and its adversary Sneedy, a dragon. It is a small way of helping kids understand that people and situations can appear to be different on the outside than they are in reality. Children's book characters are an effective way of teaching children about empathy, since they tell the story through the eyes of the characters. For example, Billy thinks for himself and puts himself in Sneedy's place by viewing his situation from the dragon’s point of view.
Children join their peers in judging or ridiculing other children, because they want to feel accepted. This encourages the cowardly act of bullying so prevalent in childhood today. If it is part of human nature to harass the weaker members of a community, then isn't it also possible that it is part of human nature to feel compassion?
Children’s need for acceptance encourages them to take part in whatever is popular rather than take the chance of being outcasts. When kids are taught how to feel empathy they are more likely to think for themselves than follow the crowd, since they are able to see things from another person's perspective. Nothing colors a persons view of a situation better than viewing themselves experiencing the same occurrence. It takes character to stand your own ground and listen to your own voice.
Sneedy’s appearance has little do with his heart or character however he is judged by his community for his outside persona. The ridiculed dragon is labeled evil before he has had an opportunity to earn the title.
As a result, Sneedy acts and reacts in the way the people in the kingdom expect him too, since he assumes the title of evil rather than accept the feelings associated with rejection, or worse yet no recognition at all.
Since children emulate their parents we need to act in the manner we wish them to act, respond to others the way we wish them to respond and so forth. By teaching empathy, we are teaching tolerance and disregarding the notion that to be accepted we must duplicate a certain popular attitude. If we teach kids how to develop and listen to their own voice, especially when it comes to the welfare of others, their generation is more likely to discourage indifference toward people who are different or less fortunate, thereby removing the opportunity for more misery and heartache. The most important thing we can teach kids is how to think their own thoughts and provide their own answers based on the values their parents taught them, and not the opinions or viewpoints of other more popular points of view.
Children’s writers, parents, aunts, uncles, teachers, everyone concerned with the welfare of children should do their part in teaching them how to empathize with others and when they do, show them how much you admire that quality.
My grandfather once said that when a man/woman treats a beggar with the same respect he would regard a king or queen it is the mark of true character.
Read Teaching Children Empathy Through Benevolent Selfishness an article from by Dr. Elisa Medhus, on MyParentime.com
about teaching child/children empathy.
hi Ann, what a beautiful, truly inspiring vision you're conveying here!! I'm looking forward to your book, make sure to have it translated in Dutch too okay ;-))...
I couldn't agree with you more, but do think that though it's one of the biggest problems nowadays, it's also a very hard one to tackle. Empathy is one thing, having the guts to stand out in a crowd for it something completely different..
Something I definitely promote with my own kids, but I'm not sure many parents will promote.. And you're absolutely right: that's where it all starts!!
Postings such as this one, are the best way to start: with the parents!
Thank you Ellen! Yes, it is a very hard one to tackle, but if you do not think for yourself you are allowing someone else to think for you. When it comes to standing out in a crowd or sticking up for another person one can safely assume others feel the same way and will stand by your actions, so if you speak up you are removing the aggressors power. We should never be afraid to think and do what we feel is right, since to do so would compromise our character.
Thank you Ellen for reading and leaving such a kind and thoughtful comment! :))
Ann
P.S. I hope my response wasn't too long winded! It's a subject I obviously feel passionate about.
Great advice Ann, but easier said than done. You write so well. I always enjoy my visits here. Have a great weekend. :)
Thank you Sandee. I hope I didn't come off as preachy it was certainly not my intention. I just worry so much about children bullying one another. I hope I didn't get carried away. Thanks for the compliment and I'm glad you enjoy your visits! LOL!
Ann
You have a fun week-end too!
I plan to post your meme!
Hear, hear to true character and the lesson your Grandfather taught you. Would that everyone were being taught the same way. Great weekend.
Thank you Theresa. He would have been so happy to hear you say that! Thanks for stopping by-
By the way I'm in the process of writing a Simon Cat update!
To lighten the subject matter a little.
Ann :))
A lot of my readers have small kids. I would like to lead them to your site.
I found your site through a link on "Kissing the Dogwood", were we share links.
Would you be interested in a link swap? Check out my site http://mondaymorningpower.blogspot.com. If you like what you see and agree, then link my site to yours, leave me a comment on my blog that you have done so and I will immediately do the same.
Monday Morning Power, thank you so much for inviting me to swap links!
I love your site and would like to give my readers an opportunity to read your site as well! I've added Monday Morning Power to my blogroll and my technorati favorites!
Ann
hI Ann,this is fantastic.I understand how it feels as in my age group it is still prevalent. I wonder if any of this generation would lend the 'old-fashioned' empathy!
That said it was a wonderful post truly.I hope you can give me a link and fave my blog on Technorati if possible. Hope you can help,if you want a link please do tell me too :)
Thank you Winston! I'm glad you liked it!
I just added you to my blogroll, and I'm going to Technorati to add you to my favorites!
Thanks for being such a great reader!
Ann :))
So often reading becomes boring because it is viewed as a task...this piece is a great reminder that the joy in reading is about all the lessons and experiences that we can all benefit from...
You always leave the kindest comments, Jolly jo and I'm glad you're one of my readers. It makes such a difference when people notice the effort you've put into a post! It makes it all worthwhile!
Thank you- :))
Ann