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Matthew, the well-known disciple of Jesus Christ has imprinted the heart of the world for 2,000 years. Not to mention, his name alone is quite popular. According to www.nameberry.com, the name Matthew ranked #3 in baby names for 20 years, and is still popular today. Honestly, we all know at least one Matthew, do we not?
The name Matthew means "gift of God," not "tax collector" as you may have thought. Furthermore, his actual name was Levi. His name changed to Matthew upon becoming an apostle. Name changing was a common transformation in the Bible: Abram to Abraham, Jacob to Israel, Simon Barjona to Peter, and Saul to Paul.
Matthew collected taxes in Capernaum, a city which is just north of the Galilean Sea. His job most likely required some study and training, which takes time, so he may have been among the oldest of the disciples (Frederick Bruner, Matthew: A Commentary, Vol.1). Not old, just one of the oldest. Although tax collectors were viewed as uncompassionate thieves and Jewish traitors, not to mention that Matthew learned and knew the best of them, he also had a great knowledge of the Old Testament. Matthew linked Old Testament prophecies with Jesus' ministry over 60 times. He knew his math, he knew his literature, and apparently he knew a lengthy amount about God.
Most likely, Matthew's knowledge of God gave his soul a struggle as he stole from his own people to please the Roman Empire. And perhaps this is why Matthew easily accepted Jesus' invitation to follow Him. He had all he needed as far as finances were concerned, yet it meant nothing compared to the actual voice of God's Son calling to him.
Something else interesting about Matthew is that he never gave his own insight as he wrote the God-inspired words of the first Gospel. All focus and glory was given to Jesus.
What was it like to walk, step by step, alongside the Son of God? To hear His footsteps; to hear Him breathe, talk, laugh? To speak, and know Jesus could hear?
I believe in Matthew's passionate desire to obey Jesus and follow Him, Matthew humbly followed God's lead in sharing and writing the Book of Matthew. And as eagerly as Matthew was in sharing with us all, we must know that God was even more eager.
Easter is the root and foundation of everything good. Jesus lives! This is why we breathe, hope, smile, laugh, and love. As a matter of fact, Christmas would not be such a big day without Easter. Furthermore, Easter comes at the perfect time: we are finally recuperated from Christmas, and relieved that winter is over. It is time to staple some truth, some revival, in our lives and in our hope.
For the last few years, Chris and I have been trying to make Easter more significant in the kids' lives and in our own lives, way past egg hunts and bunnies. Those pastel treats are still included, but the need for revival at Easter is what we work toward. Here are many things that we have started to include around the Easter holiday, and some things that are still on our to-do list.
1. Plant a lily.
I vividly remember reading Matthew 6:28: "Consider the lilies..." many years ago, and stopping there, thinking, "So, Jesus thinks lilies are pretty...hmm..." We now have a tradition at Easter time to plant a lily for Jesus in the yard. With so many lily variations, it's fun to go to the nursery and pick out a new one each year.
2. Have game night.
The reason for this is because our family rarely takes the time to actually have a game night, unless we're camping. Shame on us, but it makes the game night more significant, along with Easter.
3. Read through the Book of John.
There are 21 long chapters, which you may have to divide up. We begin reading the Book of John about three weeks before Good Friday, and we aim for morning and bedtime. We miss here and there, which is why we allot ourselves enough time. Even if you start too late, try starting with John 17, and soak your heart in Jesus's words of prayer for YOU. You will fall into such a deep love and gratefulness for Jesus.
4. Watch a favorite movie on the life of Jesus.
We love the clay animation of "Jesus: the Miracle Worker." There's also "Jesus of Nazareth, " and "The Bible" episodes of the life of Jesus. And if you're reading through the Book of John along the way, you'll hear someone say, "Hey! We just read about this part!"
5. Bake some Resurrection Bread.
Ingredients include canned biscuit dough, mini marshmallows, cinnamon, sugar, and melted butter. Separate large biscuits in two, and flatten into two circles. Brush with butter, and then sprinkle with cinnamon and sugar, add 4 to 5 mini marshmallows. Envelope (bury in the "tomb") the marshmallows by folding over the biscuit dough to make a crescent. Press the ends together with a fork. Brush the top with melted butter, followed with more cinnamon and sugar. Bake at 350 degrees for approximately 12 to 15 minutes. Notice, when done, that the marshmallows have disappeared from their tomb! And they're yummy!
6. Have guests over.
Take time to show others you care for them. Set aside your busy schedule to have friends or family over for tea, devotion, dinner, dessert, or lunch!
7. Easter egg hunt. (of course)
No age limit. Have one in the house or backyard if everyone is getting too old for the community hunts. Or, volunteer to help in your church's egg hunt.
8. Decorate the house.
Decorating, crafting, or painting crosses reaffirm the importance of Easter in your family. Need ideas? One word: pinterest.
9. Watch a live re-enactment of the crucifixion and resurrection.
Becoming more popular, take yourself to the time period of Jesus by attending a play/performance in your community. Research re-enactments in your area.
10. Worship with your church family. (of course)
More important than the Easter egg hunt.
11. Give.
To anyone -- the mailman, a neighbor, a grandparent, a friend... Give a gift in reflection of God's greatest gift, his own Son. Give a plant, a lily, an invitation to church, your own testimony, cupcakes; or your child may want to paint an Easter picture or make a craft for someone who needs to know God's love.
12. Keep a prayer list posted.
As Jesus thought of others, Holy Week is a great time to do the same through prayer. Keep names posted that members of the family are praying for. Daily, pray with the family for each person on the list.
13. Fast, or give something up.
I spoke about this in detail in another post, "Easter Traditions." For one week before Christmas, we fast, or give up food, the computer, TV, or sweets for the week. This seems to cause the kids to become down-hearted, so we are sure to add in those special surprise treats (#14) to show them that they are gaining more than they are giving up.
14. Throw in some unexpected surprise treats!
Something that is not usual -- chocolate milk in the morning, surprise movie/popcorn night midweek, unexpected trip to the park, a game of hide-and-go-seek in the house, a trip to a museum. This helps to get their focus on how much can be gained by giving some thing up for the Lord.
15. Listen to Easter music.
Similar to listening to Christmas music. Good hymnals ("He Lives!" and "At the Old Rugged Cross,") , and some Christian music ("O Glorious Day!") that focus on the redemption at the cross and the resurrection.
It is really all in an effort to stay reverent, which is true joy. If you have any other great Easter traditions, please post.
The lost cause. Do you know any? Do you ever feel that way? The person that breaks our heart too much to keep in our thoughts; or the one that we prefer to forget about. When hopelessness and bitterness mark territory. Not unlike a significant person involved with the crucifixion of Jesus, Judas Iscariot.
Having a "lost cause" day? (cont. by BBoomerinDenial/morguefile)
We know the fate of Judas Iscariot from the beginning. In Luke 9:1, Jesus calls His twelve disciples together and "gave them power and authority over all demons, and to cure diseases" (v. 2) He sent them to preach the kingdom of God and to heal the sick. All twelve. Even Judas Iscariot, and Judas did so. Judas walked into towns, or maybe many towns, and told others about the love and teachings of Jesus, and healed their sicknesses. He studied under Jesus for three years.
Judas's name is a Greek form of the name Judah, the name of one of Israel's twelve tribes. Judah, son of Jacob, was in the genealogy of Jesus. "Iscariot" shows that Judas is from Keriyyoth (or spelled Kerioth), which is south of Hebron. Interestingly, all of Jesus's other disciples were Galiliean. So, Judas was already an outsider. Luke introduces Judas to the readers in this way: "...and Judas Iscariot, who also became a traitor." (6:16) In John 6, many disciples stopped following Jesus. The reference is actually John 6:66: "Many of His disciples went back and walked with Him no more." Then Jesus asked the twelve (including Judas), "Do you also want to go away?" Judas stayed! Jesus knew his enemy stood there ("...one of you is the devil!"), yet stated in love to all twelve, "Did I not choose you?" Jesus does not stop extending His loving hand out for Judas to just take. Judas knew Jesus's teachings ("You cannot love God and love the world..."); and Judas was drenched in more fear than anything else when Jesus walked on water. He saw the eyes of the hopeless look up to Jesus and be healed. He knew he could have that, but he wanted more.
We get an idea of Judas's greed in the Book of John 12:3-8. Mary uses a pricey oil to pour over the feet of Jesus. Judas basically responds thinking, "What a waste." In Matthew 26:15, Judas asked the chief priests, "What will you give me...?" Judas couldn't detach his foolish earthly, flesh-filled, greedy wisdom from his thoughts or his actions. His enemy attacked, and blinded him of any hope for forgiveness, freedom, and salvation.
“...Judas, one of the twelve, went before them and drew near to Jesus to kiss Him.”
— Luke 22:47
What was going through the mind of Judas when he kissed Jesus? This was a kiss of defiance, not love. However, with the powerful words of Jesus Christ flooding and encircling his head as he defied the face of God, it had to hurt a whole lot. Now, the heart of Judas became tightly gripped in the hands of Satan.
Blinded eyes of Judas
Judas never grasped the forgiveness given by Jesus. Perhaps he didn't think he needed it. All the disciples were sinners, and they continuously sinned and lacked faith. Yet, Judas never sought forgiveness, although the foundation of Jesus's teachings offered forgiveness. Judas made a choice not to listen. He never accepted this freedom, and in morbid despair of his lost soul, he took his own life without accepting eternal salvation, never receiving the joy of Jesus's resurrection.
We have this joy of new eternal life to share on Easter, not to keep to ourselves. Pray for the "lost cause." Show the hope from our Savior. Never perceive that you are unworthy or not in need of forgiveness and salvation. Hold on to the truth. Be steadfast and immovable. Because you, my sibling in Christ, will never, ever be a lost cause.
Did you know that research time and time again reveals that Monday is the most stressful day of the week? In 2014, mind.org reported that Mondays were so stressful that "two-thirds of people experience 'Sunday Blues,' anxiety triggered by thoughts of work the following day." (see article here)
How we view something has a big impact on our actions toward it, be it musicians, green vegetables, church, math, in-laws, or exercise. So if I view Monday as stressful, it will be stressful -- a big thumbs down to starting a new week.
Therefore, the New Year's Resolution is to view every Monday of this new year just as you view New Year's Day -- a new beginning, a new expedition, another chance, a better life, a better YOU!
This uplifting thrill in our hearts does not and should not be only once a year, but 52 times a year! And now, honestly, Mondays are my FAVORITE day of the week! It's a new chance, new goals, new wonders. What will God do this week? How will He show His glory? Who will I have a chance to love this week? to share God's love with? to comfort? Will I succeed? Will I persevere? How will my husband and my children touch my heart? It has a positive, productive effect on the entire week. I have personally been practicing my new view of Mondays for almost two years now, and it has been a refreshing approach to my life.
Every Monday is a new open door. God wants you to love it! Every Monday, read this message from God to YOU:
“I know your works. SEE, I have set before you an open door, and no one can shut it; for you have a little strength, have kept My word, and have not denied My name.”
— Revelation 3:8
Will you SEE this gift from God of an open door every Monday?
My children completed some crafty Christmas cards at least five years ago. Every year as we unpack Christmas decorations, they continue to place their cards under the Christmas tree. This Bible study began a holiday family tradition that reminds us of what Christmas is really all about.
All that is needed is a Bible, construction/craft paper, and any other Christmas crafts you may want to include in card-making. Italics is for you to read aloud to your children.
On the very first Christmas, every giver gave something that could not be wrapped in a box. The gifts came from the heart. Let's take a look at the first 5 givers of Christmas:
Giver #1: Mary, Jesus' mother.
Read Luke 1:26-38. Mary's whole life was about to change. The angel Gabriel was telling her that she would be the mother of Jesus. And she replied that she was ready to obey God. What a gift! She gave God her obedience. Here is where the Christmas gifts first began. God wants to receive this gift from us all. This Christmas, will you give God the gift of obedience?
Make a Christmas card addressed, "To: God, From: Mary." Draw a picture showing the angel speaking to Mary, and write "obedience" inside the card. Place the beautiful, finished card under the Christmas tree, as a gift would be.
Giver #2: Joseph, Jesus' earthly father.
Read Luke 2:1-7. Joseph took care of Mary while she was pregnant. He loved her. he searched everywhere in Bethlehem for a warm place for Mary. He GAVE his care and love. Who can you give this gift to today?
Make a Christmas card addressed, "To: Mary, From: Joseph." Draw a picture illustrating Joseph and a pregnant Mary together travelling, or in a stable. Write "love & care" on the inside of the card, and place the card under the Christmas tree.
Giver #3: The Angels
Read Luke 2:8-20. Can you imagine how cold it must have been for those shepherds in the windy fields at night, with no relief of warmth from the sun? Then, they are given the news that will change the world forever! In their joy, they offer beautiful, heavenly music and song to the shepherds. They gave music! Remember to sing for Jesus. He loves to hear your voice!
Make a Christmas card labeled, "To: The shepherds, From: The Angels." Inside the card, write "Music." Place the card under the Christmas tree.
Giver #4: The Wise Men
Read Matthew 2:9-11. The Wise Men gave Jesus very expensive gifts that would help Mary and Joseph care for Jesus. Actual gifts that they could use for Jesus's health.
Make a Christmas card addressed, "To: Jesus, From: the Wise Men." Inside the card, write "gold, frankincense, myrrh." Place the card under the tree.
Giver #5: Jesus
Read John 6:33. Jesus came to give you life. What a gift - life! The price he paid was with His own life. Jesus defeated death, rose from the grave, and gives everlasting life to all that believe in Him!
Make a Christmas card addressed, "To: YOU; From: Jesus." Then write eternal life on the inside of the card.
And there are our first Christmas givers, which led the way for Jesus to show us everlasting love!
Thank you to my home church, Blackshear Place Baptist Church, for sharing this amazing resource to help and guide us moms to pray for our children. Copy, paste, and print to keep close to you.
1. Salvation—"Lord, let salvation spring up within my children, that they may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus, with eternal glory." (Isa. 45:8; 2 Tim. 2:10)
2. Growth in Grace—"I pray that my children may grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ." (2 Pet. 3:18)
3. Love—"Grant, Lord, that my children may learn to live a life of love, through the Spirit who dwells in them. (Gal. 5:25; Eph. 5:2)
4. Honesty and Integrity—"May integrity and honesty be their virtue and their protection." (Ps. 25:21)
5. Self-Control—"Father, help my children not to be like many others around them, but let them be alert and self-controlled in all they do." (1 Thess. 5:6)>
6. Love for God's Word—"May my children grow to find Your Word more precious than much pure gold and sweeter than honey from the comb." (Ps. 19:10)
7. Justice—"God, help my children to love justice as You do and act justly in all they do." (Ps. 11:7; Mic. 6:8)
8. Mercy—"May my children always be merciful, just as their Father is merciful." (Luke 6:36)
9. Respect (for self, others, and authority)—"Father, grant that my children may show proper respect to everyone, as Your Word commands.(1 Pet. 2:17)
10. Biblical Self-Esteem—"Help my children develop a strong self-esteem that is rooted in the realization that they are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus." (Eph. 2:10)
11. Faithfulness—"Let love and faithfulness never leave my children, but bind these twin virtues around their necks and write them on the tablet of their hearts." (Prov. 3:3)
12. Courage—"May my children always be strong and courageous in their character.(Deut. 31:6)
13. Purity—"Create in them a pure heart, O God, and let that purity of heart be shown in their actions." (Ps. 51:10)
14. Kindness—"Lord, may my children always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else." (1 Thess. 5:15)
15. Generosity—"Grant that my children may be generous and willing to share, and so lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age." (1 Tim. 6:18-19)
16. Peace-Loving—"Father, let my children make every effort to do what leads to peace." (Rom. 14:19)
17. Joy—"May my children be filled with the joy given by the Holy Spirit." (1 Thes. 1:6)
18. Perseverance—"Lord, teach my children perseverance in all they do, and help them
especially to run with perseverance the race marked out for them." (Heb. 12:1)
19. Humility—"God, please cultivate in my children the ability to show true humility toward all." (Titus 3:2)
20. Compassion—"Lord, please clothe my children with the virtue of compassion." (Col. 3:12)
21. Responsibility—"Grant that my children may learn responsibility, for each one should carry his own load." (Gal. 6:5)
22. Contentment—"Father, teach my children the secret of being content in any and every situation, through Him who gives them strength." (Phil. 4:12-13)
23. Faith—"I pray that faith will find root and grow in my children's hearts, that by faith they may gain what has been promised to them." (Luke 17:5-6; Heb. 11:1-40)
24. A Servant's Heart—"God, please help my children develop servant's hearts, that they may serve wholeheartedly, as if they were serving the Lord, not men." (Eph. 6:7)
25. Hope—"May the God of hope grant that my children may overflow with hope and
hopefulness by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Rom. 15:13)
26. Willingness and Ability to Work—"Teach my children, Lord, to value work and to work at it with all their heart, as working for the Lord and not for men." (Col. 3:23)
27. Passion for God—"Lord, please instill in my children a soul that 'followeth hard after thee,' one that clings passionately to You." (Ps. 63:8)
28.Self-Discipline—"Father, I pray that my children may acquire a disciplined and prudent life, doing what is right and just and fair." (Prov. 1:3)
29. Prayerfulness—"Grant, Lord, that my children's lives may be marked by prayerfulness, that they may learn to pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers." (1 Thess. 5:17)
30. Gratitude—"Help my children to live lives that are always overflowing with thankfulness and always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ." (Eph. 5:20; Col. 2:7)
*Written by Bob Hostetler from https://www.reviveourhearts.com/articles/31-biblical-virtues-to-pray-for-your-children/
David's life is one of the most amazing events in the Bible. His life was a suspense, an adventure, inspirational, and even a bit dark in places. All these experienced from his boyhood until the time he became King of Judah and Israel, and a great while after. Also, and you already know this, but it's still super interesting -- time in the rest of the world was still going on as David was growing in his walk with God. God was orchestrating events in the entire world. His hands were powerfully in motion throughout the life of David, and yet even bigger, involved in the rest of the world. Have fun, and take a look:
At the time of the First Book of Samuel...
the Trojan War had recently ended (over between 1260 and 1100 BC);
1010BC: Saul appoints David commander of his army.
Yet between 1010BC, and 995BC, David runs for his life from King Saul.
Also, in India, the caste systems begin to develop, and the time period of the Dark Ages of Greece are approaching.
In approximately, 995BC, David is anointed King of Judah, and then King of Israel.
Permission by johninportland/morguefile
David's days in Israel were written before even one came to be. And all the while, life in India, China, Greece, Egypt, and everywhere else in the world was canopied by the watchful eye of our God. World events are not separate from Biblical events. All of history really is "His story."
Contributions by The McGraw-Hill Co. INC.; 2015 TimeMap of World History; The Story of the World, vol. 1, Bauer, Susan, 2001; The NKJV Early Readers Bible, 2005, Thomas Nelson; The Usborne Book of Living Long Ago, Brooks and Edom, 1990; Everyday Life in Bible Times, Lion Pub., 1994; The Awesome Book of Bible Facts, Silverthorne, 1994.
Leaving everything behind and running for your life as David had to do would be extremely difficult. I am trying to imagine… leaving, without notice, the people in my life that I love and care for, such as family and friends, and to possibly never see them again…leaving my home, my job… maybe leaving behind plans and dreams. For me, this is almost impossible to imagine! There’s one thing for sure: I cannot imagine going through something like this without God.
David knew God was with him. He also knew he would be going through some tough times.
In Matthew 5:10, the Lord says, “Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of God.” David was being heavily persecuted during this time, but through his trust in Jesus, he was able to persevere.
If I am truly to live as Christ wants me to live, then I can also expect to be persecuted and to suffer throughout some time in my life here on earth. It may not be as extreme as David’s suffering. Then again, it may be, but suffering nonetheless. I know because God’s Word says so: in 2 Timothy 3:12, it is declared, “Yes, and all who desire to live godly in Christ Jesus will suffer persecution.”
It will always be easier to live the way of the world. That is, do what I want when I want.
However, life is not fully lived unless it is challenging, and one big challenge is living daily for God. I need to remind myself daily of this challenge, and find comfort in knowing that when I live fully for Him, I am receiving the Lord’s blessing. No life challenges equal boredom.
Excerpt from book "From a Boy to a Godly Man: A Boy's Bible Study of David." by Katy & Chris Foster. 2014
The Joseph Bible study is so dear to my heart for two big reasons: I wrote it for my now 13-year-old son, and I know with all my heart every young teenager/tween needs the life of Joseph deep in their hearts as they endure and persevere in the world.
Dear Readers, don't let the family tree fill-in-the-blanks worksheet (page 16) overwhelm you. First of all, if you will look closely, all the answers are on the opposite page (page 17). However, if you get confused, and/or would like to check your answers, here they are:
Explanations in your reading: (here's what's going on while Joseph is in Egypt.)
v. 1 "Adullamite" Living in Adullam, which was about 10 minutes north of Jacob and his family.
v. 2 The sexual relationship between Judah and the daughter Shua was as God created it -- within marriage.
v. 7 "...the LORD killed him." It is not that God lost His temper, because James 1:19 informs us that God is slow to anger and abounds in love. Knowing this, Er and Onan's wicked behavior must have gone way back, lasting for quite a while, hurting others, spreading darkness, and delighting in havoc.
v. 9 Onan disrespects his dad's wishes by hindering the possibility of the creation of a baby. "...went in to her" is sexual intercourse. Sex can a tough topic, because our society, of ancient days and of today, has taken it and twisted it, and made sex something perverse. Yet, it was created by God as a gift to a husband and wife united in marriage. Sex outside of marriage steals away the gift intended for a future wife being prepared by God, and for the future husband being prepared by God.
The rights of the firstborn son held a significant position with the families' future. The firstborn was expected to have his own children so that the family's wealth and wisdom was shared and passed down. This was perceived as common knowledge, a must, an understanding, or a custom.
Tamar's future was predetermined. She was to stay with her father as a "two-times" widow until Shelah was old enough to marry. She could not and did not make any personal goals or lifelong dreams. She never even tried. She submitted to upholding the name of her husband, and she surrendered any thought of herself to exalt the tribe of Er, son of Judah. A strong, noble woman. No argument.
Did Tamar lie? Yes, she did lie. The nobility and loyalty of a person does not excuse wrong actions. Tamar upheld family dignity by deceiving, possibly out of anger toward Judah. But God actually blessed Tamar's determination to do right by her husband.
Twins Perez and Zerah have been compared to John the Baptist and Jesus. Of course, they were not twins, but they were cousins that were very close to the same age. Also, like Zerah, John the Baptist was born first. The scarlet cord represents the blood Jesus was born to shed to cover all sins. Perez, born second, is not only a representation of Jesus, he is also a forefather, or descendent, of Jesus!
The commentary is written as an explanation to boys, ages 10 to 14; and hopefully to parents who may need a bit of support explaining Genesis 38 to their children.
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"...Nevertheless, before you take a side between Joseph or the brothers (and possibly judge one side or the other), try to look at the entire picture.
Suppose Joseph wrote a letter to his brothers to reveal his heart, and suppose you are one of the brothers receiving the letter. Let’s read what Joseph has to say:
Dear Brothers,
Please take the time to understand how every
moment in my own life has been constantly
changing, with most of it in turmoil and confusion.
Please take this time to see how I see, and to know me
more. I felt that same despair that you are feeling
right now. I have felt that same grief and confusion,
thoughts filled my mind as well. I did right before
God, like you. Then I was pushed down, enslaved,
and imprisoned.
It hurts badly for me to look at my brother Benjamin’s
face, and see my own mother; yet, he does not even
know me. He thinks I am dead, nonexistent.
I have wondered every day if I would ever see my
loving father again. For so many years, I wondered
if I would ever see a day of freedom again. It’s such a
horrible feeling.
I know, and now you know.
I don’t want to see you suffer, but through this
time may you reflect on me, and come to know me.
Perhaps now our hearts are becoming closer together.
I want you to know me. For this moment, be like
me. Then you will know me and understand me,
and hopefully, you will love me.
Love,
Joseph
"...Nevertheless, before you take a side between Joseph or the brothers (and possibly judge one side or the other), try to look at the entire picture.
Suppose Joseph wrote a letter to his brothers to reveal his heart, and suppose you are one of the brothers receiving the letter. Let’s read what Joseph has to say:
Dear Brothers,
Please take the time to understand how every
moment in my own life has been constantly
changing, with most of it in turmoil and confusion.
Please take this time to see how I see, and to know me
more. I felt that same despair that you are feeling
right now. I have felt that same grief and confusion,
thoughts filled my mind as well. I did right before
God, like you. Then I was pushed down, enslaved,
and imprisoned.
It hurts badly for me to look at my brother Benjamin’s
face, and see my own mother; yet, he does not even
know me. He thinks I am dead, nonexistent.
I have wondered every day if I would ever see my
loving father again. For so many years, I wondered
if I would ever see a day of freedom again. It’s such a
horrible feeling.
I know, and now you know.
I don’t want to see you suffer, but through this
time may you reflect on me, and come to know me.
Perhaps now our hearts are becoming closer together.
I want you to know me. For this moment, be like
me. Then you will know me and understand me,
and hopefully, you will love me.
Love,
Joseph
"...Nevertheless, before you take a side between Joseph or the brothers (and possibly judge one side or the other), try to look at the entire picture.
Suppose Joseph wrote a letter to his brothers to reveal his heart, and suppose you are one of the brothers receiving the letter. Let’s read what Joseph has to say:
Dear Brothers,
Please take the time to understand how every
moment in my own life has been constantly
changing, with most of it in turmoil and confusion.
Please take this time to see how I see, and to know me
more. I felt that same despair that you are feeling
right now. I have felt that same grief and confusion,
Planning little allows spontaneity. Real life applied now. Time holds little power over what we do, so we take it by its horns and fill curiosity with as much info as they want. "Mom, who made the American flag?..." "Has anyone ever climbed Mt. Everest?..." The only engraved musts are reading, chores, and music. Thus far this summer, we have seen and experienced an unbelievable amount by stepping out of that Scheduling-Mom-created bubble!
For example, what compares to family camping? We took a week to relax by Lake Lanier. Fishing tested our perseverance, kayaking took our imaginations wildly. "Let's pretend we're Marco Polo trying to find China. We're lost on the Caspian Sea! Where's the Yangtze River? Oh no! Far, far away!" I try to be a sneaky teacher, and I may have gotten a little carried away.
So, when Annabelle finds a dead crawfish, I guide her to tell her dad she found a crustacean. "He'll think you're the smartest girl in Georgia."
"A what? A crustian? What's that?" She asked. "Crustacean," I get the chance to answer, "That just means it's an exoskeleton. Its skeleton is on the outside, not the inside."
"Then, what's on the inside?" she inquires. "Well, should we dissect it?" I suggest. Yes, disgusting, but really interesting.
The learning goes on with no planning. We watch for nimbus clouds (yes, adding to our vocabulary) so we can plan our leisure; we are in no hurry to get artwork done; we loved sitting back on a blanket at Stone Mountain, the large igneous rock, waiting for the Laser Show. Swimming is too fun, of course, to call exercise.
All of us are cultivating friendships and memories with neighbors, friends, and family.
Most importantly, we're taking time to praise God through acts of love in community volunteer work, being tools for God for the spiritually and physically hungry.
Summer's biggest goal for us is FUN. The rest, as always in any season, is in God's hands.
Although it was a super cold 20 degrees in downtown Atlanta, the kids and I had grins glued to our faces. First of all, the tall buildings, blowing horns, and crossing busy streets with so many people put a huge difference in our daily routine, and it was just exciting! Be that as it may, our destination was why we were smiling. We were headed to the Georgia State Capitol to attend Teenpact.
Teenpact is a Christian organization for children starting at age 8. They learn leadership skills, public speaking, the process of the legislative branch, creating and passing bills, and most importantly, how to stand firm in their walk as a Christian and uphold the Word of God.
We just got to the Capitol! We're ready!
This year (2015) was Alex's third year attending, and Annabelle's first year. This event has become a staple in annual family events, not so that the children can become politicians, but to guide them in honoring their country and to stay steadfast and immovable for God.
A new family favorite: "Chopped." The chefs are given four "mystery" ingredients to prepare a succulent dish in a tiny amount of time. The chef with the least appetizing dish gets "chopped" from the cooking battle.
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Working with life's ingredients can also be tough. Take King David, for example...
For David, here are the ingredients:
an anointing by God;
experience with shepherding animals;
a harp;
some pebbles;
hatred of the King Saul and his army; and
a deep love for God.
I think we can agree that the deep love for God surpasses all other ingredients in making a "succulent" life; however, David really did not have much more to work with, did he? Although he knew God's plan for his life, just as we, as Christians, all know that God has a plan to give us hope and a future, the ingredients of life that David had to work with showed little hope. Well, he had his harp and his shepherding work experience - yay.
Do we look at the ingredients in our own lives and think, "Nothing great can come from this -- I have no resources to fall back on, no money, boredom, not enough talent, no clout, no one to support me. I'll just make these bland ingredients into a bland day. Oh, well..." Of course, every day does not need to be an exciting off-the-wall adventure, but it also never has to be bland.
David, in all the anguish, hunger, and uncertainty going on in his life, remembers,
“You have put gladness in my heart, more than in the season that their grain and wine increased.”
— Psalm 4:7
It really has nothing to do with the ingredients -- it's how you use the ingredients. We take these ingredients and mix with other essentials: daily Bible reading, spending time with God, spending time in fellowship, faith, hope, joy,...and other "staple" ingredients like these. Then, deep in our hearts, we know and understand David's words.
The actual ingredients, however difficult and bland they appear to us, are nominal compared what the Creator of theses ingredients can and will do.
Bon' appetit!
Ingredients: leftover Valentine candy, sweet peas, marshmallows, Life cereal.
Dish (presented by Chef Annabelle; judged by Alex & Ansley): Chocolate-Marshmallow crunch with Sweet Pea mousse. It was...interesting. Except, Alex found a hair!
In the event that you may not have heard, the term "bucket list" refers to a list of things a person would like to do before they die, before they leave this world, before they kick the bucket.
I personally just heard the term "bucket list" a few months ago from a 14-year-old girl, who made the statement, "That was on my bucket list." Then I responded, "I beg your pardon -- what is a bucket list?" Then she actually asked me, "Do you live in a bubble?"
She then shared with me what she included on her own bucket list, and although I was intrigued, I have to admit, I was not too impressed with her list. Nonetheless, my interest and concern caused me to dig this term further over the internet, and I found that, well, maybe I did live in bubble.
However, what really troubles me about the majority of these bucket lists out there is that there is no regard to Philippians 3:20, which is a huge hallmark of my hope:
Our citizenship is in heaven, from which we also eagerly wait for the Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ.
Although I desperately want to please my Father as He blesses me with each breath here on earth, I've got some big plans for later. There happens to be eternity coming up, and here is where I have made my own bucket list:
Now try and get your mind around this as you read it -- I'm talking eternity in Heaven here, my home! Here is what I plan to do:
Kiss the feet of Jesus.
Get a Ph.D. in physics.
Apologize to the angel(s) that protected me just as they receive their award for "Hardest Working Angel."
Hear God's actual, audible voice!
Sit right next to Mary at church.
Have Bible study with Jesus.
Become pitcher of a softball team.
Have coffee time with Ruth Bell Graham before we take off on motorcycles.
Memorize the whole Bible.
Take voice lessons from an angel.
Write praise songs and hand-deliver them to God.
Host an annual Bible People Party, held for all the saints mentioned in the Bible.
Give Jesus a bouquet of lilies every year on His birthday.
Meet Moses.
Sign up for harp lessons, taught by King David.
Hold God's actual hand and walk wherever He wants to go.
Write one million books.
Add my name to the waiting list for the astronomy class being taught by God.
SEE God smile at me.
Learn Hebrew.
Find Joshua, a baby that died when I was 9 years old, and who sparked a kindling in my soul to surrender my life to Jesus.
Sit and relax on a front porch with my dad and with God, and hear them both laugh.
Hear Paul preach.
Hug and kiss my children without worrying about time passing by.
“Then the Philistines followed hard after Saul and his sons. And the Philistines killed Jonathan...”
— 1 Samuel 31:2
Why Jonathan? He was a man of God, and a good friend to David. He had the opportunity to take the throne as King of Israel, but he chose to follow and revere God's will of anointing David as the next king. He helped save David's life, when it could have cost him his own life.
Then, he's killed by the enemy. It doesn't seem fair. It seems that if I live my life for God and try to be as righteous as possible, I should not have to worry about sufferings or misfortunes, because God will protect me.
However, God's word tells me that when I accept the gift of salvation, I am made anew, but I am NOT made untouchable. As a matter of fact, Jesus assures us in John 16:33, "In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world."
I thought of Jonathan this past Memorial Day, when we remember all those who have risked their lives to keep our lives safe and comfortable. It is a sad time, but also an enjoyable holiday, because we stop and think about the great amount of love and selflessness these people have had. On this special day, we never walk around pouting, stomping our feet, and mad.
In emergency situations, such as fires, criminal acts, and in war, our soldiers, firefighters, and police officers put their life on the line to do their job.
Jonathan placed his life on the line to protect his country Israel from the godless Philistines. His life ended with integrity, in obedience, and in the arms of God his Father.
BUT WHY DOES GOD LET BAD THINGS HAPPEN?
There is something very important that you absolutely must understand about God: He never created bad things -- we did. At creation, God saw that EVERYTHING was good,....and then there was sin.
And then, after we sin, we suffer the consequences,...and someone else usually does, too.
These bad things have been in our world way before Jonathan's death, and way after. Before Jonathan, Abel was unfairly killed by his brother Cain; Joseph was sold into Egyptian slavery; Job, a righteous man, had everything taken from him. After Jonathan's death, Hebrews were taken slaves, Daniel was thrown into a lion's den, Jews were killed in concentration camps, children are dying of starvation, children are being killed in schools,....
It's heart-wrenching. The prince of this world is Satan. Those who do not believe it are Satan's greatest weapons, and those who do believe it are his greatest targets.
I suppose that if we understood everything of why God does this, and does not do that, we really wouldn't need a God. As it turns out, we don't know everything, and we really need God! Therefore, in this world of darkness and sadness, we have a stronghold, a haven, an anchor. So it's OK.
When we read that Jonathan is killed, we wished it had not happened. But the truth is, he is doing great now, because Jonathan and David are now spending eternity in Heaven with God, awaiting the day of Jesus Christ so that we will all be together. Hope is a fountain of joy worth gripping.
Water-floats for the pool don't last too long with us. We manage to include a hole or tear in a float within its first couple of uses. We have never taken the time to see a pool as something relaxing. We are way too busy jumping, dunking, flipping, and brutally splashing.
So, off I go to buy a new float. "Hey! An inner tube!" I think as I shop, "That looks fun! We can all have fun on one of those!" I pay for my newly found treasure, and we head for the pool. Once at the pool, the kids jump in, and I pull out the package enclosing the float, and smile at the lady in the picture as she holds a huge inner tube. This may take forever to blow up!... In no time, I have blown up this tiny black thing that looks like a wagon wheel for tots. What is this?!? I throw the tube in the pool with the children. "What is this?" they ask. "Your new float." I answer as upbeat as possible. "But I thought it was going to be bigger." shares one child. "Oh, you feel deceived?" I can't help it. "This lady on the package is apparently two feet tall, which is why the float must have looked so big in the picture. Who knew?" I then thought of a time when I bought an inflatable water toy for my son when he was a toddler. There again, the picture showed a family splashing and soaked from the toy's water capacity. I remember picturing (in my own deceived mind) a swimming and diving lesson in the picture. Once blown up, the bottom of my foot was hardly covered in water, not to mention that only one foot would even fit in this mini water park (very, very mini).
Back at the pool, I felt deceived, lied to, suckered. I thought the world around me is just like that, guaranteeing this, selling that, giving that 'too good to be true' opportunity. We build up our hope, jump in with faith that what we are hearing is true, and are then left feeling foolish and naïve for ever believing, and for ever trusting, for ever hoping. So the next time I hear, "I have an offer for you that you CAN'T refuse!" I think, "Yeah, right. I'm not getting burned again. I'm smarter now." As I dove deeper into (no, not the pool) my bitterness, the love and guidance of God poured over me (better than any pool), and the Bible verse that came into my head was John 12:31:
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God is distinguished from this world, and He is quite opposite compared to the world. By the Holy Spirit, I was reminded that the "ruler of this world" (John 14:30) and "the god of this age has blinded" (2 Corinthians 4:4) those in the world; this ruler being Satan. He has blinded us into thinking there is nothing to hope for. We will only again be deceived. Consequently, there are so many people that believe God's promises of forgiveness, love, guidance, and eternal life are, like everything else, hopeless. Too good to be true. Wow, the harvest sure is full, isn't it?
Promises from God are wonderfully worth diving into...
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These are true promises that swell up hope and joy in any heart that ponders them, and then experiences these faithful promises by our faithful God! So go ahead! Forget about the inner tube that is slowly turning into a hat for the kids (a hole, already?). Jump into eternal, divine truth that will never leave you feeling foolish. It's so refreshing!
A wonderful beginning to our home-school year, along with some chiseling, we dug deep into God's word as HE revealed our hearts to us. We started our venture here:
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
v4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; v5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; v6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; v7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. v8 Love never fails.
We continued with 1 John 4:8:
Jesus proclaims in John 10:30 "I and My Father are one." Therefore, JESUS suffers long and is kind; JESUS does not envy,...
We substituted the word "love" for "Jesus," and we learned some wonderful truths about Jesus. "Jesus does not seek His own,... Jesus thinks no evil,... Jesus never fails."
The children liked the connection, but we're not done quite yet with these bridges...
1 John 2:6 explains that we, as believers, "ought to walk just as HE walked."
"Therefore," I explained to my children, "I should be able to put my name in the place of love. After all, I do want to walk as Jesus walked."
I reread 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, using my own name in the place of the word "love:"
"KATY suffers lo... no, that's something I need to work on. KATY is kind. Sure, I try to be...well, not always. KATY does not envy...whoa! Oh my! I do envy!..." The entire passage honestly revealed more and more of my heart. Meanwhile, the children are enjoying my confessions.
"Who wants to go next?" To my relief and surprise, they all did. One at a time, we read our own names aloud: "ANNABELLE suffers long," "ALEX is kind," "ANSLEY does not envy,..." Without offering any defense, they all admitted their shortcomings, with faces not of defeat, but of revival! We were all fueled by God's truth, because He showed us our hearts.
I was surprised at God's hands in their lives this morning, and then humbled for forgetting the power of His words. Sharper than any double-edged sword, we were chiseled. 1 Corinthians 13 will be our compass for the month of August. Revived, revealed, and grateful, stirred to obey, so that we, like Jesus, will reflect love.
“And David stayed in strongholds in the wilderness, and remained in the mountains in the Wilderness of Ziph. Saul sought him every day, but God did not deliver him into his hand. ”
— 1 Samuel 23:14 NKJ
Saul sought to kill David EVERY DAY!
Yet God did not allow Saul to touch David. If Saul is hunting for David absolutely every single day, he must have had quite a hunger to destroy David. Saul took this hunt very seriously. With such rigor and determination, one would think Saul would prevail, kill David, and claim victory.
And maybe this is exactly what would have happened, if God wasn't involved.
Question:
Do you want God involved in your life?
If you have a strong relationship with God right now, then you have no idea how God may be protecting you and blessing you this very minute. Oh, my sweet brother or sister in Christ, how great are His blessings upon us, particularly the ones we may never know about!
What a comfort, what a joy, what a peace! God really does give us this day. We don't claim it, we definitely did not earn it, and we don't deserve it. This very day was given in more ways than you will ever know.
Find and secure this peace with God. I have some great prayers that come straight from the Bible for you to try praying to God. Choose some or one to pray every day. And then, now listen, be ready! God is going to answer your prayer, in much bigger ways than you will be expecting!
“Create in me a clean heart, O God, And renew a steadfast spirit within me.”
— Psalm 51:10 NKJ
“Show me your ways, O LORD; Teach me Your paths, Lead me in Your truth and teach me.”
— Psalm 25:4,5 NKJ
“Search me, O God, and know my heart; Try me, and know my anxieties; And see if there is any wicked way in me, And lead me in the way of everlasting.”
— Psalm 139:23,24 NKJ
All these verses were prayers written by David! God protected him. In Psalm 91:14, God says "Because he has set his love upon Me, therefore I will deliver him."
Love God, and thank Him for all of this day!
Photo by Mike McBryant. (My Sunday School teacher when I was a teenager!)
I would like to share with you the introduction to Chapter 8 in my book. It refers to a time when David was at one of the loneliest and darkest times in his life.
This is also such an important message that I want my own son to hear and to know. (He is currently reading Chapter 4.)
I remember these words from my pastor many years ago: “A man’s character is measured by what it takes to stop him.”When everything is going wrong, it’s your biggest chance to grow.
Seeing my own son suffer, go through pain, or have a bad day is heart-wrenching for me.However, I know that his Godly character will never grow unless he goes through bad times with the rod and staff of his Heavenly Father.
There are grown men who have a character that can presently be measured in inches.They hit hard times and turn to drugs, alcohol, aggression, depression, bitterness, hatefulness, laziness, or they just give up.
Suffering, struggles, and pain are inevitable in this life.Thank God for them!He is giving you a chance to submit to His Holy Spirit, and to face the challenge, and dare it to come closer.He is giving you a chance to throw away your fear and run to Him.He is giving you a chance to persevere, to be bolder, to be stronger, and to know that He is more powerful than your problem.He is giving you a chance to be wiser.He is giving you a chance to raise your hands to Him and say, “I surrender all to You, God!” He is giving you a chance to see the fruit of obedience to Him.
With God, nothing will stop you, and your character will be immeasurable.
“Saul has slain his thousands, And David his ten thousands.”
— I Samuel 18:7
"So why would King Saul
even care
what singing women in the street
had to say?"
There are so many things to think about here.
First of all, this singing took place on a day of victory -- victory from the Philistines. Just hours before, the Israelites feared they were about to become slaves to the Philistines. Now, they are the winners, and they are going to PARTY!
So, all the Israelites stand in the streets, anticipating the arrival of their soldiers. They were celebrating! There was entertainment with singing, dancing, and musical instruments. They had heard about their hero -- a boy named David from Bethlehem. This was one awesome day. If you were there, you would undoubtedly have had an awesome time! That is, unless you were King Saul.
He was insulted. The song implied that David was more worthy than their King! Saul is angry about this, and he swells up with hate for David. It just add more salt to Saul's ugly wicked wound.
Is it OK to make fun of those in authority? Never.We are commanded by God in 1 Peter 2:13 to "submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake." Therefore, absolutely never. It is common for many people to believe that they receive a ticket to ridicule or debase the government because their candidate did not win.
Submit, obey, and respect those in authority.
Does the President really care if we make fun of him? Well, unfortunately it comes with the job. Any leadership position includes having authority over many prideful people who are weak in their respect. Unlike Saul, he does not have an admirable and handsome threat to his "throne."
Did the song by the women go "viral"? Absolutely, all the way to Philistia, even the words. It was a song of joy to the Israelites. It most likely had a nice catchy melodious ring to it, which grieved Saul even more.
Were the singing women right in honoring David? No, they were honoring David at Saul's expense. They strengthened Saul's vengeful rage. Nothing right there.
But it was true. Yes, but not kind. Notice that it is not sung today in any of our hymn books at church. David never added the lyrics to any of his psalms.
Is there anything or anybody in our world today that is comparable to the dancing, singing women? Absolutely. Everywhere. We need to think carefully how our words can hurt others, even if we have no intentions of hurting others. Our words can brew sinful thoughts and intentions in others. Our words can distance others from God. Even if we meant well.
So, King Saul was correct in becoming angry, right? Oh, no! Although the song should have never been sung, Saul should have had self-control, and been able to control his anger. Being insulted, embarrassed, and ridiculed hurts. However, it is really an opportunity for us to strengthen our self-control and prayer time with God. We cannot control what others do and say, but we can watch and be careful with the way we react, what we think, and what we do.
Holy Week was so wonderful in our home and so blessed by God. We were constantly reminded of the sacrifice of JESUS. It is always a wonderful joy to see my family, my husband and each of my three children, mesmerized by Jesus' sacrifice. I could practically see the children gazing at God's LOVE!
God's blessings were so abundant -- on Good Friday, a new family member, my nephew Hudson Grady Mauldin was introduced to the world. Born tiny (3lbs, 12oz), yet he was so beautiful.
The next day of Baby Hudson's life, the mom and dad were informed that he may have an infection, and some further tests would need to be performed. The anguish that hit my heart put me on my knees. And I thought of the Saturday, the dark day that Mary's heart grieved, and the day that Jesus's followers and disciples were left baffled and confused. At that time, they did not know what the next day would bring. However, as I sat there on my own dark Saturday, I knew. I knew that the next day would COMPLETE God's will, and their HOPE!
Hope, that is Hudson's mother's name, my brother's wife. 'How similar to Mary,' I thought, 'On this dark day, she aches in unmatched love for her son, waiting to see what God will do.'
"Dear God, I know you have the power to completely heal this baby boy. Please do it." This was the prayer of so many family members and friends. We all said, "Pray!" And we all said, "We will!"
The next morning, my family awoke to the BLARING sound of "He Arose!" My husband Chris had hooked up the speakers, and he let them wail! We were all so joyful. We had such an unexplained JOY.
After Easter service, later in the morning, my husband was sitting at the computer and says, "Katy, come see this."
I saw God's hands at work: The mother Hope had posted a morning update on Hudson -- no infection, and the baby boy was healthy!
Mother Hope & Baby Hudson
God's GRACE poured onto this newborn child, just as HIS GRACE was shown on the cross!
Baby Hudson is still is NICU, but he is progressing and growing. He is strong! I still haven't held him in my arms, but I love looking forward to the days to come.
My prayer to God, my sweet nephew Hudson, is that you grow so strong and healthy and that you love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength! Your life has ALREADY reminded so many people of GOD"S LOVE! I love you, precious baby!
“I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live.”
— John 11:25
"...but I will see you again and your heart will rejoice, and your joy no one will take from you." John 16:22
Jesus is risen from the dead! Each and every breath that we breathe every single day rests on this one glorious miracle. Because through HIM we have eternal life. He is risen, and He is alive! We need to celebrate, bigger than Christmas! So here is what Chris and I have conjured up thus far for the week -- HOLY WEEK:
We will keep a prayer list and pray over the list each day of Holy Week.
(We wished we did this every day of every week, but unfortunately we are NOT that organized, another reason to look forward to Holy Week.)
Then we all give something up -- sacrifice -- fast.
The children will begiving up candy, sweets, and TV this week. The girls are giving up video games, and our son is giving up his tongue (no talking back to sisters, and no correcting them). Chris has decided to give up all computer use and TV, and I am giving up sweets and TV. If my Savior and Lord gave HIS LIFE for our lives, then candy, sweets, and the computer is nothing.
We give and share with others.
Letters, thank you cards, visiting friends, making cupcakes, or dinners, and anything else God leads us to give.
This is all we've got so far. I am curious of how others celebrate the resurrection of Jesus. PLEASE post your Easter happenings/traditions by clicking "Comment" below, and share!
