I cannot believe that tomorrow will be 4 years that I've been blogging and reviewing on Laura's Review Bookshelf. It hasn't always been easy and let me tell you, some times I just wanted to give up all together.
But I persevered and I've met so many great authors and bloggers and book lovers. I wouldn't change a thing. My first ever review on this blog was the fantabulously talented Jeannine Garsee. And she's been a great friend during all of this. She's been the one that I go to when there is some sort of blogging shit going down.
As a blogger, we've been accused of only doing it for free books. Well that couldn't be the furthest thing from the truth. We do it because a) we love to read; b) we really want to promote authors, especially new, debut authors.
One of my first relationships with a debut author was Michelle Zink. We emailed back forth and just became very friendly. She sent me a copy of her book a pretty much 18 months before
Prophecy of the Sisters came out and I fell in love with her gorgeous, moody, gothic writing. I've had lunch with Sarah Ockler. I've had drinks with Holly Black, David Levithan, Scott Westerfeld, Justine Larbalestier, Barry Lyga, Cassie Clare, Elizabeth Scott, Michael Northrup, Gordon Korman, Sara Zarr.
I have had such a great time blogging and meeting so many great authors especially at BEA. That is such a great time and I wouldn't miss it for the world.
So without much ado, I want to tell you how I am celebrating number 4:
I am giving away to one (1) person FINISHED copies of THOUGHTLESS & EFFORTLESS (Effortless will not be released from warehouse until 12/17). Publisher will mail.
I am giving away to one (1) person FINISHED copies of GABRIEL'S INFERNO & GABRIEL'S RAPTURE. Publisher will mail.
To one (1) person FINISHED copy of SIGNED DISASTROUS (sent by author)
To one (1) person BOUND MS of THE SEA OF TRANQUILITY (mailed out by me)
To one (1) person BOUND GALLEY of LOVE UNSCRIPTED (mailed out by me)
To one (1) person SIGNED COPIES of AVOIDING COMMITMENT & AVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY (mailed by author)
To two (2) separate people ebook copies of NOAH (5th Street Series, Book 1)
To two (2) separate people ebook copies of GIO (5th Street Series, Book 2)
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I am so happy that I was able to whip this wonderful anniversary together in such a short time. But my readers are the winners. I've read all of these books and they are absolutely wonderful and will make another reader so very happy. Plus it's perfect for the time of the season.
To all my readers, thank you for visiting my blog. I know it's not as snazzy or energetic as other blogs, but I enjoy doing what I do.
To all the authors, thank you so much for being a friend and allowing me to read and review your babies. I know how difficult it is to read reviews and I try to be fair and honest. I've been very lucky with books I have read. You are all wonderful people and I hope to be friends for many years.
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I've been thinking about how to address this subject because I mainly review young adult, however, I think most of my readership tends to be much older than the teens. I think that's just the way it goes. So, just to let everyone know I will be talking about sex, making love, fucking and anything else you want to call it. So be warned.
There's always been a divide between people who think sex doesn't belong in the young adult world (explicit), obviously, some of the antagonist and protags have sex but it seems to be behind the scenes. Or it can be written in a way that if you weren't quite understanding what was going on, you could gloss over it. One example I'll use is Melissa Marr's Wicked Lovely. Ash (our heroine) and Seth (the guy who is crazy about her) talk about sex. He's had it. Plenty of times. She hasn't. They're debating taking the relationship one step further. They've been getting closer and Melissa quietly states that Seth is kissing Ash where she's never been kissed before. Now, I'm not an idiot and I know that she was talking about oral sex. However, with her carefully worded sentence a naive teen would've just read it and moved on. So sex is there.
In Vampire Academy: Shadow Kiss. Dimitri and Rose finally give in to their feelings and during a moment when Rose is completely losing it, thinking she's going crazy, Dimitri is there to help her through it. But once she comes back to him. They make love. It's sweet, it's romantic and it's about time. We all sighed when those two crazy kids finally, FINALLY did the deed. Albeit, it was a short-lived happiness, but that's another story to tell.
So two examples for sex in YA. I know kinda boring, but it excites some teens.
I remember when I was a teen (long before the YA market exploded), I was reading Jackie Collins books under my blankets with a flashlight. There was something intriguing reading about the rich and famous and how they would jump from bed to bed. She, too, was very descriptive in her sex scenes. If the teen is old enough to know about sex and what it entails, then they're old enough to read about it.
I think a sex scene can be written extremely romantically and one thing the authors that are writing these books, have that down pat. Why shouldn't two people who love each other make love? If it's there in the story, then in between the lines of said story the two characters will eventually fall into bed. Why leave it at the end of the chapter to start a new chapter that begins with a glowing couple all sweated out and exhilarated? Obviously, some authors want to leave it up to the imagination of the reader to think of what sort of stuff is going on. But they're still writing about sex.
What's a passionate relationship without making love? Probably not as passionate as one would think. I think the reason why vampires became all the rage was because they could be sexual and sensual, and honestly, who doesn't want someone gorgeous sucking on your neck?!? I always took vampirism as a metaphor for sex, the need to taste, touch, own, possess. We know that Bella and Edward tease each other merciliessly with sex. His smouldering look, her touch, his kiss, etc. Even in Dracula, by Bram Stoker, he is a wholly sexual character.
With the advent of mature young adult and new adult (which I think is for those age groups 18-27)? We have characters who give in to their basest nature. These are college age kids who are finally free from parents' thumbs and want to enjoy life. They fuck, they have oral sex, they enjoy being with one another.
Unless you're doing the deed with your boyfriend's best friend. Then all sorts of shit hits the fan. Interesting segue for the book I just read and cannot recommend enough. If you're a fan of Beautiful Disaster, I think you'll like this one just as much.
Four years is a HUGE accomplishment!
Congratulations, Laura!
Congrats on 4 years!!! Many more to come.
Congrats on 4 years!!
Congrats on your 4 years!
Congratulations!!
Happy 4 years !.!.! :) looking forward to another 4 more years.
Congratulations on your 4 years blogoversary! Wishing you many more wonderful years and a continually growing base of readers!
Thanks for this amazing giveaway! :)
Best wishes,
Tess
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Congratulations!!! Very cool giveaway.
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Congrats on your 4 years !!!
Thanks for the giveaway!!!
Congrats on 4 years! I may not be able to enter the giveaway (Canadian) but I just wanted to say it's an awesome one and good luck to all others! :)
Also quickly just wanted to add that it's because of these blogs that I've read some of the books I have, some of which are on the giveaway list. Books that i've fallen in love with and recommended on more than one occasion so it's because of people like you and blogs like this that I read them in the first place and I just wanted to say Thank You for all the work and effort you put in as well!
Congratulations on this awesome milestone and many more to come.
Thank you for the giveaway!!!
Congratulations on 4 years! Thank you so much for the giveaway! :)
Congrats Laura!
Happy 4 years and many more to come. Amazing giveaway :)
Congratulations on 4 great years!
4 years, congratulations!! :)
COngratulations!!
Congrats of 4 years!! That's amazing. best wishes for many many more.
4 years is amazing. Congrats and cheers to 4 more, at least!
Congrats on 4 years and here's to many more
Congratulations! :)
Yeah! Here's to another 4!
Congratulations on your anniversary!!
Congrats on 4 years !!!
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Congratulations on your blog's success. And thanks for the giveaway.
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Congrats on the success of your blog. Happy Anniversary!
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Congrats on 4 years....!!!