Living in our rental house is not the only change we’ve been making in Roy’s life – we’ve been teaching him Christianity 101.
He’s been going to church with first his mom (Kevin’s grandmother) and then with Kevin’s parents all his life. And I’m not knocking church – it’s great if you’re getting something out of it. And by that I mean, you’re studying God’s word and learning how, and why, God wants you to live a certain way. It’s a great place to fellowship with other Christians and to make life-long friends. God wants us to fellowship with other Christians.
However. If you dread Church, or you’re not getting anything out of the lectures pastors give, then perhaps it’s time to step back and re-evaluate why you’re going or why you’re not receiving God’s wonderful messages.
That’s where we are with Roy. Roy’s churches have continued to use the King’s James version of the bible. And there’s nothing wrong with the King’s James version, it’s just an antiquated language that is not used anymore. It’s hard for people to understand because we don’t use that language anymore. And because people don’t understand the language (or the culture in which the Bible was written), then people just assume that the Bible is not meant for us to understand.
AND THAT’S BULL HOCKEY.
God WANTS us to know how to read the Bible. He wants us to live our lives by rules laid out in the Bible. He gives us examples of how to live our lives and what can happen if we choose NOT to live by his rules. If we don’t live our lives by His rules, then he is unable to protect us against Satan’s tricks. And of course, it’s Satan’s goals to trick people into thinking they are incapable of understanding the Bible because then he will swoop in and create havoc in our lives.
So. Roy has made the decision of NOT going to church for a while and sitting with us when we have Bible study at our house every Sunday evening after dinner. We watch a few videos from the Truth or Tradition YouTube channel and then we all take turns reading out of the New International Version of the Bible. He made the decision to not go to church because he never felt like he understood anything that was taught. Too many churches focus on the hell and damnation of the Bible and though that is part of God’s word, it’s a VERY SMALL part of God’s word. Or worse, pastors will pick and choose verses out of the Bible, taking them completely out of context, and use them to their own advantage. The first time I realized that was happening was the last time I set foot in a church. I have NO INTENTIONS of going back to church – ever.
God is about love and teaching us humility, compassion, forgiveness and HOW TO LOVE OTHERS. How is anyone expected to be inspired or moved into helping others when all they are fed every Sunday is scary crap about Satan and being fried alive in hell?
Think about it.
Anyway. After watching a video, I asked Kevin to bring up one of their older videos (we have it set up where we watch YouTube on our TV and Kevin controls it with his phone – TECHNOLOGY RULES!) where they talk about HOW to read and understand the bible. Kevin brought up this video:
We’ve been watching Truth or Tradition videos for as long as they’ve been making them and somehow, we missed this one. What a COOL summary of the Bible!!
And we started talking about buying Roy a Bible that he can understand – more like a children’s bible. I wouldn’t mind having a children’s bible to read the basic stories myself. I’m not even sure I know all of the basic stories, to be perfectly honest.
I think all of us, deep down, are searching for something in our lives. Whether that’s the meaning of life, how to make our marriages successful, how to raise a God-fearing child (and God-fearing is actually, more accurately translated, into RESPECTING GOD), how to seek forgiveness or how to cultivate patience … learning God’s word, living a Godly life, tends to satisfy that hunger and produce peace.
Don’t believe me? Try it. What have you got to lose?
*Oh, by the way – I just found out they have an iPhone/Android app. Which I downloaded and am looking forward to using on-the-go.
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11 times? I like that Linc and I have the same taste in books.
I usually review it even if I don't like it because in a few years, I will only remember that I read it, but not my feelings. This way, I can look back and decide if I should be recommending it.
Some good graphic novels to check out are Page by Paige (Gulledge), Level Up (Yang), Zita the Spacegirl (Hatke) and Nursery Rhyme Comics by a bunch of different artists. The last book is now my staple "new baby" gift...it's totally a book that will grow with the child.
The reasons why you didn't like Glory Be were the reasons why I did. I liked that Glory told the story because I felt like it was her story to tell. I didn't think it was suppose to be a book about the African American struggle during the Civil Rights Movement. I think it was a story of a young white girl struggling with a changing world and learning that what is right isn't always easy and change happens whether you want it to or not.
I loved the book because it was Glory's story and because Scattergood stayed true to Glory.
As for what to do when you don't like a book - review it or not? I don't review a book that I don't like because I usually don't finish reading it. I gave myself permission a few years ago to put a book down if I didn't like it. The decision was liberating. My husband has a t-shirt that says "Life's Too Short to Drink Cheap Beer!" I believe life is too short to read books you don't love.
Occasionally, I have a *less than positive* sentence or two in my reviews, but I try to post about books that I would recommend to children and the adults who love them.
Ali B.
You both have excellent taste in literature :)
Thank you for the recommendations!! I feel like you know graphic novels better than most, and I definitely trust your opinion. And, I love the baby gift suggestion :)
Ali, thank you so much for that perspective on Glory Be! I'm afraid I approached it thinking that it was going to be a certain way, and then when it wasn't, I got frustrated. Glory was a strong character that I bet a lot of upper elementary/early middle school girls will be able to relate to.
And I admire you for putting books down! That's what I would always tell my students to do, but I can't seem to manage it myself. Too afraid that the book will "get good" right after I stop reading!
I really like your analysis of Glory Be. I've been wanting to read it but in all honesty, that is a very big problem given the time period and the subject matter.
These are excellent reviews, nothing mini about them.
Thank you, Sarah! There are obviously a lot of different opinions about Glory Be - that was just my reaction :)
I haven't tried these so I can't say, but I love how your approached these mini/not lovin' reviews.
Juju - You are a super commenter! I wish I knew you irl bc I have a feeling we would have a lot of fun talking about books :)
I tend to be a bit hesitant about posting negative reviews too... but ultimately, I know people really appreciate hearing about what didn't work for a story. It's too bad these ones didn't turn out as good as you expected!