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1. Review: Princess Kim and Too Much Truth

By Luisa LaFleur, The Children’s Book Review
Published: March 1, 2011

To Tell the Truth

Princess Kim and too much truth

By Maryann Cocca-Leffler

Reading level: Ages 4-7

Hardcover: 32 pages

Publisher: Albert Whitman and Company (March 1, 2011)

Source: Author

What to expect: Themes regarding honesty and empathy

Ever find yourself in an awkward situation at the supermarket or the mall when your little one points to someone who’s different and makes an unkind—but in all honesty, truthful—comment? It’s happened to me any number of times and each time I found myself wishing there was a book or a song or something that could help me explain the difference between being honest and being hurtful. And as if the literary gods had heard my plea, here is the book I’d longed for.

Princess Kim and too much truth tells the tale of little Kim and her decision to always tell the truth. No matter if that truth is hurtful or mean. We follow Kim from the breakfast table to the school bus to her classroom, telling the truth to all around her but hurting her friends’ feelings along the way. Without giving away more of the story, Kim eventually realizes that there’s a difference between always telling the truth and being honest. And that finding something nice to say is a thousand times better than hurting anyone’s feelings.

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2. Review: Snook Alone by Marilyn Nelson

By Phoebe Vreeland, The Children’s Book Review
Published: February 26, 2010

Snook Alone

By Marilyn Nelson (Author), Timothy Basil Ering (Illustrator)

Reading level: Ages 5 -10

Hardcover: 48 pages

Publisher: Walker & Company (January 2011)

Source: Library

How might you discuss subjects like longing and faith with young children? Marilyn Nelson has given us a gem of a spring board with the book Snook Alone.  She has chosen the ideal protagonist for such a lofty subject: the faithful dog.  Masterfully illustrated by Timothy Basil Ering, the story takes us to a faraway atoll in the Indian Ocean where Abba Jacob, a contemplative monk, spends his days in silence, prayer and work shadowed by his rat terrier Snook.  As the monk rises early to sit for prayer, Snook curls up behind him, closes his eyes, and takes in all the sounds of the island in early morning. While the monk tends to his chores, Snook faithfully shadows his master, dutifully hunting rats and mice.  The two even share the monk’s modest lunch.  “Each day was a striped flag of silence, work, food, silence, work, silence.”

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That is, until one day when Abba Jacobs travels by motor boat to a nearby island to catalog the flora and fauna.  Snook goes along for the “micing.” A storm comes up and Snook is abandoned alone on the island.  Here begins his great adventure.  The terrier fares quite well as a survivor, yet all the while longing for the return of Abba Jacob. Snook, as we know, is an expert listener.  The painting of him poised, alert at the sea’s edge listening for Abba Jacob is heartbreaking. “Every molecule listened for his friend.” Who has not witnessed the intensity of a dog waiting for the return of his master? Pure faith.  Deep concentration…meditation.

As author Marilyn Nelson says, the book can be read on two levels.  On the surface it is an adventure story—Robinson Crusoe with a dog cast away.  This gives the book great boy and nature lover appeal with the interaction between Snook and the native animals that have never seen such an “exotic” creature and vice-versa.  The interaction between Snook and a sea turtle laying eggs on the beach proves epiphanous for Snook and fosters the seed of compassion in him.

Illustration by Timothy Basil Ering

Abandoned, Snook eventually becomes quite feral—“a wolf-size cloud of stink”—yet he never stops longing for the return of his friend.  Abba Jacob’s silence has been replaced by the constancy of the wind, the rhythmic sound of the surf and by the love inside Snook.  In essence, Snook’s deep longing becomes the presence of Abba Jacob and the

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3. Battle Bullying With Books!

By Bianca Schulze, The Children’s Book Review
Published: January 25, 2010

Thanks to Lauren Donovan from Random House Kids, I have the following book list to pass on …

Join in GLSEN’s No Name-Calling Week (January 24-28, 2011) with titles from Random House Children’s Books:

CONFESSIONS OF A FORMER BULLY
By Trudy Ludwig; Illustrated by Beth Adams
(Tricycle Press / on sale August 24, 2010 / $18.99 / Ages 8-12)

Ever wonder what goes on in the mind of a bully? Katie has been caught bullying a classmate and now she’s in big trouble: both her parents and the principal insist that she meet with the school counselor, Mrs. Petrowski, to get to the bottom of her behavior. Mrs. Petrowski encourages Katie to keep a diary where Katie can explore her reasons for bullying and the repercussions of what she’s done, not only for those around her, but for Katie herself. Over the course of writing her journal, Katie uncovers the various forms bullying can take, both emotional and physical. She discovers how her actions have isolated her from her peers and kept her from making real friendships. Ultimately, Katie comes to the conclusion that she needs to make right her wrong and learn how to become a better friend. Chock full of useful, real-life advice and information, Confessions of a Former Bully will help kids identify bullying right from the start and gives them a “toolbox” with everything they need to stop it in its tracks. The notebook format, including full-color cartoons and relevant facts and quotes, makes this highly accessible for upper elementary students. Trudy Ludwig is an award–winning author who specializes in writing children’s books that explore the colorful and sometimes confusing world of children’s social interactions. She has received rave reviews nationwide from educators, experts, organizations, and parents for her passion and compassion in addressing relational aggression—the use of relationships to manipulate and hurt others. Since her first book, My Secret Bully, she has become a sought–after speaker, presenting at schools and conferences around the country and educating students, parents, and teachers on the topic. She has been featured on television, radio and in print.

“Confessions of a Former Bully is unmatched in providing effective tools for girls and boys in EVERY social role, whether they are instigators, targets or bystanders. Rarely does a book speak so effectively to both kids and adults alike; certainly a must-read for all young children, as well as educators and counselors.”
–Melissa Norman, Founder & Executive Director, Girl CHARGE, Inc

Add this book to your collection: Confessions of a Former Bully

GOSSIP FROM THE GIRLS’ ROOM: A Blogtastic! Novel
By Rose Cooper
(Delacorte Press / on sale January 11, 2011 / $12.99 / Ages 10 & up)

In Rose Cooper’s debut novel, one sixth grader is all ears—and puts it all online, until she discovers a secret so juicy, it has the power t

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4. Trudy Ludwig: Bullying, Empathy, and Perspective

By Phoebe Vreeland with Amanda Lynch, The Children’s Book Review
Published: December 12, 2010

“Trudy Ludwig is an award-winning author who specializes in writing children’s books that explore the colorful and sometimes confusing world of children’s social interactions. She has received rave reviews nationwide from educators, experts, organizations, and parents for her passion and compassion in addressing relational aggression—the use of relationships to manipulate and hurt others.” ~ www.trudyludwig.com

TCBR: What inspired you to write about bullying?

Trudy Ludwig: When my daughter was emotionally bullied nine years ago by some of her peers in elementary school, I tried to find age-appropriate books in libraries and on the Internet to help teach her about relational aggression (the use of relationships to manipulate and hurt others) and how to deal with it. I even contacted leading experts and organizations for their suggestions. I learned that there weren’t enough resources available, so I decided to write children’s books to help fill this resource gap.

TCBR: Katie, the bully of your first book My Secret Bully, is the protagonist of your latest book Confessions of a Former Bully.  Can you speak about why you chose this perspective?

TL: In my author visits at schools around the US, I had many children ask me, “What ever happened to Katie in My Secret Bully? Did she and Monica become friends again?” They also wanted to know if Katie ever got help to change her bullying ways. Their queries got me thinking about writing a book from the unique perspective of a former bully. So when I started to conceptualize Confessions of a Former Bully, it just seemed natural for me to have Katie pick up where she left off in My Secret Bully. My intent for this story was to show readers how Katie’s behaviors—both positive and negative—had a direct impact on her and others. I also wanted Katie to share the important lessons she learned about bullying and what it means to be a decent friend.

TCBR: What made you use the format of a diary for this last book?

TL: There’s something thrilling and intriguing about being allowed access to someone else’s personal diary, don’t you think? I remember, as a child, being tempted to read my big sister’s diary—not that I did, mind you, as she made sure it was securely locked at all times. I felt that the diary format, supplemented with Katie’s drawings and doodles, would be the perfect way for the reader to get inside the head of Katie and track her character growth as she gets help from Mrs. Petrowski, the school counselor.

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5. Review: Tell the Truth, B.B. Wolf by Judy Sierra and J. otto Seibold

By Phoebe Vreeland, The Children’s Book Review
Published: November 2, 2010

Tell the Truth, B.B. Wolf

by Judy Sierra (Author), J. otto Seibold (Illustrator)

Reading level: Ages 5-8

Hardcover: 40 pages

Publisher: Knopf Books for Young Readers (August 24, 2010)

Source: Publisher

Who’s afraid of the big bad wolf?  No one, these days.

The tale of the Three Little Pigs has been twisted, turned and fractured so much in recent picture books, it’s a wonder anyone can even remember what actually happened.  In Tell the Truth, B.B.Wolf folklorist Judy Sierra chooses this classic bully for her tale about the importance of honesty and remorse.  Her 2007 book, Mind Your Manners, B.B.Wolf, had Big Bad at the library minding his P’s and Q’s.  In this new book, the librarian has once again invited B.B.Wolf to the library.  This time it is to tell the tale of how he met the three little pigs.

Now an older, gentler wolf, he has put aside his wicked ways and retired to Villain Villa.  Full of regret and surprisingly longing to be a hero, his friends at the retirement home convince him to put a spin on the truth—give the Three Little Pigs tale a happy ending.  But B.B. can’t hide behind his snazzy suit or newly acquired manners for long.  The savvy crowd at story time are unwilling to let B.B. sugar coat his story.  Pinocchio, the Ginger Bread Baby and Humpty Dumpty all seemed to have learned their lessons.  Besides, there are three little pigs in the audience who keep interrupting his re-write with a chorus of “Tell the truth, B.B.Wolf!”  And, with much trotter stomping, the pigs demand an apology.  The wolf’s huff and puff have faded to a wheeze and a gasp.  There’s only one way out and in the end Big Bad sings his sorry, rights his wrong and even changes his middle name.  Having come clean, the re-invented wolf is last seen driving off in a bright red truck with his chums, in a new renovation venture.

J. otto Siebold uses his zany computer generated art to stylize a collection of familiar fairy tale critters.  Adults will enjoy the puns and amusing detail in Seibold’s depiction.  While the book is aimed at 5-8 year-olds, an older child may better enjoy the humor and truly get the lesson.  The author, Judy Sierra, comes from a family of book lovers, with a past career as a librarian and children’s entertainer.  Her books are written to be dramatized and read aloud.  So dust off those vocal chords parents—B.B. loves to sing his lines—especially the blues.  With its large bold text, this book is bound to be popular at library and school story times.

Add this book to your collection: Tell the Truth, B.B. Wolf

6. Award Winning Author Lezlie Evans Releases New Book For Mothers and Children

By Lezlie Evans, for The Children’s Book Review
Published: October 12, 2010

Children’s Book Author and Mother of Six, Demonstrates Unconditional Love In Who Loves the Little Lamb

Ashburn, VA – Lezlie Evans reflects her love of children’s literature, family values and appreciation for different cultures in every book she releases.  Whether it is learning phrases in different languages or a family picnic, the nine-time published, award winning children’s book author, and mother of six, portrays the significance of communication in problem solving between parents and their children.  Lezlie’s latest title Who Loves the Little Lamb, exemplifies the effects of a mother’s calm reassurance, as she guides her misbehaving little one to better choices.

Who Loves the Little Lamb, published on the Disney/Hyperion label, and illustrated by Award Winning illustrator, David McPhail, has garnered wide spread interest from highly ranked blogs and praise industry review sites.  The Children’s Book Guide states:

“Who Loves the Little Lamb will be a favorite for your kids for years to come. It’s the kind of story that your children will ask to hear over and over. The tone and colors of the book will give them a sense of security. This tale of unconditional love will become a classic in your home.”

Lezlie, a winner of the prestigious Gold Oppenheim Award, has created a book not only appropriate for reading every day of the year, but especially timely for the upcoming Mother’s Day.

“I believe mothers will relate to the experiences depicted in the book.  I am hopeful that Who Loves the Little Lamb will become a treasured book, and serve as a special reminder of much mother’s love their little ones,” says Lezlie.

Lezlie will serve as Co-Chair of Programs for the Washington D.C. Children’s Book Guild beginning in June. She is also an educational advocate for home based literacy in youth, as a preventative measure for combating texting and electronic trends of upcoming tweens and teens.  As electronic and texting issues receive increased amounts of press, Lezlie is scheduling opportunities to share her message with the media on how literacy at home can help encourage imagination and open opportunities for expression in youth.  Lezlie is available for interviews and panel discussions per request.  Most recently Evans was a guest author at the re-known King’s English Bookshop in Salt Lake City, UT where she was invited to read from her newest book Who Loves the Little Lamb and featured on Virginia’s

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7. Stop Bullying: 3 Books That Deal With Bullies

By Phoebe Vreeland, The Children’s Book Review
Published: September 27, 2010

Confessions of a Former Bully

by Trudy Ludwig (Author), Beth Adams (Illustrator)

Reading level: Ages 8-12

Hardcover: 48 pages

Publisher: Tricycle Press (August 24, 2010)

Source: Author

Ten-year old Katie has hung up her bully hat.  With gentle nudges from parents, principal and school counselor, she is now sharing her secrets with you and your child so that the bullying can stop. 

Katie is a creation of author Trudy Ludwig in her latest offering to tweens, Confessions of a Former Bully. After five books, Ludwig has become much beloved by kids, parents and teachers.  This award winning author has truly become an advocate for children in the area of social justice.  Her former books deal with a variety of issues helping kids navigate the perils of social situations.  In 2005, her first book My Secret Bully, disarmed the frenemy.  In Just Kidding, Ludwig tackled teasing.  Sorry exposed the insincere apology and Trouble Talk illuminated the problems of gossiping.  Her fifth book, Too Perfect (read review), shed light on the problems of perfectionism.  The latest book builds on this body of work and offers a new perspective—that of the reformed aggressor. Now with the help of Katie, we can pull the curtain on the bully once and for all.

Confessions of a Former Bully is written in the guise of a journal.  The school principal has asked Katie to meet with the school counselor Mrs. Petrowski once a week as consequence for her unkind actions, in order to learn more about bullying behavior and how to be a better friend.  Her parents have asked her to keep a journal about what she has learned.

Illustrator Beth Adams’ child-like drawings and margin doodles help create an authentic tween journal feel. While it is written in the voice of a tween, Katie is clearly smart and there is no annoying tween jargon. The handwritten type-face and faux taped-in snippets help create the journal feel.  But lest you judge this book by its cover, beware—Katie’s journal is in no way jejune.  It is chock-full of helpful information, charts, “Quick Facts”, reflections and revelations.  Knowledge comes in many ways, like Mrs. Petrowski’s “Think-About It” cards.  These bright yellow quote cards offer gems from the greats: Martin Luther King Jr., Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Te

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8. Review: Anh’s Anger by Gail Silver

By Phoebe Vreeland, The Children’s Book Review
Published: August 10, 2010

Anh’s Anger

by Gail Silver (Author), Christiane Krömer (Illustrator)

Reading level: Ages 4-8

Hardcover: 40 pages

Publisher: Plum Blossom Books (August 11, 2009)

Source: Publicist

What to expect: Anger management, Buddhist influence

We all know how challenging it can be to help a child deal with the powerful energy of anger.  No matter how deep our reserves of compassion and patience are as parents, we also seek tools. In Anh’s Anger, author Gail Silver offers traditional Buddhist technique for dealing with the emotion.

The story is a simple one. A young boy is absorbed in play, content building a tower of blocks while his grandfather prepares their dinner.  Ahn does not want to be interrupted.  After ignoring several requests to come to dinner, the boy melts down.  Unable to articulate his feelings, they quickly progress from tears to anger. Finally, he yells mean words at his grandfather. Wise and steady, Grandfather politely asks Ahn to go to his room and sit with his anger. There he is surprised by the presence of a colorful and mischievous creature—his anger brought to life. The two “play” till they tire, then sit and breathe together.  Change transpires.  Grandfather returns and invites an articulate and apologetic Ahn to dinner.

Illustrator Christiane Krömer blends silk and paper collage with brush and pencil drawings for great effect.  She nicely depicts Ahn’s full range of emotion—contentment, tears, rage, surprise, remorse and serenity.  Her choice of color and texture in the collage reinforce these emotions—watermarks echo Ahn’s tears and vibrant red and yellow dagger shapes amplify the boy’s rage.

Upon first reading, my Western mind started throwing out criticisms of why this might not work as magically in real life.  So I decided to do a bit of adult reading on the subject of anger.  Ahn’s Anger is published by Plum Blossom Books, the children’s imprint of Parallax Press that offers young people books on mindfulness and Buddhism.  The book clearly offers an Eastern approach and draws from the wisdom of an expert on the matter: Vietnamese Buddhist monk and peace-activist Thich Nhat Hanh.

Curiously, I found Hanh’s book Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the Flames in my own bookshelf.  (“Hmmm, must be husband’s”, I murmur.) In it, Hahn instructs that the way we approach anger is to first accept responsibility for it and actually embrace it. “Your anger is not your enemy, your anger is your baby.” Our first task, he says, is to accept it as “a mother accepts her child.” Hahn views emotion as organic and there

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9. Summer Reading Tips & What to Read When

By Bianca Schulze, The Children’s Book Review
Published: July 12, 2010

What to Read When

What to Read When: The Books and Stories to Read with Your Child--and All the Best Times to Read ThemMost of us know that reading to and with our children and/or encouraging our children to read solo is one of the most important jobs that we as parents have.

Pam Allyn, author of What to Read When: The Books and Stories to Read with Your Child—and All the Best Times to Read Them, explains clearly in her book why this job is so important: reading develops shared values, allows children to fall in love with language, builds comprehension, teaches the power of story, offers comfort, builds critical thinking skills, shapes a lifelong reading identity, and the list goes on.

Sometimes knowing the importance of reading to and with your child is the easy part. It’s knowing what books to read when that offers up a challenge. Pam Allyn solves this quandary with a gazillion of excellent recommendations, classic and new, listed under both age and genre. Each age group (birth to ten-years-old) has its reading needs defined and book suggestions follow. Themes such as divorce, sharing, music,  and sleepovers—a list of 50 in total—have been covered. A lot of the books listed in the “Fifty Themes” section have questions listed under the synopsis so you can help promote healthy conversation and increase your child’s comprehension skills. And, for those of you who feel shy when reading aloud, you’ll truly appreciate the “How to” component.

What to Read When is the best reading tool I’ve come across. It should be a household, classroom, bookstore, and library staple. It’s easy to use and provides solid reading tips and recommendations  all the way through. Gosh, I think this book might even be my new best friend—it’s certainly going to be a desktop staple for the Children’s Book Review.

Summer Reading Tips

Now you know why reading to and with your child is important and you know where to find out what to read when, you may be looking for a few extra summer reading tips. Pam Allyn has generously offered up some additional advice just for our readers:

  • Take turns reading aloud on the beach or at the park or wherever you find yourself. Dramatic readings from Harry Potter or exchanging snippets from People magazine is fun family bonding;  reading aloud together at any age is a wonderful bonding activity for you and your child. It makes words and stories come alive through your voice, and your child’s voice.
  • Magazines and newspapers are great summer time reading. The articles are short, they can be folded to fit into any bag and if you let your kids help choose, they’ll definitely be interested in reading them. There are great magazines out there for children that will inspire lots of conversation. These include National Geographic for Kids, Sports Illustrated for Kids, American Girl and Dig. Also short stories and poems are terrific alternatives to shoving a long, intimidatin

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10. Father’s Day Books: One or Two Daddies

The following books have been selected for Father's Day because they showcase strong paternal bonds and demonstrate just how special (and important) daddy-and-me moments can be. There is also a special selection for families that have two daddies.

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11. Graduation Gifts: Inspiring Kids’ Books

Confucius once said, "Where ever you go, go with all your heart." With this in mind, I have selected the following books based on their ability to inspire.

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12. Hope for Haiti by Jesse Joshua Watson

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13. Dr. Seuss: Sparkle, Inspire, Pop!

To celebrate the 20th anniversary of Oh' the Places You'll Go, a couple of new editions have been released. This awesome book now spins, sparkles, and pops.

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14. The Trouble with Mark Hopper: Elissa Brent Weissman

Elissa Weissman has written a wonderfully thought-through novel that shows us that friendship can be made, even between the most unlikely characters.

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15. Pelican and Pelicant and Other Stories: Sarah Froeber

By Bianca Schulze, The Children's Book Review
Published: January 6, 2010

Sarah Froeber - Pelican and Pelicant and Other Stories

Pelican and Pelicant

by Sarah Froeber (Author), Andy Thorn (Music)

Reading level: Ages 4-8

Audio CD

Publisher: Shoofly Audio

Source: Author

What to expect: Intrepidity, Self-confidence, Friendship,

There is a clear and timely message in the story of Pelican and Pelicant: friendship, encouragement, and a little bravery, can really travel a long way.

Pelican is an "I think I can" kind of bird—champing at the bit with confidence. Pelicant is an "I can not" kind of bird—shy and uncertain. Together, these characters create an engaging tale of the fun that comes from having a good friend and self-confidence. The story is read and delivered clearly by Sarah Froeber, with lovely musical accompaniment by Andy Thorn.

Children of all levels of confidence will take something away from this likable adventure: Those with self-confidence will learn the importance of being a supportive and encouraging friend. And, those that lack in self-confidence will hear a tale of intrepidity.

Kudos to Sarah Froeber.

Publisher's synopsis: Fly with Pelican to the top of an enormous oak. Laugh as she shows newcomer Goose around the island. Float in the waves with Pelican while she rests after an enormous fish dinner. Finally, go with her to Turtle's party to dance the Pelican Pop-up and dine on crab birthday cake with crayfish frosting. But where is Pelicant during all of this fun?

Watch self-esteem blossom in the face of uncertainty and risk-taking. Discover what happens when these endearing pelicans look beyond feathers and beaks to the tender roots of a genuine friendship. Young people will find Sarah Froeber's tale delightful and engaging, and adults will recognize the rich texture of a time-tested myth. Kim Mosher's illustrations in luminous colored pencil are simple yet detailed enough to tell this story on their own - the closer you look, the longer you will giggle.

Add this audio CD to your collection: Pelican and Pelicant

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16. The Giving Tree: Shel Silverstein: A story about giving and taking

By Luisa LaFleur, The Children's Book Review
Published: December 21, 2009

The Giving Tree 40th Anniversary Edition Book with CD

The Giving Tree

by Shel Silverstein (Author)

Reading level: Ages 4-8

Paperback: 64 pages

Publisher: HarperCollins (October 7, 1964)

Source of book: Bookstore

What to expect: Relationships, giving and taking

Not so long ago, I bought The Giving Tree on a visit to a great NY bookstore. I'd seen it before but never read it and thought it might be nice to read to my children. I based my decision to buy it on two things--I had a notion that it was an important book in the canon of children's literature and I really liked the cover: a simple line drawing of a boy and a tree on a bright green background. Fast forward a few months and it has become one of the three or four books that *must* be read before bedtime. So I've now read it some 60-70 times, but here's the strange thing: I'm still not quite sure what the moral of the story is. I realize that in this Internet age with sites like Wikipedia and Amazon and any number of blogs and review sites, I *should* be able to figure it out. But I haven't yet and this makes writing a review a little more difficult than usual.

The story is about a little boy who loves a tree and as he grows he asks for more and more things from the tree. The tree loves the little boy and gives everything she can. Although the tree willingly gives to the boy, he never seems to be fulfilled and she grows increasingly sadder. I won't give away the ending but it's poignant and tender and the more I think about it, really sad for a children's story. What I take from the story, and what I try to subtly convey to my kids when I read it, is that giving is good and important. And we should give what we can because it makes us happy to do so.

At this time of the year, I think it's important to emphasize the "giving" nature of the holidays and not so much the "receiving" part. The Children's Book Review is taking the message to heart and our kind and generous leader has decided to take part in the Pajama Program (http://www.pajamaprogram.org/) a non-profit organization that provides new pajamas and new books to children in need in the United States. 


Leave us a comment: What does The Giving Tree mean to you and your family?

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17. 3 Kids Picture Books that Teach Good Manners, Just in Time for the Holidays

By Bianca Schulze, The Children's Book Review
Published: December 8, 2009

Manners, manners, manners. The oh-so important skill: manners! We need them all year round but somehow they seem extra important during the holiday season. Here are a couple of books that have an encouragingly humorous take on socially acceptable behavior. I have read each one and give my complete seal of approval. I've included the publisher's synopsis for your benefit, thank you!

Thanks a LOT, Emily Post!

Thanks a LOT, Emily Post!

by Jennifer Larue Huget (Author), Alexandra Boiger (Illustrator)

Reading level: Ages 4-8

Hardcover: 40 pages

Publisher: Schwartz & Wade; 1 edition (September 22, 2009)

Source: Publisher

Publisher's synopsis: A hilarious look at good (and bad) behavior!

Based on Emily Post’s bestselling etiquette book, published in 1922, here’s an uproarious picture book that takes rules about behavior and turns them upside down. When Mother brings home Post’s big blue book—it’s all about minding your manners—there sure are a lot of new rules to follow: No slumping in chairs, no leaning on your elbows at the table, no shouting at the top of your lungs. Mother is delighted, but the kids are not. What they need is a clever plan to get rid of that pesky book once and for all. But how? Turns out the answer’s easy—they just have to play by the rules.

With actual quotes and characters from Post’s book woven into the story, here’s an uproarious look at being on your best behavior . . . and on your worst!

Add this book to your collection: Thanks a LOT, Emily Post!

Do Unto Otters: A Book About Manners

Do Unto Otters: A Book About Manners

by Laurie Keller

Reading level: Ages 4-8

Paperback: 40 pages

Publisher: Square Fish; Reprint edition (September 1, 2009)

Source: Purchased

Publisher's synopsis: “Do not do to others that which would anger you if others did it to you.”

—Socrates (the Greek philosopher), circa 470-399 B.C.

Mr. Rabbit’s new neighbors are Otters.
OTTERS!
But he doesn’t know anything about otters. Will they get along? Will they be friends?
Just treat otters the same way you’d like them to treat you, advises Mr. Owl.

In her smart, playful style Laurie Keller highlights how to be a good friend and neighbor—simply follow the Golden Rule!

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18. Finding new ways to connect with our kids

By Luisa LaFleur, The Children's Book Review
Published: December 3, 2009

I think all parents have a moment when we wonder what happened to the little baby we used to cradle in our arms? I know I've had many of these and my kids are still preschoolers. Yet, time flies and those little defenseless babies now have minds of their own, with their own wants and needs--and boy do they let me know exactly what it is they want/need. But not all kids are the same and sometimes it takes work to figure them out and to reconnect with them. Two new books give us just such a chance--one book does so in form and the other in function.

A Talent For Quiet

A Talent for Quiet

by Kim Chatel (Author/Photographer)

Reading level: Ages 7-12

Paperback: 32 pages

Publisher: Guardian Angel Publishing (February 5, 2009)

Source of book: Author

What to expect: Difficulty forming relationships, shared experiences, photography

A Talent for Quiet by Kim Chatel tells the story of a shy girl who's a little scared of disappointing her new step dad, Bill. Despite Bill's attempts to build a connection, little Reanie remains wary. Bill tries several tactics but eventually finds success when he invites Reanie on a "photo safari." He is a skilled photographer who teaches Reanie how to handle a camera and by inspiring her confidence forges a strong bond with his new daughter. Ms. Chatel's book is filled with beautiful photographs of wildlife that accompany the text and help the reader visualize the bond that is being built between father and daughter. There is also a handy manual at the end of the book with pointers for budding photographers. The book gives us a great idea for reconnecting with our older children: building a connection is as simple as sharing the things we're passionate about.

Sheviarnold Dan Quixote: Boy of Nuevo Jersey

by Shevi Arnold (Author/producer)

Reading level: Ages 8-12

Audio book available on Kindle, CD and MP3, approximately 3 hours long

Publisher: Play Along Media (upcoming January 2010)

Source of book: Author

What to expect: Tween issues, not fitting in, bullies

In Dan Quixote: Boy of Nuevo Jersey by Shevi Arnold, we're given a chance to reconnect with our kids by way of function. This is an audio book and what better way to pass the time during a long car ride but by sharing an entertaining "listen". The story is a fun tale about a 13-year-old boy and his best friend and the adventures they share in New Jersey. The story takes on some difficult issues, such as bullying and peer pressure and the difficulties of staying true to yourself, and handles them with humor. The

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19. 2 Books to Ruffle Your Feathers with Ambition

By Bianca Schulze, The Children's Book Review Published: September 14, 2009 Chicken Dance by Tammi Sauer (Author), Dan Santat (Illustrator) Reading level: Ages 4-8 Hardcover: 36 pages Publisher: Sterling (August 1, 2009) What to expect: Talent Shows, Ability, Chickens, Domestic animals, Humor In life, we always find groups. Groups of like-minded beings (animals and people). Groups typically stick together because of race or breed, some stick together because of shared talents. It is usually these shared talents that give us purpose and sheer enjoyment in life. Sometimes we like to try new things and set new goals. And, sometimes our goals feel out of reach, especially when others are trying their hardest to bring us down. When this happens, we often just need a little inspiration. When Marge and Lola, two chickens, enter a talent contest to win tickets to see "Elvis Poultry" live in concert, they have to dig deep to overcome a flock of taunting ducks so that they can find the talent they posses within themselves. When times get tough, Marge and Lola find inspiration in the cows who jump over the moon! Do they win the talent contest? No story spoiling here, sorry! What I will... Read the rest of this post

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20. 5 Reasons to Love Dr. Seuss

By Bianca Schulze, The Children's Book Review Published: September 3, 2009 “If you never did you should. These things are fun and fun is good” ~ Dr. Seuss One sunny day, while swimming in a pool, my husband and I overheard a lady proclaiming to the world that Dr. Seuss' books were absurd and should not be read to children. Her reason: incorrect use of the English language. Oh lady, you've really missed the whole point, haven't you?! Here are five reasons you should love Dr. Seuss, including their absurdity: 1. Great for Beginning Readers and Mastering Phonics A child who is learning to read is learning to connect the sounds that go with letters, so that he can then put them together to make words, which then become sentences. Repeating sounds frequently help a child master this skill. Dr. Seuss is the master of repetitive sounds and engaging stories, while using limited vocabulary -- an ideal book for a beginning reader. A good example: Hop on Pop. 2. Great Read-Aloud Books Dr. Seuss' books sound great when they are read aloud, thanks to his clever rhyming. Did you know that reading to an infant helps with brain development, speech... Read the rest of this post

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21. What is Hiding on Your Mother In-Law's Book Shelf? Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle

By Bianca Schulze, The Children's Book Review Published: September 2, 2009 Happy, happy, joy, joy! This is what was hiding in a box of books at my Mother In-Law's house: Photo Credit: Bianca Schulze Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle by Betty MacDonald (Author), Hilary Knight (Illustrator) Edition: Stated Second Impression, Second Printing Binding: Hardcover Publisher: J.B. Lippincott company Date published: 1957??? I love Virginia Kirkus' review of Hello, Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle, located at the back of the book, on the dust cover: "... the conversation sparkles with the kind of adult joking children love to mimic and with humorous comments on the more trying times of childhood. Hilary Knight's drawings add a benevolent malevolence." You can check out the latest edition at The Children's Book Review Store. So, tell me what's hiding on your mother in-law's book shelf? What good finds have you found?

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22. Back-to-School Book Picks: 2009 Edition

By Bianca Schulze, The Children's Book Review Published: September 1, 2009 Back-to-school is a season in itself and is currently in full-swing. Like me, you probably had an inbox full to the brim with back-to-school newsletters and shopping discounts. I decided to share with you some of the great books that I picked out from my favorite e-mails, followed by a few additions made by moi. Picks from the Horn Book Newsletter Tyrannosaurus Math by Michelle Markel (Author), Doug Cushman (Illustrator) Reading level: Ages 6-9 Hardcover: 32 pages Publisher: Tricycle Press (July 14, 2009) Publisher's synopsis: This T-Rex was born with number smarts! Youngsters ages 6-9 will get a peek at his number-crunching skills as he adds up an entire herd of triceratops, or multiplies the legs of a group of ankylosaurs, & estimates the distance to his next tasty meal. Delightful & humorous introduction to more than ten math skills. TCBR Review: "The story combines dinosaurs and prehistoric daily life with basic math concepts that will surely encourage even the most reluctant math students. Any dinosaur-enthusiast will love the detailed illustrations of the many different dinosaurs that our math whiz encounters on a daily basis." Add this book to... Read the rest of this post

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23. The Importance of Being Different

By Luisa LaFleur, The Children's Book Review Published: August 21, 2009 Try as we might, we can't all be the smartest, fastest, prettiest...we are ourselves and sometimes that can be hard to accept. But it's a life lesson that must be learned and as parents we can try to make the lesson a little easier by pointing out that being different is the spice of life. It's what makes every day interesting. We've all got our own talents and strengths. The key is finding what they are. Three books that focus on the theme of acceptance are Pink!, Patulous The Different Caterpillar, and Bob the Lizard. All three books help kids see that even though they're different, they'll still be accepted and have friends. Pink! by Lynne Rickards (Author), Margaret Chamberlain (Illustrator) Reading level: Ages 4-8 Hardcover: 32 pages Publisher: The Chicken House (January 1, 2009) In Pink!, by Lynn Richards, we meet Patrick, a little penguin who wakes up one morning and realizes his world has been turned upside down. He's turned pink, you see, in a world of black-and-white penguins. No one can explain why he's turned pink and he becomes painfully aware that he no longer fits... Read the rest of this post

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24. Chasing away the nighttime blues

By Luisa LaFleur, The Children's Book Review Published: July 24, 2009 Little ones having trouble sleeping? Afraid of what lurks in the shadowy corners of their rooms? That puny night light isn't enough? Then fear not! Two recently published books purport to help our little ones sleep soundly in the peace and comfort of their own beds. What sleep-deprived parent wouldn't be interested in these? Especially given that both books were created with the help of developmental psychologists and other childhood experts. I know I was quick to try them out! Bye Bye Monster by Kelly Lucente (Author), Mary Horan (Author), Tim Brazier (Illustrator) Reading level: Ages 1-10 Hardcover: 32 pages Publisher: Beaver's Pond Press (December 10, 2008) The first one, Bye Bye Monster by Kelli Lucente, tells the story of little Joey. He tries to go to sleep but he hears strange noises in the night. And lo and behold, there is a strange monster lurking in his dresser drawer....but this is a different kind of monster. He's a good guy and he shows Joey there's really nothing to fear. The story is entertaining and the illustrations portray the various monsters in non-threatening ways. There are additional products one... Read the rest of this post

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25. The Higher Power of Lucky & Lucky Breaks: Susan Patron

By Bianca Schulze, The Children's Book Review
Published: July 14, 2009

I recently received a copy of Lucky Breaks by Susan Patron, and there was no way I was going to read the sequel before reading its predecessor -- one of the most discussed books of recent time -- The Higher Power of Lucky.

I'm just going to go ahead and acknowledge the elephant in the room, "scrotum." There, I said it, "scrotum, scrotum, scrotum." If you're already shocked, then you probably missed the controversial event of The Higher Power of Lucky being banned from schools and libraries for its use of the word scrotum -- even though it had been awarded the prestigious Newbery Medal -- you may not want to read any further. But first consider these words from The New York Times article, With One Word, Children's Book Sets Off Uproar:

Pat Scales, a former chairwoman of the Newbery Award committee, said that declining to stock the book in libraries was nothing short of censorship.

“The people who are reacting to that word are not reading the book as a whole,” she said. “That’s what censors do — they pick out words and don’t look at the total merit of the book.”


While I can certainly understand teachers and school librarians not wanting to deliver a lesson in anatomy of the "private parts" (that can be left for Health Educators), when you look at the "total merit" of the book, it would be a shame for children who are true lovers of literacy to miss Susan Patron's Lucky trilogy. Her characters are so emotionally exposed and real -- they have a depth that often lacks in children's books. In my opinion, the Lucky series is this generations version of Judy Blume's Are You There God? It's Me Margaret. After reading the first two books in the trilogy, I feel completely connected and look forward to the last installment.


The Higher Power of Lucky

The Higher Power of Lucky

by Susan Patron (Author), Matt Phelan (Illustrator)

Reading level:
Ages 9-12

Hardcover:
144 pages

Publisher:
Atheneum/Richard Jackson Books (November 7, 2006)

What to expect: Abandonment, Interpersonal relations, Runaways

Living in a small rural town of California, Hard Pan, Lucky is surrounded by a colorful and eccentric collection of friends and neighbors. Patron has highlighted the surrounding characters with clarity. Each one stands alone, but also helps define, strengthen, and deeply connect the reader to Lucky. Lucky's mom has passed away; her dad, who is practically non-existent, has arranged for his ex-wife to come from France to become Lucky's guardian. As you can imagine, Lucky has some abandonment issues combined with grief, which is why she is searching for a higher power of lucky. As the story unravels, emotions run high and low, but always the story flows. Patron's attention to detail is precise and accurate; for example, I love that five-year-old Miles is described as taking tiny steps so as not to step in the cracks of the linoleum. Topped off with excellent line drawings by Matt Phelan, pitch-perfect in an unconventional way is all that I can say.

Publisher's synopsis:
Lucky, age ten, can’t wait another day. The meanness gland in her heart and the crevices full of questions in her brain make running away from Hard Pan, California (population 43), the rock-bottom only choice she has.

It’s all Brigitte’s fault–for wanting to go back to France. Guardians are supposed to stay put and look after girls in their care! Instead Lucky is sure that she’ll be abandoned to some orphanage in Los Angeles where her beloved dog, HMS Beagle, won’t be allowed. She’ll have to lose her friends Miles, who lives on cookies, and Lincoln, future U.S. president (maybe) and member of the International Guild of Knot Tyers. Just as bad, she’ll have to give up eavesdropping on twelve-step anonymous programs where the interesting talk is all about Higher Powers. Lucky needs her own–and quick.

But she hadn’t planned on a dust storm.

Or needing to lug the world’s heaviest survival-kit backpack into the desert.

Add this book to your collection: The Higher Power of Lucky


Lucky Breaks

Lucky Breaks

by Susan Patron (Author), Matt Phelan (Illustrator)

Reading level:
Ages 9-12

Hardcover:
192 pages

Publisher:
Ginee Seo Books (March 10, 2009)

What to expect: Friendship, Conflict, Interpersonal relations,

Just as clear, just as contemporary, Lucky Breaks confirms that Patron is an uber-talented author. The scene is set one year later, and Lucky is ready to grow-up and make some changes. However, change can be challenging. Using smart vocabulary -- yes, the word scrotum does appear -- and the addition of yet another well-developed character, a whole new adventure begins with perfect continuity. Lucky Breaks teaches the reader about inner strength and self-growth. Matt Phelan's pen, ink, and pencil illustrations are so well connected with the story. And after reading the gratifyingly polished ending, I was truly moved by the cover.
Only a learned higher power can overcome hardships and lead to a lucky break. I'm hooked on Lucky and all of the Hard Pan community!

Publisher's synopsis: On the eve of her eleventh birthday, Lucky wants to let loose and become intrepid; she's ready for life to change. But Hard Pan (population 43) drones on like it always has: Lincoln all tied up in knotty matters, Miles newly diagnosed as a genius but as needy as ever, Brigitte running her Café and trying to figure out what it means to be American.

Enter Paloma, tagging along on a visit to Hard Pan with a pack of hungry geologists. She's smart and pretty and fun -- definitely best-friend material. But will Lucky be able to cope with tomato worms, Short Sammy's mysterious box, the potential for disaster when Paloma's parents visit Hard Pan, and Lincoln's fame among knot tyers of the world?

Lucky's intrepidness is put to the test in this satisfying sequel to the Newbery Award-winning The Higher Power of Lucky.

Add this book to your collection: Lucky Breaks

Check out the full New York Times article, With One Word, Children's Book Sets Off Uproar, and then listen and watch what people have to say about Susan Patron:



If you like these books, you may also like: Savvy by Ingrid Law

Link of interest: Judy Blume Talks About Censorship

I'd love to know what you think about the books? Did you read them? Would you read them? Were you involved in the controversy? Did you ban the books from your library or bookstore? Did you blog about the books and receive any interesting, or perhaps crazy, comments? We'd love to here from you!

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