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51. 50 Free E-Books for Your Reading Pleasure

Boy, are you going to have fun this weekend!

I’m only providing one resource this time. You’ll soon see why. This free gift will keep all of us happily reading for many weeks!

Read below:

What’s your favorite kind of book? We’ve created a giant flowchart to help you browse the top 50 free eBooks at Project Gutenberg… Your choices range from Charles Dickens to Jane Austen, from Sherlock Holmes to needlework. We’ve linked to all 50 free eBooks so you can start downloading right now. The books are available in all major eBook formats.

How to Choose

The list includes fiction and nonfiction of all genres. To help you decide which books you’d like to download (e-book or audio), they’ve created a flow chart for you to figure out which titles match your personal interests.

It is divided into fiction and nonfiction, then helps you decide further with suggestions like “I love history” or “I love self-help books” (nonfiction) or “I love literary fiction” or “I love mystery” (fiction). Just follow the arrows to the free titles you’re most likely to enjoy.

Follow this link for a larger “flow chart” if you don’t want to read through the whole list of free books. If the type is too tiny for you to read, click on the “view” button, top left, and make the flow chart bigger. Then find the titles in the list and follow the links for downloading your favorite classics.

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52. How’s the Work Going? It All Depends

We commonly ask other writers, “How’s the story coming along?” or “How’s the work going?”

What exactly do we mean by “work” when we ask that?

Now? Today? This Year?

It usually means one of three things:

  1. We may be talking about our work right now. Right this minute, the writing is going well–or it’s dragging or we’re blocked.
  2. We may be talking about our creative work on any given day. We decide the writing is going well if we meet our goals for the day. (e.g. to write 1,000 words, or to revise the story ending, or to research a character’s occuption) It doesn’t matter what the size of the goal is. But as long as we meet whatever goal we set for ourselves, it’s a successful writing day.
  3. We may be talking about how our writing is going in general. It covers a length of time, like, “How has your writing gone over the summer?” Or “How is your writing career going?”

Criteria for Successful Work

“To feel as if they are measuring up,” says Eric Maisel in Fearless Creating, “artists must meet their own standards in each regard.”

So, how do we decide how the writing is going? How do we measure success in these three areas?

It’s personal. And it’s totally up to you.

  1. Is your writing going well right now? That depends on what makes a successful writing experience for you. Is it flowing? Are you having fun? Are you producing at least 500 words every thirty minutes? Choose your own criteria for success.
  2. Did your writing go well today? Did you meet your quota of words or pages by the end of the day? Did you have fun? Did you persevere despite interruptions? Choose your own criteria for a successful writing day.
  3. How is your work going in general? Are you getting better (deeper characters, snappier dialogue, whatever) with each book? Are you getting bigger advances? Are you winning awards? Choose your own criteria for a successful writing career.

Bear in mind that you can be UNsuccessful right now, or have an UNsuccessful day, but overall have a successful career. There can be any combination. Sometimes my writing is going well right now (I’m having fun, and the words are flowing), but later I get interrupted and don’t meet my daily goal, so I don’t feel I had a successful day.

I’d be interested to know how you judge your work in these three areas. How’s YOUR writing going?

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53. Friday’s Weekend Pick-Me-Up

If you’re one of today’s busy mom-writers, and you’re frustrated with some of the time management tips you read, you’ll LOVE this post! “Time management tips that’ll work for your life” tells it like it is for any writer trying to maintain healthy relationships as well as write. She calls it “time management for people who have a real life.”

 

Another article called “How I got a big advance from a big publisher and self-published anyway” is a breath of fresh air. You have to admire her reasoning, her guts, and her decision.

 

One last boost for your weekend is a free ebook from Mark McGuinnes called Freedom, Time, Money and the Key to Creative Success.

 

Enjoy the reading–and have a wonderful weekend!

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54. Writer’s Block Is My Friend?

The last few months I have been blaming writer’s block on a physical issue that was causing ongoing pain and exhaustion. Surgery fixed the issue recently—but unfortunately, the block remained.

I tried all my old tried-and-(mostly)-true methods of breaking a block. I assumed the cause stemmed from some lazy habits I picked up in 2012.

I just needed to crack down on myself, right? Whip myself into shape!

Things I Tried That Failed

I tried. Honestly, I did. I used the Promodoro Method of writing for 25 minutes and resting 5 minutes. I tried changing locations, cutting distractions by writing in the library study where I had no access to the Internet or TV.

I worked in the mornings, my optimal writing time. I got back on the treadmill, exercising to clear my foggy brain. I made elaborate spreadsheets of long- and short-term word quota goals to hold myself accountable.

None of these ideas worked. Panic threatened.

How had I ruined my writing discipline in less than a year?

Wrong Diagnosis Equals Wrong Solution

This past year as my health got worse, I tried to diagnose the cause. I ate much better, I exercised, I limited time online, I limited social outings… Nothing worked. Why? None of those things actually addressed my night-time severe headaches, which turned out to be caused by “acute angle glaucoma.” The solution was laser surgery on both eyes to eliminate the pressure. Voila! Problem solved!

What does that have to do with writer’s block? Just this.

Writer’s block creates a similar problem. It has many causes, so a one-size-fits-all solution…doesn’t fit all. (I should have known this! My article “A Block by Any Other Name” deals with this very subject.)

Writer’s Block Outside the Box

One author gives a very interesting twist to the problem. Cec Murphey in Unleash the Writer Within says writer’s block can be your friend. He poses a couple of questions:

• What if writer’s block is a symptom and not a cause of the problem?

• What if writer’s block comes from some wise, inner part of myself that wants to help me?

Writer’s block is a blockage you can’t seem to push past. Cec Murphey suggests that you ask yourself: What is going on inside me that stops me from writing? (Then wait for the answer.)

Think of writer’s block as a gift, Murphey says, a powerful force to help you regulate the creative process. It comes from within and has something to teach you.

Pay attention, wait, and listen.

The “Friendly” Writer’s Block

So how did that idea work for me? Beautifully, actually.

I tried it, and it took a couple days of waiting until I realized the problem. I had done tons of character and theme work on my novel outline, but my plot was thin. And since it is a mystery, the weak plot is a big deal.

There was no point in pushing through the block and forcing myself to write. I had a fully clothed mannequin of a novel outline, but much of the underlying skeleton (structure) was weak.

Right Diagnosis = Right Solution

Once I realized the reason for the block, I knew what to do. It took a week, but additional research provided a great plot twist and another subplot. Writer’s block was my friend, as it turned out.

It’s a new way to look at a writer’s age-old problem. And I think it’s going to be my first line of defense after this.

 

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55. The Name of the Game: FOCUS

The most common question I get during the summer deals with productivity–or the lack thereof.

If that’s your struggle this summer, I found some things you might want to try!

Help is On the Way

Do you need to put the “prod” into your productivity? Then I’ve got the little tool for you! It’s called Write or Die, and there is an online version or a downloadable version. Write or Die is a web application that encourages writing by punishing the tendency to avoid writing. Start typing in the box. As long as you keep typing, you’re fine, but once you stop typing, you have a grace period of a certain number of seconds and then there are consequences.

 

Focus Booster is a free download that helps you focus! You can also use it online if you don’t want to download anything. “Focus booster is a simple and elegant application designed to help you eliminate the anxiety of time and enhance your focus and concentration.”

 

And if those don’t work for you, there are half a dozen MORE apps to help you focus on your writing in an article called “Quit Wasting Time Now”. Some are free, and some cost a small fee.

Fun? Effective?

If you try any of these focusing helps, please report back to us on the pros and cons. I’m willing to give almost anything a try, if it will help me focus on my writing better!

 

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56. Your Writing Time Budget

Because of a health issue this year (fixed recently by surgery), my energy has been at an all-time low for months.

During 2012, I slowed down–a lot. My writing time seemed to disappear daily down a black hole. I had multiple projects outlined–but little written.

Mostly because of exhaustion, I’ve picked up some bad time (mis)management habits. Now that I feel better, I know I need to get control of my writing hours back.

It Isn’t Easy!

How do you get back on a writing schedule when life has derailed you for months? The answer is simple, although not necessarily easy.

You stop making default choices just because you’re out of the habit of thinking through your actions and consequences. And you stop letting others make “time choices” for you.

In short, you budget your time.

Time is Like Money: a Limited Resource

Think of time (a resource that isn’t unlimited) like your income (which is likely not unlimited either).

Most of us learned how to budget years ago, when first leaving home. We discovered that we didn’t have nearly enough money to do or buy all the things we wished we had. If you were lucky enough to grow up before credit cards, or you had parents like mine who taught you that you didn’t buy things until you had the money saved up, then budgeting comes naturally. It might never be fun, but you can do it.

Depending on your values and priorities, you will spend your income in a certain order. At our house, our tithes and offerings come out first. This is followed immediately by those things we don’t want to forfeit: a roof over our heads (mortgage), food on the table, electricity and water, etc. (And books!)

Only after the money is budgeted for necessities do we decide what to do with the discretionary money. That includes the “wants” we have that aren’t “needs,” like eating out, going to movies, and taking trips.

Money is limited, so we budget. We understand that. But time is limited too. And if you don’t budget time along the same principles (non-negotiable spending and discretionary spending), you won’t have time to write.

The Writing Time Budget: How-To

First, you must decide what is most important in your time allotment. If you have a day job or small children to care for, those are certainly non-negotiables. Look at your calendar and a detailed day planner of some kind (even a spreadsheet will work). Mark all those hours in your week and month that are NOT spoken for by things truly outside your control.

If you have other major commitments, the time you get to budget for writing may not be huge, but that’s okay. Mark all time that would be free to write if you chose to: evenings or weekend hours available, nap times, commute times, while the family sleeps, etc. Those hours are what you get to budget.

My family comes before my writing, so some of my hours go to babysitting grandkids (some weekly, others less often). Some time goes to my husband, some to my church, some to my neighborhood. I have gone overboard a bit in the past and had to cut back some, but they still come first.

Second, even though this sounds like it will ruin your time budget, you need to set aside time IN YOUR CALENDAR for yourself. I didn’t do this for years, but no one is indestructible. No one. And recovering from severe burnout can take months–many more hours than if you had taken care o

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57. Before You Go Off the Deep End: Social Networking in Balance

First, thank you to everyone who posted to the discussion this week on “Social Networking Burnout, OR How Much Marketing is Enough?”

So many great suggestions were given, and I learned a lot from you.

Caution! Caution!

Before you jump into the deep end of marketing and drown, I want to insert a voice of reason. Please read the following two articles.

The first one will help you stay sane and not fry your brain cells online. The second one will be a nurturing–and honest–assessment of social networking (the kind where you actually talk to people, like at conferences.)

Both articles, if taken seriously, can either prevent you from going insane with all this (if you haven’t jumped into it yet) OR help you regain your sanity if you’re already part of the social networking whirlwind.

Read Slowly…

First, read Michael Hyatt’s article “What the Internet Is Doing to Our Brains (And What We Can Do About It).” It’s both a podcast (if you want to listen) and an article (if you’d rather read it). Michael Hyatt is author of the bestselling marketing book Platform. His article is a summary and response to the five-webpage Newsweek article called “Is the Web Driving Us Mad?” [If you have time to read the Newsweek article too, it's good. Very chilling about the effects on children.]

Second, you’ll love “The Day Networking Died” by Emily Freeman. I could feel my high blood pressure dropping as I read the post. If social networking leaves you feeling a bit panicky, you’ll feel better after reading this!

 

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58. Social Networking Burnout, OR How Much Marketing is Enough?

networkAccording to an article in Writer’s Digest three summers ago (“The Must-Have Online Marketing Plan” by M.J. Rose), “Ultimately, no matter what you do, careers are made on the book, not on the marketing.”

That’s very true. Just as true is this statement from the same article: “Someone–either you or your publisher–is going to have to get the word out about the book.”

More and more often, that “someone” is the author. That article was written three years ago…but the dilemma of “how much marketing is enough?” has still not been resolved.

Today’s Publishing Reality

More and more, today’s author is expected to do his part in the marketing. Marketing plans must be part of your query or proposal now–no matter how much you’ve been published.

It can include (but not be limited to) creating a website, writing a blog, making video trailers, doing blog tours, getting your book reviewed online, writing a newsletter…AND being active on Facebook and Pinterest and Goodreads.

Why Social Networking?

Until I heard several speakers at a leadership conference a few years ago, I’d avoided most social networking because of the time it took. I was very “hit and miss” with Twitter and Facebook and LinkedIn until I discovered SocialOomph.com, which let me schedule posts and tweets for a week at a time.

According to those market gurus, a high percentage of people check Facebook accounts four times more often than their email. (I’m sure it’s much, much more often now.) Social networking appears to be the new way to connect with people–including your readers (now called your “tribe,” a term I heartily dislike.)

I have a private family Facebook account, although I have my doubts anymore about just how private anything is online. And I have a writer’s Facebook account and what they used to call a “fan page.” I finally set up my LinkedIn account, my Amazon author page, and Pinterest account. I tried Goodreads three times and got kicked off each time…more rejection to deal with! Ha ha.

The Times, They Are a-Changin’…Again!

We writers feel the pressure to learn and use all the marketing and networking opportunities, but is there no limit? How much time do YOU devote to marketing (daily or weekly)? How do you decide which sites to try, and which ones to leave until later?

If you have time, leave a comment below about your own social networking and marketing experiences. Which avenues have worked best for you? Which ones do you actually enjoy? How do you keep from using more time than you intended? (I literally missed a meal the first time I got on Pinterest! My eyes were nearly bloodshot when I logged off.)

What are the pluses and minuses you’ve encountered? Looking forward to your ideas!

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59. Weekend Gem

Just for fun–or maybe for some decorating ideas–you’ve got to see these “15 Extraordinary Home Offices.”

Do you have a favorite?

My first office thirty-some years ago was like the blue walk-in closet office shown in the article–only I painted it orange.

Sorry so short, but I had eye surgery yesterday on both eyes (and it went beautifully!) but I need to get offline now.

So enjoy the offices–and leave a note about your favorite!

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60. Success: Maintain and Move Ahead

lossMy best friend (who once lost 100 pounds) leads a successful weekly weight loss group. This week she and I discussed how much time it takes to stay on top of habits you are changing.

Sometimes I am shocked at how much time it takes to maintain your success. (Not move ahead, mind you. Just not go backwards.) I was struck by the similarities of her discovery and my own (pertaining to new writing habits.)

Be Warned!

Just as it’s easy to regain weight you’ve lost, it’s also easy to slip back into the old habits that left you with no time or energy to write. It’s oh-so-easy to slowly slide backwards. You’ve made a lot of gains—but you also must maintain. How?

Ultimately, the answer lies in how you think.

Single-Minded Focus

“There are approximately 5 percent of people in any country, in any nation, who will always raise the quality of their life above others. They so do because they choose how to think, day in, day out,” says Richard Bisiker, author of Unlock Your Personal Potential.

In other words, where the mind (or thinking) goes, the man follows. Raise the quality of your thinking, and raise the quality of your life.

It’s important to keep your mind focused daily on your new beliefs, your new boundaries, and your new time-saving policies. Why is monitoring your thinking so important? As psychologist William James said, “That which holds our attention determines our action.”

So, at least until all your new behaviors and attitudes are rock solid habits, pay attention daily to your new beliefs and goals. Each morning, plan ahead daily for interruptions and how to divert them. (“No, I can’t discuss that right now. I’ll phone you back at 5:00 p.m. and set up a time to talk.”) Or better yet, use your answering machine to avoid being pressured into snap decisions.

Review

Weekly and monthly, study your schedule of how you actually spent your time and compare it to your goals and policies. Is there slippage? Where did the writing time go?

Did you get guilted into one more volunteer job or another home decorating party? Did you rescue someone again from consequences of their own actions, using your time to fix their self-created problem? Be ruthless as you examine how you actually spent your time.

Learn from both your successes and mistakes. What things worked that you’d like to repeat? What things would you like to change? Calendars and journals remind you of how you spent your time, show you whether your activities match your priorities, and help you see whether you are making progress.

If you’re not sure you’ll do this essential checking up, find an accountability partner (writer or nonwriter) who will ask you the hard questions every week. The accountability check-in for time spent writing will prevent bad habits from sneaking back in unnoticed.

Setbacks Before Success

Sometimes interruptions occur that no one can help or avoid. You need to drop everything and attend to your sick child. Or there’s been a car accident, or in-laws have arrived for the holidays. The key to rebounding from these necessary interruptions is to view them as one-time events—not your new lifestyle. The events have a beginning, a middle, and an ending. Then you go back to your previous writing schedule.

You do not stay stuck in the familiar people-pleasing role. See unavoidable interruptions as temporary

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61. Achieving Writing Goals Made Simple

Trying to write during the summer–or anytime, really–is such a challenge. Interruptions come in a dozen shapes and sizes.

The following article has a brilliant answer to the problem–and is brilliant in its simplicity. (I didn’t write it, but full credits are at the end.)

I wish I’d thought of this years ago!

[Thank you, Randy Ingermanson.]

 

“Organizing: Taming Unpredictability”

If you’ve ever tried to make a daily plan and stick to it, you’ve learned an annoying fact about plans: Life happens. Life happens in all sorts of unpredictable ways:

  • You need one extra fact for the scene you’re writing, so you go browsing the web and discover that it’s way more complicated than you thought. You spend the afternoon rethinking your plot.
  • You get an emergency email from your editor that you MUST deal with right away, and you burn three hours of your day putting out a fire that you didn’t even know existed when you made your daily plan.
  • Your computer’s hard drive starts making horrible noises, and it turns out to need a trip to the geek shop. Even with a rush order to fix it, you lose two days.

These kinds of things happen all the time to writers. You probably had at least a couple of days with unexpected roadblocks last week. You’ll probably have at least a couple of them this week. And every week for the rest of your life. That’s just how things are.

How are you supposed to stick to a daily plan when things like these happen?

My opinion is that you can’t.

Stuff is always going to happen. Unpredictable stuff.

What’s the Answer?

Here’s what I’ve been doing lately to keep my head in the game when the game keeps going awry: I still make a daily plan of things I’d like to get done, but I write this daily plan second.

What I do first is to write a WEEKLY plan. On Monday, my first task is to write down a list of the things I think I can get done during the week.

If I get them all done by the end of the day on Friday, then the week is a success.

It’s OK if bad stuff happens two days out of the week. Matter of fact, even three bad days isn’t a tragedy. Three bad days is normal.

I’ve found that I can almost always count on having at least one or two Xtremely productive days each week. I just can’t ever know in advance which days they’ll be.

When you have a day where everything goes right, you whip through your list at light speed.

I’m having a super-productive day today, as a matter of fact. Tomorrow might be horrible, but today is going great.

In one excellent day, you can get half your week’s work done. If you get only one terrific day per week, you’ll probably get most of the things done on your weekly list. If you get lucky and have TWO great days in a week, you can almost guarantee that you’ll knock everything off your weekly list.

Try This Experiment

  • For the rest of this week, make a daily list. Count the number of days you actually finish everything on that list.
  • Next week on Monday morning make a list of the core things you’d like to get done for the week — the minimal set of achievements that would make the week a success. Continue making a daily list each day and continue counting the number of days that you get that list all done.

You might not have a single “successful” day (in which you get your entire daily list done). However, you will probably have at least one and possibly as many as two highly

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62. The Art of Fighting Fear

fear“Do the thing you fear, and the death of fear is certain.” (Ralph Waldo Emerson)

I’ve been re-reading James Scott Bell’s excellent book The Art of War for Writers, and he says that “the biggest mental obstacle–in writing, in war, in life itself–is fear.”

I would agree 100%.

How do we fear writing?

Let me count the ways… Bell mentions several kinds of fear that plague writers. Do you find yourself in this list? Do you have additional fears?

Fear of:

  • not being good enough
  • not getting published
  • getting published but not selling
  • getting published once but never again
  • getting stomped by critics
  • getting stomped by family members
  • wasting your time

The Quality of Fearlessness

Bell wrote about the young Teddy Roosevelt who was a sick, frail, fearful child–and what changed him into the fearless leader of history. Basically, he learned the old adage of “fake it till you make it” or “act as if.” Bell says that fearful writers become fearless writers in the same way.

Sure, you will set goals and get prepared. And (if you’re like me) you’ll pray for help. But in the end you will need to act as if you’re a successful, fearless writer until (over time) your feelings catch up with your behavior and you actually become one.

Start Today

When fear in some form hits you today, what immediate action step could you take in the face of that fear? How would a professional, successful writer deal with that fear?

What is one way you can channel that fear into energy for your writing?

Be fearless today and, as battle buddies, share one tip you’ve used successfully to win the war on the many fears of writing.

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63. Encouragement for the Writer in You

Are you ready for some weekend encouragement?

Does your writing energy need a boost?

Look no more!

Encouragement Just Ahead

Read these articles to encourage yourself on the writing journey.

“Loving the Craft When We Tire of Writing” is such an honest article. Here’s one quote:

Let’s face it, every writer everywhere has known his (her) fair share of tough times. The words won’t come, the story dries up, or we grow weary from the process… It doesn’t mean we no longer love what we do. It does mean that we can still love the craft of writing, but be exhausted from effort expended. Especially when life happens.

Consider starting a Success Journal. It sounds like a daily help, and re-reading it from time to time should be a boost to one’s self-confidence.

Here’s an inspiring story of one writer’s break into traditional publishing: “A Dream Goes On Forever.”

“Writing for the Market”: why or why not? Food for thought here.

Do you dream of getting a lot of writing done on vacation? Here are some tips on making realistic goals–and then achieving them! “Make Vacation Work for You.”

Enjoy your weekend! Be encouraged!

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64. Enough is Enough: Fighting to Focus

refrigeratorAfter receiving a couple of pieces of very unwelcome news early last week, it took me several days to regain my writing focus.

Most mornings were spent getting my mental, emotional and spiritual act together, which resulted in having to work till very late at night to meet some deadlines. I got the work done, but I didn’t enjoy any of it.

Today something else happened. This time I found myself very mad–at ME.

Time for a Change

None of the situations were my fault. I didn’t cause them, I couldn’t cure them, and I can’t control what certain people are still doing. So it really, really irritated me that I spent so many hours this past week thinking, reading, praying, and journaling about it.

I’ve always been this way, as far back as age four, the earliest I can remember. Obsessive thinking doesn’t help the other person, and it sure doesn’t help me. It robs us of hours and hours of productive, HAPPY times. And for writers, it steals our time to write, our relaxed ability to create, and the focus so necessary for our projects.

Enough is Enough! Focus!

Yesterday I read a quote that really got me to thinking. In The Little Book of Letting Go by Hugh Prather, it said: “We talk to children about the ‘power of the imagination.’ We attend seminars that tell us our minds have immense reserves of untapped capacity. All in all, we have done a superb job of kidding ourselves that in our roomy ‘attic’ all is useful, worth keeping, and in good repair. But if we observe our minds closely for just one hour, we see that instead of a boundless chamber of magic and wonder, our minds are more like stuffed and stodgy refrigerators that emit peculiar odors.”

It’s time to clean out my refrigerator. I’ve come to realize that all this obsessive thinking and worrying is a life-long bad habit. It’s not a mental illness that needs a pill. It’s not an emotional illness that needs counseling. It’s a bad habit–and habits can be broken.

Identify the Culprit First

I’ve broken lots of harmful habits in the past, and nearly every time it involved discovering the lie I was believing about something. We all have them. (The obese person may believe the lie that “gorging myself will bring comfort.” The procrastinator believes the lie that “I work better under pressure.” The rescuing mom believes the lie that her grown children shouldn’t/couldn’t be responsible for themselves.)

Time to dig into this stinky “mind” refrigerator and find the spoiled junk emitting the odors. Look out! Don’t stand behind me. There’s gonna be some bad stuff chucked outta here!

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65. Thinking of Quitting? Stop and Do This First!

Are you on the verge of waving the white flag with our writing?

Don’t!

Perhaps you feel like these writers:

“We’ve done everything right – we’ve thought positively, we’ve battled through rejection, we’ve honed our craft, we’ve attended conferences, we’ve networked…but we still can’t get published. What about us?”

Does that sound like you? If so, several very accomplished children’s writers have put together a free e-book dealing with this very issue. They’ve each battled through the ups and downs of children’s writing and have come out on top. What do they have to say to writers who are still in the thick of the battle to get published?

They had lots to say, and it’s all captured in a F*R*E*E e-book called “Don’t Quit! What To Do When You’ve Done Everything Right — And Still Can’t Get Published.”

Thi is an e-book from Children’s Book Insider. It won’t cost you a cent. They just ask one thing: Send out a Tweet or a Facebook Like about it, so that other writers can benefit from this inspirational e-book. Don’t worry — the Twitter and Facebook buttons are right there on the page for you. Just click, send and download your free e-book!

Here’s the link:

http://cbiclubhouse.com/2012/06/free-ebook-dont-quit/

Enjoy….and keep writing!

 

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66. Who Needs Discipline Anyway?

disciplineWriters don’t need discipline, do they? Not according to one well known author.

In one of my favorite writing books (Escaping into the Open: The Art of Writing True by Elizabeth Berg), there’s a chapter on writing myths that the author says you should ignore.

I was reading the list and nodding and “Amen!”-ing my agreement all the way up to Myth #8. It said to ignore the warning that “you have to be disciplined to be a writer.” Really!

No Discipline? Shocking!

I recoiled. Such blasphemy! How could she claim that writers didn’t need self-discipline? “Everyone” knew you needed to discipline yourself to write every day, to study markets, to read in your field. How could she say that? It went against my deeply ingrained beliefs.

And yet…as I read on, her words resonated with me much more than I would have believed possible. If you don’t need to be disciplined, what do you need? She wrote:

“What you have to be is in love. With writing. Not with ideas about what to write; not with daydreams about what you’re going to do when you’re sucessful. You have to be in love with writing itself, with the solitary and satisfying act of sitting down and watching something you hold in your head and your heart quietly transform itself into words on a page.”

Major Paradigm Shift

Hmm…You don’t have to be disciplined–but instead, you have to be in love with the act of writing. For some reason, that rings true for me.

Of my 42 published books, I can only think of three that I had to “make myself” sit down and write. (They were a work-for-hire assignment on a subject that I had no interest in.) But I loved writing the others.

Yes, I ran into occasional rough spots. Yes, sometimes I felt physically or emotionally shot, so writing wasn’t as much fun on those days. But I didn’t have to discipline myself to write.

In each case, I had a story I was burning to tell, and I couldn’t wait for private, uninterrupted time when I could immerse myself in my fictional world–where I could make life turn out like I wanted, like it should be.

Fueled from Within

In the early years, the inner passion for writing fueled me–not discipline imposed from the outside. If I recall correctly, the need for discipline didn’t occur until I was juggling a full-time day job along with raising a family PLUS writing.

I think Ms. Berg is onto something here. Maybe on the days we can’t make ourselves write, we should check our passion quota about our current project.

Passion for writing versus self-discipline–I think I need to investigate this further! Is it one or the other–or both? And if we’ve fallen out of love with our writing, how can we get that back?

How about You?

What does “being in love with your writing” look like for you? Can you describe one of its attributes? If so, please leave a comment!

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67. Time Management for Writers: Here’s Help!

Once we are refocused on our goals and have regained a clear vision, there’s one more step to take to get back on track.

It’s time to double-check our “creativity routines” and our time management. Then we can attain those writing goals.

Need some ideas that work?

Help is Right Here!

First, download this free ebook on “Time Management for Creative People.” I have been reading one short chapter each morning before I start work. It has definitely helped my productivity. Chapter Three alone has worked wonders.

This short article on “Routines, Systems, Spontaneity” talks about “the creative process,” which is really several interlocking processes. The magic happens at the point where they intersect. Here’s how to coordinate these three critical processes.

Maybe you totally embrace all these ideas, but your calendar is just too full! If that’s your issue, check out “Is It Time for Calendar Triage?” Here are some short, practical tips for cleaning out an over-stuffed calendar.

Focus + Time Management = Productivity

Don’t try to implement every tip you read about, at least not right away. Choose one to try for a week or two, until it’s a new habit. Then choose another one, and so on.

Do YOU have a writing habit you want to develop? What needs to change in your ability to manage your time? Be brave and share an example!

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68. Regaining Clear Vision

visionThe end of June is a month of reckoning. And I’m not satisfied–not even close–with what I’ve accomplished the first half of this year.

I’m great at making goals, writing them down, setting deadlines, posting them on my bulletin board, and getting to work.

Until fairly recently, I was also very good at accomplishing whatever I set my mind to. Throw me an obstacle? I’d climb over it, tunnel under it, or go around it to meet my writing goals.

Hmmm… So what happened?

I’ve been reviewing my 2012 writing goals this past week, and (it’s embarrassing to admit) I only accomplished three of my nine goals. I think at least six of them were do-able too. I truly was puzzled by this. It is so NOT like me. Admittedly, I had added a writing project that lasted six weeks, but that wasn’t enough to make so much difference.

Luckily I journal a lot, so it wasn’t hard to go back over the year and see where my time went. Some of it went to paid critiquing, but not enough to account for my dismal showing. I babysit grandkids weekly, plus extra weekends, but it didn’t account for the failure either. Even the new community volunteer job didn’t explain it.

It explained the fatigue, I suppose. But not one of these activities actually caused my failure to meet many writing goals.

Lightbulb Moment #1

Then I realized that although none of those activities took more than 7-10 hours per week, when I added them up, it came close to 20 hours per week of “extras.” Sometimes it was more, when I did some special event.

I need to remember in the future to add up EVERYTHING I’m doing already before taking on something else, even if the solicitor promises the job will only take one hour per week. I need to add prep time, travel time, and time to answer email from people–and factor it all into the equation.

Lightbulb Moment #2

Several years ago I signed up for Mark Joyner’s free Simple’ology course, so I read through the workbook again. One thing struck me forcefully. “The Law of Clear Vision states that in order to hit a target, you need to see it clearly.”

The author had you do an experiment where you stand in the middle of a room and try to reach a targeted object on the wall. In the first try, you close your eyes, turn around five times, then (still with eyes shut) guess at the target’s location and wander toward it.

The second time you do the same turning around, only you keep your eyes open and head to the target. “It’s obvious that Method #2 will get you to your target 100% of the time. Method #1, on the other hand, will get you there only rarely.”

Bingo! Regain a Clear Vision

As soon as I read that statement, I realized why I hadn’t met too many of my goals. I had written them all down (much like hanging the target on the wall). But instead of keeping my eyes open and on the target, I blindfolded myself and twirled around, hoping that I’d somehow hit the target by accident when I was wandering around doing a lot of other things.

I learned (again) that it does no good to write down your goals or even post them on the wall if you don’t look at them. I lost that “clear vision” of what I wanted to accomplish this year and why. I did accomplish many good things for some very deserving people, but when I lost the clear vision of my own goals, things got way out of balance and off track.

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69. Treasure Chest of Goodies for the Weekend

As I mentioned last week, I now plan to blog on a “first aid” topic on Tuesdays, then give you links to helpful free articles and downloads on Friday. So…

Ready, Set, Read!

Here are four things to add to your treasure chest!

A Writing for Children’s Magazines Ezine is full of up-to-the-minute information about writing for the changing magazine market. Be sure to read the extra articles listed near the bottom of the page, plus bookmark those current market listing links at the bottom.

The Often-Disregarded Advantages of Traditional Publishing has much, much food for thought! Sherryl Clark has had nearly 50 books published, and she speaks from experience here.

The Ultimate Editing Checklist is a free chapter from a new writing book. This chapter is downloadable, and it has a lengthy excellent checklist for what to do after you’ve finished a rough draft.

Last, you will enjoy this 8-minute video by a writing coach talking about The Three Ps of Success.

Read. Listen. Enjoy. Learn.

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70. Goals: Spiral Upward for Steady Success

Nearly every month–sometimes every week–I receive an email from a new writer that concerns me.

There has been great emphasis in recent years on setting lofty, out-of-the-ballpark goals. You are to spend daily time visualizing these highly ambitious goals happening.

You are told to repeat daily affirmations about accepting a major writing award or being sought after by top agents.

Not the Same as Being Positive

It’s hard to succeed without a positive attitude. I’m totally in favor of regularly eliminating negative thoughts from your brain. But I’m talking about something else altogether.

Although I changed details so as not to embarrass anyone, such emails express this in various forms, like:

  • “I am writing a trilogy that is like Lord of the Rings meets Twilight.” (From a writer who is on her second lesson at the Institute)
  • “I’m working on a Newbery book that will be a major motion picture.” (From a writer who couldn’t spell)
  • “My novel-in-progress will probably go to auction, and I plan to quit my day job next year.” (From a writer with no sales, just free online publishing like his blog)

Is anything wrong with this kind of talk? No, not wrong, but maybe unwise. You can tell by the effect it has on you.

Reaching High–Reaching Realistically

So…is it wrong to have lofty goals? Not at all! But choosing goals that are way beyond your current skill level will often backfire. It can lead to writer’s block, increased level of fear, procrastination, and giving up.

Goals that are too far “out there” can kill your desire to write, not spur you on to greater success.

Instead, set a goal that will stretch you, but with practice and hard work you could attain. Then take time to study more and learn more. Set another goal that will stretch you more. Examples of goals that “spiral” include writing a longer story, selling to a better paying market, writing a novel, or writing a series.

This is backed up by research. As Jim Stone said in “How Lofty Should Your Goals Be?“:

Set goals that are still lofty, but in line with your skills… Alternate between a phase of strategy acquisition and skill development, and a phase of aggressive but realistic goal pursuit…If you avoid focusing on too big a goal at the start, you’ll save yourself a lot of frustration over the years as well. At least that’s where a lot of current research points.

How About Your Goals?

Study your current goals. Will they stretch you as a writer and help you grow? Or will they snap you like a rubber band?

Are you taking the necessary time to also study, grow, practice and learn–so that you can spiral up?

Just food for thought! Share you

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71. A F*R*E*E Course on Creativity

After blogging just once per week for five months, I’ve decided that this frequency isn’t often enough to share what I want to share.

I plan to go back to blogging here twice a week. On Tuesdays I will discuss some “first aid help for writers” topic. On Fridays I plan to give you resources I’ve found helpful: other blog posts, articles, apps, books, and methods to make our writing lives better, more productive, and more fun!

This Freebie is Great

Five weeks ago I signed up for “The Creative Pathfinder,” a free 26-week course on creativity. You receive one lesson per week in your email.

I hadn’t planned to write about this until I finished the whole twenty-six weeks. However, after just five lessons, I think I will pass this along now. It’s a perfect course to begin during the summer months. It will keep your creativity bubbling along despite interruptions from vacations, kids, and visitors that come with summertime.

How It Works

Each lesson builds on the one before it. Each lesson comes with additional articles to read (if you’re interested), worksheets to download so you can apply the lesson, and links to books that are quoted.

To whet your appetite, here’s Lesson #5: “The Four Most Powerful Types of Creative Thinking.”  If you like what you read, there is a link at the bottom of the lesson to sign up for the entire free 26-week course 

 

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72. Want Great Word-of-Mouth Advertising? Write a Great Book!

We hear so much lately about building a platform and social networking and “getting the word out” about our books. It’s true, and it’s important these days.

However, let’s not overlook one very critical factor. As one marketing guru said, “Great marketing only makes a bad product fail faster.” Don’t let this happen to you!

I’ve read some good marketing books lately. I’ve tried–like all writers these days–to make the change from publisher advertising to the much more do-it-yourself marketing that is required.

The Cart and the Horse

But remember! Writing (plus studying and practicing to write even better) comes first. That’s your horse, and it is most important. Do NOT lose sight of that fact. Marketing is your cart. It won’t go far with a lame horse. [More about that in a moment.] But while you’re learning to write better, you can begin your own marketing if you want to. There are great resources to help you do that.

Helpful books on the new marketing?

Remember from our previous discussion that an introvert gets recharged in solitude and starts to feel drained after being around people too long. It has nothing to do with your social skills. Depending on which study you read, introverts comprise 40-55% of the population.

Put on the Brakes!

With all the concentration these days on building a platform and social networking, it’s easy to overlook one critical factor. It will make you or break you as a writer.

The first 25 pages of Hyatt’s book deals with this issue. It is about creating a compelling product. In our case, that means a book or story or play. As Hyatt says, “There is no sense in wasting your valuable time and resources trying to build a buzz about a ho-hum product…The purpose of marketing is to prime the pump. But if people don’t want to use your product and–more importantly–if they won’t recommend it to their friends, you’re hosed. You can’t spend enough money or be clever enough to overcome a lack of word-of-mouth marketing. It just won’t work.”

To get noticed in today’s over-crowded publishing

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73. Creativity: Inside or Outside the Box?

If trying to be creative feels like slogging through mud lately, you may be trying too hard.

If so, I’ve got good news for you!

Several articles I’ve read lately disputed the idea that “thinking outside the box” is the way to be more creative. It’s given me hope, as I don’t tend to be an “outside the box” thinker.

I actually like my box. It’s cozy. It’s nicely decorated–but unoriginal, I fear.

Inside or Outside the Box?

Who’s most creative? Read the following articles and decide for yourself.

One Last Thought

Are you thinking that the articles sound good–but you just don’t know if you’re up to it? Then I have one last post for you to read: “3 Things You Can Start Doing Today to Build Your Self-Confidence“ by Henrik Edberg. They’re simple–but effective. And they work no matter what side of the box you prefer.

Now, have at it! And if you’re brave, leave a comment and tell us which side of the box you prefer!

 

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74. Treadmill Desks: for a Writer’s Good Health

Look out! I’m getting ready to preach!

I’m so excited about an answer to my pain condition, a condition aggravated by decades of sitting at a desk. If you’ve read my blog very long (or my Writer’s First Aid or More Writer’s First Aid), then you know I talk about health issues for writers.

I’ve had headaches, upper back pain, and neck pain (and multiple surgeries)–and all these conditions are made worse by hours slumped at a desk. (Yes, no matter how straight my posture is at the beginning, it’s not long before my shoulders are rounded and my head is forward.)

I wish I had taken out stock in Excedrin years ago. I’m sure I’ve kept them in business.

Not anymore!

My New Exciting Work Station

My dear writing friend, Maribeth Boelts, wrote to me a couple months ago about her new treadmill desk. It was helping her with a chronic pain condition of her own, and she urged me try it. I researched the idea (see sources below), read about the benefits, saw how some writers had constructed their own inexpensive treadmill desks, and decided to try it.

Maribeth had assured me she got the knack of typing while walking in less than 15 minutes. I figured I would give it a week–I don’t think I’m that coordinated. But she was right–it took less than 15 minutes!

She also mentioned that the constant walking took care of her “ants in the pants” feeling while sitting at a desk. I have found that to be true too. I think better when I’m moving, and since you’re always walking, you don’t feel the “itch” to get up all the time. In fact, I use a timer now to remind myself after an hour to get off and walk on “dry land.” The first week I had the desk, I worked once for three hours without stopping, and it took a while to get my “sea legs” back when I got off. But what a nice problem to have! Concentrating too long!

Dangers of Sitting

A New York Times article sums up some dangers of sitting all day–and this also applies to people who exercise at a gym or run:

“It doesn’t matter if you go running every morning, or you’re a regular at the gym. If you spend most of the rest of the day sitting – in your car, your office chair, on your sofa at home – you are putting yourself at increased risk of obesity, diabetes, heart disease, a variety of cancers and an early death. In other words, irrespective of whether you exercise vigorously, sitting for long periods is bad for you.”

And consider this from “Sitting All Day: Worse for You Than You Might Think”: “If you’re sitting, your muscles are not contracting, perhaps except to type. But the big muscles, like in your legs and back, are sitting there pretty quietly,” Blair says. And because the major muscles aren’t moving, metabolism

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75. Quantity vs. Quality: Big Issue for Today’s Writer

More, more, more! Faster, faster, faster!

Some of you probably read the NY Times article last weekend called Writer’s Cramp: In the E-Reader Era, a Book a Year Is Slacking.

Here is the gist of it, before I add my two cents’ worth.

Authors on Assembly Lines

Apparently authors are being pushed, prodded, and persuaded to write more books per year, plus short e-stories in between books to promote upcoming books. One popular author, James Patterson, writes twelve or thirteen novels per year! He writes some and co-writes some. Here are some quotes from that article:

“Authors are now pulling the literary equivalent of a double shift, churning out short stories, novellas or even an extra full-length book each year… The push for more material comes as publishers and booksellers are desperately looking for ways to hold onto readers being lured by other forms of entertainment, much of it available nonstop and almost instantaneously… Ms. Scottoline [a thriller writer] has increased her output from one book a year to two, which she accomplishes with a brutal writing schedule: 2,000 words a day, seven days a week.”

Bear this in mind: that’s 2,000 words per day in addition to all the promoting, travel, speaking, and social networking required. One author (who has to write short stories between his novels for his publisher to sell cheaply or give away) said this: “It does sap away some of your energy. You don’t ever want to get into a situation where your worth is being judged by the amount of your productivity.”

But isn’t that exactly what is being done here?

From Quality to Quantity

If this is the future of publishing, can the quality of writing go anywhere but down? We see this all the time.

A debut novel is a hit, often an award-winner. The new author explains that it took 5-10 years to write and revise. The author’s new agent and publisher want another novel from this author RIGHT NOW–while she’s still hot property.

Is it any wonder that often subsequent books are of inferior quality? [I'm not picking on anyone here. I've written series with very short deadlines, and you just can't write with the same quality when you only have six weeks to do a whole book. There is no down time, no extra think time, and little revision time.]

Great Books Take Time

Oddly enough, just before the NY Times article came out, I was re-reading Chapter After Chapter: Discover the dedication & focus you need to write the book of your dreams by Heather Sellers. In one of her chapters, she discussed how writing needed to be slow. Does this resonate with you?

“Writing books is, and should be, really slow. The great books are still around–just like the great recipes, the great songs, the great trees–because they took a long

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