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You may ask me, what has dancing got to do with funeral? I will tell you that when you go to the funeral of your old dancing instructor you can think of almost nothing else. Such was the case with the service I went to this week. It was for my dear Ethel Friel Barker.
It all began when I was in about third grade. My older sister was taking dance and gymnastics and so I wanted to too! My younger sister followed along after. Each week we would tromp down her stairs in our leotards, set our dollar on her piano and begin our lesson.
Bring on the tap shoes! What fun we had learning those dances. The costumes came next. Many times they were made by our mothers. I remember the rumba costume the most. The top was all gold sequins sewn on to satin. The bottom was an open skirt that showed off your dancing legs! haha!… a pair of green satin shorts underneath..and nothing skimpy!…then there were the ruffles of satin colors on the trailing skirt. I remember Ethel teaching us all how to shimmy. We all laughed!
Each year Ethel would travel to New York to Dance Caravan. She would learn all the dances and come back and teach them to all her students. She had students of all ages from the tiniest little ones to the high school kids. I remember two boys who learned a Russian dance. Their dance number was mixed with gymnastic moves.
Besides the lessons, Ethel would arrange for us to have shows.. at no extra cost to us. We traveled to girls homes, boys homes, a home for the mentally challenged.. and then even some Christmas shows for the American Legion. As shy as we were, it helped us to learn how to be in front of people. We learned about different people and the situations they live in.
When we got to high school, Ethel helped us with our gymnastic routines. She rented out the Grange Hall, lugged all her black mats over and we tumbled and practiced for our meets. All for that same one dollar bill on her piano.
Our lessons continued through high school and we occasionally went to see her for a class… just for fun. My last class was when I was pregnant with my first daughter. I remember going slow… I did a limber over… and then felt my daughter kick! That was the end of that! ha!
Many friends gathered for the memorial service. My sisters sat next to me and three other friends, all in the same row. When the minister asked us to read something, I watched as ALL of us dug into our purses for our glasses. Ethel would have laughed at that sight! We all laughed and cried.
When the service was over and we sat at our tables for a small lunch, we talked and talked about our dances, our costumes and Ethel. Before everyone left, we spread the word through out the room that anyone who wanted to, could participate in the performance of the Waltz Clog! This was the dance that Ethel taught every student. ( My sisters and I do it periodically, even now for fun).
The people gathered… most dressed in black and white. We almost looked like we were in costume. .. and then we began. We sang the tune as we stumbled though the dance moves laughing! Our last steps were always … just as Ethel taught us, ”step cut the pie” with our feet.
What a wonderful remembrance. What a wonderful person she was! We will always celebrate Ethel!
This brings me to this thought. I have been thinking about it a lot in the last few weeks since I know four people who have died recently. There are many people who live life helping others. It’s such a wonderful thing. They give and give and give until it’s time for heaven. Their memorial services are happy sad, but often joy filled. Others take and take and take until their last day. Those services are sad. … almost tragic.
I prefer happy! I like the thought of people dancing at my funeral. .. and singing loud!
Here are three pictures of our Ethel! She lives on in our hearts always!
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lisartist said, on 8/26/2013 7:33:00 PM
WOW!!! I love it! I feel not only like I knew Ethel, but that I could picture her service. What a darling human being. What a great angel she is now.
Leslie Ann Clark said, on 8/26/2013 9:34:00 PM
You would have loved her! Everyone did. ;0)
angiemflanagan said, on 9/3/2013 6:12:00 PM
I hope my dance students have this much fun at my funeral! Thanks for sharing.
Leslie Ann Clark said, on 9/3/2013 6:54:00 PM
I Hope so too! Our Ethel was a very important part of our lives. She taught us more than dances. I smile every time I think of her. Love your kids… and they will dance for you!
My family and I each made photo collages for my Dad's funeral. I had a little fun with mine, adding some good, funny memories. I'll let this speak for itself....
You may have to right click and open in a new window in order to see it clearly. I would also recommend enlarging it in your browser a bit.
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SCENES FROM LIFE: A SHORT PLAYETTE A FISH TALE by Eleanor Tylbor
As is the case with many people, many years ago when the kids were young, we were fish raisers. It started out with your average, run-of-the-mill goldfish swimming circles in a bowl and slowly over the years graduated into tropical fish. We had a very nicely appointed aquarium replete with a diver blowing bubbles, which the fish ignored totally. In spite of all the none-ending care we gave them including many water solutions and fish vitamins, they left us for fishy heaven. Let's just say that given their size, it was a one-flush funeral.
This got me thinking as to how we bid goodbye to our fishy friends. Perhaps it should be something like this:
SCENE: A FUNERAL PARLOR. A MAN WALKS IN HOLDING A SMALL BOX. HE APPROACHES THE FUNERAL REPRESENTATIVE
FUNERAL REP. Hello sir. May we at the Friends of the Family extend our sincere condolences to the family at this time of loss
FISH OWNER Thank you. It's been a very difficult time for the family
FUNERAL REP. We understand and it's our goal to make this as easy and painless as possible
FISH OWNER Very much appreciated. It's just...so hard to say goodbye to them
(takes out a handkerchief, blows his nose and wipes his eyes)
FUNERAL REP. Feel free to express your grief. You'll feel better for it
FISH OWNER I know...
FUNERAL REP. May we meet the dearly departed so that we can plan his...
FISH OWNER ...her
FUNERAL REP Her trip to the great spirit in the sky. When did she pass?
FISH OWNER Last night. We never saw it coming
FUNERAL REP We never do. May I meet the dearly departed?
FISH OWNER She doesn't look the same.
FUNERAL REP We have to remember them in the good times
FISH OWNER I guess so. She was fine when we went to bed. When we woke up, we found her on the table. She won't need a big hole
FUNERAL REP Space is no problem...
FISH OWNER ...or coffin. She's a tiny thing
FUNERAL REP May I see her?
FISH OWNER (opening the bag and taking out a plastic container) Sure...
(Man takes container out and opens top)
FUNERAL REP A fish? I mean, she looks so...shrivelled and tiny
FISH OWNER She was a Japanese fighting fish. Nice to look at but not a good disposition. Felicia lived in a tank all by herself. Couldn't stand another fish We bought her a dozen friends and she tore them apart. Cat almost got her a few times too. She was one fast swimmer, our Felicia!
FUNERAL REP How sad. We better make preparations quickly. I see one eye fell out. Don't take this the wrong way but why didn't you - you know - give her a one flush funeral
FISH OWNER My wife said the same thing. "Just flush the damn fish!" she told me but I couldn't. I mean, she's become a member of the family. So what type of fish coffins do you have?
FUNERAL REP To be honest, this is the first time somebody brought in a fish for burial. We really don't have a coffin small enough.
(Funeral director takes out a silver box from his pocket)
Would you consider using this silver match container? It's the perfect size
FISH OWNER Does it have a lock on it? I mean, I wouldn't want any cats to dig her up
FUNERAL DIRECTOR (illustrating) Look - a clasp to keep it closed. Now how about the music Is there any particular song you'd like us to play?
FISH OWNER Hadn't thought about that. Can you suggest any?
every element of it talks of the theme... colors... her posture... the flower... the way she's holding it... her dress... her looks... and the way her hair reflects the agony within...
wow what a beautiful image. Sad but beautiful just like a funeral it has something double but I like that also about the whole concept of dying....... Jeeh hard to explain but a beautiful funeral helps to give everything a place in your heart.... And I agree with HB!!!
you have truly captured and distilled the very essence of the word this week. communicates on every level and reaches out and touches the soul. michael dailey
Don’t Look Now. Yes, it’s another Venetian post, and suitably sinister.
You’ve probably read about it, heard the grim pronouncements on the radio or seen a clip on television: last Saturday, November 14th, Venice staged her own funeral.
At least that’s the version that appeared in the international press, which likes nothing better than to bury Venice.
But I was there, and I want to explain that it wasn’t quite like that.
For some time, the people behind the passionately pro-Venice website Venessia.com have promised that they would do something to show their pain if the city’s population dropped below 60,000. The exodus of real Venetians is recorded weekly in an illuminated display – the Venetian-counter – in the window of the Morelli pharmacy at Rialto. This month, for the first time, we are down to 59, 984. The streets of Venice each day now hold fewer Venetians than tourists.
Venessia.com maintains that Venice has not died a natural death but been assassinated by mismanagement, greed and stupidity. It comes down to housing. If the city does not provide houses for young couples, how can young couples provide new Venetians for the city?
In response to the sinking numbers, Venessia.com decided to do what Venice has always done in extremis: throw a masked party, in which the macabre would mix with the ironic, the burlesque with the profound. A furious discussion breaks out in the city. People start sending ‘telegrams of condolence’ for the dead city to Venessia.com.
November 14th dawns moody grey and morbidly humid. Grim-faced locals and stupefied tourists swarm at Rialto. The deceased city, represented by a hot-pink coffin draped with the Venetian flag, is floated up the canal on a balotina, in which stands the black-cloaked actor Cesare Colonnese, his face made up in a deathly pallor. Even so, it cannot express quite enough tragedy: he carries another mask of pain mounted on a stick. The balotina follows a barge in which a grand piano is played by Paolo Zanarella, his black cloak flowing behind him.
At 11.55 the riot police arrive and arrange themselves under the portico of the town hall. (City officials, who have scoffed at idea of the funeral, are nowhere to be seen). At 11.55 the international press disembarks from crowded taxis, for Venessia.com has caught not just the city’s but the world’s imagination with its gesture. At 12.00 the funeral procession arrives at Rialto, escorted by police boats. As they pass under the bridge, the rowers raise their oars in solemn salute to the crowd. The coffin is lifted on the shoulders of the chief mourners and carried along the passarelle into the portico, accompanied by a funeral bouquet in the Venetian colours of yellow and maroon. There’s another huge bouquet made of slivers of paper – the telegrams of condolence. Gilberto Gasparini reads out a long poem of lament and betrayal. Cesare Colonnese pronounces the funeral oration in Venetian.
And then the surprise. From two yards away, I hear the tone of Colonnese’s voice change. He asks, ‘Who says Venice is dead? It’s time to stop lamenting. Rise up! Rise up! Do something! Yes, you too! … And stop saying that Venice is dead!’
The caped organisers jump on the coffin and joyfully smash it to bits. From the splinters, they pull out a painting of a golden phoenix rising from the ashes. ‘Long live Venice!’ they cry.
This is not a funeral. It is an exorcism.
The death of Venice is pronounced dead. Venice is rebo
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NOTE TO SELF: BODIES AND LOVE ONE'S WAITING TO BE BURIED
Grave diggers and maintenance staff have been locked out of the Notre Dame des Neiges Cementary located in Montreal, Canada since May 16 and the bodies are piling up. A labor dispute has paralyzed Canada's largest cemetary but there could - key word here could - be a break through if you parden the pun. The feeling of personal loss however, can't be measured in numbers.
The one-hundred and twenty nine unionized workers at the burial ground announced that they are prepared to return to work 4 days per week, starting next Monday. Management for their part are considering the proposal. Workers are members of the Syndicat des travailleurs et des travailleuses du cimetière Notre Dame des Neiges, a local of the Confédération des syndicats nationaux and have been without a contract since Dec. 31, 2003.
Contract negociations will continue even while the dead are being buried. The statistics are shocking with 498 bodies stored in refrigeration units since the Fabrique de la Paroisse Notre Dame de Montréal, the corporation managing the cemetery for the owners, Sulpician priests, locked out the workers. More alarming is the closing date for the season being November 1 and some families of the dead fear the sheer logistics of burying or cremating so many bodies before then will be a nightmare.
In addition to the remains in storage, the cemetery receives about 50 to 60 bodies a week. According to one veteran cemetery employee, those returning to work will be hard-pressed to bury 20 bodies a day. There are only four backhoes on the site, and once they start digging, no two graves are the same.
The cemetery's executive director said that there is a plan of operation, a system and it will be adapted to the needs of the individual families.
If families want a graveside interment service conducted according to the rites of the Roman Catholic Church, in what is a predominately Roman Catholic cemetery, the situation becomes even more complicated. In many instances, it means reuniting families who may have come some distance for the funeral, and now again have to co-ordinate travel plans if they wish to be present for the burial.
It's not Video Sunday, but this marks a convergence of two of my favorite things. Neil Gaiman and Brotherhood 2.0. Everyone has their favorite Brotherhood video. Mine was the one where they sang Will You Miss Me When I'm Gone From Your Pants, but this one may upset the balance. Check it out.
Not only do we get to hear Neil Gaiman talk about sex (gurgle). Not only is there a shout-out to Coe Booth. But there is a SONG! I love the songs! And the "fat guy in a candy store line" will now undoubtedly be the last thing I randomly think about before I expire on my deathbed at the crusty old age of 102.
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The only advantage of hearing the "Helena, Montana" song is that it booted "Hello! Ma Baby" out of my head, which Eric maliciously inserted this morning.
Official Hot Man of Children's Literature #6 (he's a veteran) hath done been interviewed on 7-Imp. Thar they strikes! Everyone's favorite WorldSuck Decreaser (not to be confused by WordSuck Decreasers who are important in their own way) talks about his upcoming novel. Neat, huh? There's even some mention of his lovely Brotherhood 2.0 and its slow surge of popularity. Go. Shoo. Bask in his glow n' stuff.
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Aw, thanks for the link and such. And for not minding that we seem to be stalking each of your HMOCLs in turn... coincidence!
fusenumber8 said, on 4/13/2007 4:49:00 AM
What can I say? We have good taste in men. Y'all haven't done Kadir Nelson yet, but I'm just giving it time. Apparently the poor feller gets a lot of flack for being the numero uno Hottest Man.
Lovely story!
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WOW!!! I love it! I feel not only like I knew Ethel, but that I could picture her service. What a darling human being. What a great angel she is now.
You would have loved her! Everyone did. ;0)
I hope my dance students have this much fun at my funeral! Thanks for sharing.
I Hope so too! Our Ethel was a very important part of our lives. She taught us more than dances. I smile every time I think of her. Love your kids… and they will dance for you!