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I'm taking the day off for some good old fashioned Rocky Mountain skiing. Ever notice how it's sometimes so much work to have fun? Sheesh, just getting the gear together, including enough clothing to keep us warm in single-digit temps, can be enough to scare us off sometimes. Then there's the 2-hour drive. The expensive lift tickets, not to mention the expensive food. The effort of strapping on those big, stiff boots. And did I mention the cold?
I always have a couple of moments when I ask myself, is this really worth it?

Ah, but then I'm on the lift experiencing the surreal quiet and beauty of a snow-covered forest...
I'm watching my kids as they confidently navigate tougher and tougher runs, smiling all the way...
I'm swooshing down the mountain, looking at the unbelievable view, and U2's "Beautiful Day" comes on in my awesome in-helmet sound system...
And I know it's totally worth it. The effort, the discomfort, the hassle, the money. All of it.
As a writer... do you ever wonder if it's all worth it?
© 2011 Rachelle Gardner, Literary Agent
*Anytime Soon
I loved reading everyone's comments to my post on Friday, Is It Lonely Being a Writer? It confirmed for me once again how powerful social networking is—how it can truly connect us and help us all feel less isolated.
Over the last few months, several influential people in my life have asked me, "So when are you going to quit blogging?" They assume that as my business grows and I continue to get busier, it's obvious that I'd let go of the blog to make time for "more important" things.
Each time, I responded that I didn't think it was time to stop blogging. I probably sounded undecided and apologetic. I knew I wanted to continue blogging but felt guilty about it, because certain people thought I was wasting my time and questioned my commitment to success as an agent.
There are even people out there writing criticisms (on blogs - what the heck?) of agents who blog, implying that if agents are doing anything besides direct client work, we're slacking. Sorry, that doesn't make much sense. There are millions of blogs out there and they're mostly written by people who work full-time and earn a living. Are they all slackers because they devote a part of their day to blogging?
I spent some time thinking about why I blog and asking myself if it makes sense to keep doing it. Once I was able to clarify why I was blogging, I renewed my commitment to continue — without the guilt!
I blog because it's one way I "socialize" with writers and other publishing professionals on a daily basis. Sitting in my office can be very isolating sometimes—I'm a social person and I love to chat with people! Social networking feeds this need. As many people say, the blog and Twitter function as my "water cooler." From a personal standpoint, the blog is an important part of my day.
I blog because it's my little way of keeping my finger on the pulse of the writing world—not the publishing world, but that special corner of the universe that WRITERS inhabit. I'm a writer, but not actively seeking publication, so I'm not in the same place as you. I want to know what it's like for you. I want to be able to represent my authors successfully, with an understanding of what it feels like to be a writer today. The blog gives me daily feedback from all you folks who so generously share your perspectives with me.
I blog because it's a part of my overall social networking strategy, and anyone in business these days knows that social networking is a crucial element for success and for staying relevant in today's business environment.
I blog because I've always been a teacher at heart. I love sharing ideas with others, helping them grow, and in turn, learning from them. I enjoy teaching at conferences, too.
I blog because I encourage my authors to blog. I think the best way for me to help them create a blog and understand how to make it work is by having my own experience with how it works. I've been blogging steadily for nearly five years, and I've learned a lot in that time. When I give my authors advice about blogging, they can trust me because I've "been there."
I explained this to the peo
Recently on the blog, Kelsey Sutton asked...
I'd like to know why and how you began your career as an agent. Would you change any of your choices? Best and worst aspects of your job?
Since many people express an interest in becoming an agent and ask me how to do it, I thought I'd explain my own journey. Most people work in publishing for years before they become an agent. A few people start off at a literary agency, working their way up from intern to assistant to junior agent, etc. But most start in some kind of publishing house capacity, working with authors and books either in editorial or marketing.
In 2007, I was running a freelance editing and writing business, having been in publishing for more than a dozen years, and previously working at two publishing houses in both editorial and sales roles. For whatever reason, three different literary agencies approached me about joining them. (I guess I just sent off some kind of agent-vibe that only other agents can sense.) But I kept saying "no" because I loved working directly with authors on their books, and I loved the whole editorial process. I was also cautious about making such a big career change. (I had young kids at home and my husband was also in career transition.)
Around that time I was doing a bunch of collaborative writing (a.k.a. ghostwriting) and for this, I had an agent, Greg Johnson. Greg and I talked several times about my joining him as an agent, but I wasn't ready. Until... one day I was. It was becoming clear to me that almost every writer needs a partner—a business partner who not only helps them gain access to commercial publishing, but advocates for them through the whole process. I realized that as an agent, I could continue to have editorial input on authors' books if needed, but I'd be able to partner with them in a more all-encompassing way, helping them not just with one book but multiple books, entire careers. So I told Greg: yes!
It turned out to be a great melding of my love of editorial, my nature as a “people person,” and my interest in contracts and the “business” side of things. Now I wouldn’t change anything, since I think I have the perfect job.
As for the best and worst aspects of this career… let me think.
The worst:
-Never quite being able to accomplish all I want, as fast as I want.
-Having to turn down writers with good ideas and strong writing.
-People who don’t know what it’s like to be an agent constantly judging us.
-Dealing with an uncertain and rapidly evolving publishing industry.
The best:
-Dealing with an uncertain and rapidly evolving publishing industry.
-The excitement of finding a new author & project I want to rep.
-Getting a client their first-ever book contract.
-Getting any client any book contract!
-The exhilaration of helping a client brainstorm and have “aha” moments about their own future as an author.
Actually I could go on and on with the “best” things since this is pretty close to a dream job.
But thanks for asking, Kelsey!
Any questions about being or becoming an agent?
(c) 2010 Rachelle Gardner, Literary Agent
I've been a literary agent for just about two years now. I have to be honest, it's been a steep learning curve, even with over a decade in publishing previously. When I started as an agent, others told me it would probably take three to five years to build a viable business with steady income, and while I'm happy with my progress, it looks like what they told me is true.
But I love what I do, and the people I work with make it all worthwhile. I think I have the greatest group of clients anywhere. To everyone with whom I'm privileged to work:
Thank you for being a great writer.
Thank you for choosing me.
Thank you for hanging in there when the going gets tough.
I have quite a few clients whose books haven't sold yet, but that's okay. We're persevering, regrouping, rewriting, whatever it takes. I love the partnerships I have with all of you, and am determined to help you find your way to publication.
So here are the books my clients have sold to publishers in 2008 and 2009. (Book covers and Amazon links are provided when available.) Please feel free to visit the blogs of any of the authors whose books appeal to you.
NON-FICTION
Fat Chance: Losing the Weight, Gaining My Worth
Author: Julie Hadden ("The Biggest Loser," season 4)
Publisher: Guideposts
Genre: Non-fiction/health & diet
Release: Fall, 2009
Click here for Amazon listing.

Nothing Less Than God's Best
Author: Bil Cornelius, Sr. pastor of Bay Area Fellowship
Publisher: Guideposts
Genre: Non-fiction, Christian living
Release: 2010
ClimateGate: A Veteran Meteorologist Exposes the Global Warming Scam
Author: Brian Sussman
Publisher: WND Books (World Net Daily)
Genre: Non-fiction, political/cultural
Release: 2010

I'm glad we had a good conversation on the blog yesterday. Yes, a few people got snarky. But I only had to delete a couple of comments. I thought we had some necessary dialogue, and it was enlightening. Do I agree with all the commenters? No. Do I like everything I read? No.
But I always come away with new knowledge and ideas for improving the way I do business. It was from paying attention to the impassioned pleas of writers that I got motivated to try and respond to all queries within 48 hours (unless I'm traveling), and I do my best to keep up with that. It was from listening to you that I decided to try offering some feedback on queries when I can, even though it takes more time. So now I give feedback on 10 to 25% of the queries I reject. Your input also inspired our agency to install an "auto-reply" so that writers know we've received the query, and we've been doing that since February.
So overall, while the "rant days" are not always pleasant, I think they're productive. I'm listening. I'm doing what I can to make things better.
Yesterday I was moved by the commenters who expressed how hurtful it is to feel like agents don't respect them. It's awful to feel like agents are laughing behind writers' backs or even contemptuous of them. One person put it bluntly: "I think some--obviously not all--agents are frequently disrespectful towards writers. And it DOES make us feel like s**t."
I've been thinking a lot about this. I know I never feel like I'm disrespecting writers and I don't feel like I look down on them. Even though my job puts me in a position of perceived power, I don't feel like I have a superiority complex--more often, I'm in awe of what writers do. But I realize I probably say things sometimes that can be interpreted as disrespect or even cruelty. The fact that I'm up to my eyeballs in all kinds of writing, good and bad, 24/7 probably gives me a cynical edge.
I've said things on Twitter that I later regretted; I've made comments on this blog that I shouldn't have. In fact, maybe I shouldn't admit this but I've only been fired by one client; it was when I'd been agenting for about six months and this client terminated our relationship because I'd spoken disrespectfully. I suffered over that for a long time and it changed me. But of course I still mess up sometimes. I have made jokes, along with my agent friends, about things like "crushing writers' dreams" and even though it's totally tongue in cheek, I can see how it's insensitive.
So today I'm determining to be more careful with my words, whether in private or in public or online. Along with that comes an ongoing assessment of my own heart, my own attitudes. I will try harder to ask myself three questions before saying/writing something:
Is it true?
Is it kind?
Is it necessary?
That's a high standard but I'll try to make sure my words measure up. And when I don't... I hope you will gently call me on it, then forgive me!
Q4U:
Have you ever said anything online that you later regretted?
How'd you handle it?
Do you have any strategies for monitoring your own words to avoid hurting people?
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On Friday, in his This Week in Publishing post, Nathan Bransford gave a nod to my post last week on proactive vs. reactive protagonists. (Thanks, Nathan.)
One of the commenters on Nathan's blog said:
Whenever I read something like: "you have to have a proactive protagonist," I immediately want to go out and write a story with a protagonist who sits around and stares at a wall until he dies. No offense to Rachelle Gardner, I'm sure she has a good point. I just get contrary that way.
I got a good laugh out of that because I have to admit, I'm the same way. I don't like rules for rules' sake, and it's completely in my nature to set out to try and prove that a rule is wrong or ridiculous. I'm always looking for the loophole; always interested in the gray areas much more than the black and white (if black and white even exist).
If that's the way I think, then why do I post pithy little bits of advice like "Your protagonist must be proactive"?
Many of you noted in your comments that there are various ways to look at the word proactive, and that physical action might not actually be necessary for a good story. Duly noted. And that ties into the point I want to make here.
The nature of my blog is that any individual post is not meant to definitively address any issue. In fact, each post only touches the tip of the iceberg on the topic at hand. The purpose is to state a piece of my opinion, then open it up to you, the readers. You get to expand on it, to take it deeper, to dissect it, to bring up possible arguments against it, to uncover the shades of gray.
A bit of advice like "Your MC must be proactive" is, of course, a generality. Overall, in most cases, it's a good thing to remember, especially if you're a newer writer. However, as many of you pointed out, it's not that simple. Quite a few wonderful books - entire books - have been written about characterization. The topic of creating powerful characters is worthy of hours of discussion and many, many more hours of wrestling in your writing. A blog post can't begin to cover it.
So don't ever think I'm trying to be definitive here. If I allowed myself free rein, then every post I ever wrote would be several thousand words long so that I could deeply and thoroughly cover every permutation of every topic. I don't want to to that; I simply want to call your attention to something you may not have thought about before, or something about which you might like a reminder.
Often, I'm responding to something I see happening in the stories of those who pitch or query me, as I was doing in my Wednesday and Thursday posts last week. I saw a trend; I saw that a lot of people needed to be reminded about protagonists being proactive. So I addressed it.
When you post comments that tell me you've heard what I said, or you add a new dimension to what I've written, or you ask readers to consider another point of view... that's when I know I'm doing my job.
So thank you for engaging. Thank you for participating, and for thinking, and for taking the time to express your thoughts here. And thank you for understanding that I am never under the illusion that I have the answers. I don't. And I'm perfectly happy this way.
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Today's my 13th wedding anniversary. I know, it doesn't have anything to do with writing or publishing, but it does make me think how fortunate I am to have this incredible partner who puts up with the peculiar idiosyncrasies of a life devoted to writing and publishing.
So, for all the hours I've spent at my computer instead of with my family...
For all the times I've said "Hon, let me read you this line!"...
For the bookshelves taking up increasing amounts of household real estate each year, and the books piled on the nightstand and coffee tables and stacked in dusty corners...
For the doorbell ringing darn near every day and it's UPS with a package from Amazon...
For all the times I've said "I'll be up in two minutes" but stayed at my desk for two more hours...
For every blog post I've written while my family watches Harry Potter and wonders if I'm ever going to join them...
For all the times I've talked about my Twitter friends and Facebook friends and blogging friends and my husband showed remarkable restraint in not mocking me...
For the times dinner was late, or dinner was Spaghetti-O's, or I've forgotten to cook dinner altogether...
For the client phone calls in the car on the way to the movies or headed out of town on vacation...
For the nights out to book club and the trips to writers conferences all over the country...
I just want to say...
Bummer for you, dude. THANK YOU for sticking with me through this perilous publishing journey.
(And happy anniversary, sweetheart.)
Is there anyone you need to thank today? For putting up with
your crazy antics, all for the love of books? Go tell them!
This is the Wayfarer's Chapel in Palos Verdes, California, where we got married 13 years ago. Below are a couple of views of the grounds of the chapel, which overlooks the Pacific Ocean.

And this, of course, is the love of my life.
Today is Labor Day. Plus, yesterday was my birthday and I'm getting really, really old. Don't you think I deserve a day off? Yep, I do too.
See you tomorrow!
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I love the silence in the snow and the whoosh of the water - both when I ski :) Hope you have a great time.
Yes. Absolutely worth it. I hope time stands still for you this weekend. Enjoy your beautiful family!
I can relate as a writer and a skier. Have a blast. I’m glad to hear you wear a helmet. I do too. I’ll be hitting the slopes again in a week and I can’t wait!
I absolutely wonder at times if it's worth it. But then I see something I've written in print or I hear a comment about how a piece of mine has ministered to someone, and then yes, it's all worth it...
Ahhh...Skiing. I love it, but haven't been in over 10 years. If I go again, my skis will look like antiques!
Enjoy it! I'm jealous you have skiing so close to home.
Absolutely! And the toughest challenges are probably the most satisfying when accomplished. Have a wonderful time. Cute photo.
Your DD is almost as tall as you are, and THAT'S saying something. What a great pic!!
I always ask myself if vacations are worth everything we have to do to prep to go, and the work it takes to get back in the swing of things when we get home. (The only time we EVER have to "unpack" more is when we're at church, haha.) But it's always worth it in the end.
Writing is always worth it, too, for me. A single appreciative comment about something I've written can keep me going happily for a while, no matter how difficult the going might be. I do have some things in my life right now that aren't worth it, though. Some of those are getting deleted, so that I have energy for the struggles that produce the results I'd like to see.
Have a great time with your family, Rachelle!
Yes! I've wondered that. And yes! It's worth it. :)
When my alarm goes off at 5am and it's time to get up and write, I wonder what in the world I'm doing. After a cup of coffee, it's worth it. :)
While I'm putting on all my snowboarding gear I ask myself the same thing. This year I'm not able to go I had two knee surgeries, I miss snowboarding a great deal. I use to go outside when there getting ready to close the lifts and the snow machines are shooting snow out down the mountain. It was amazing! So now I spend my time reading and writing for hours. It's all worth it!
nice. have a fun skiing today...sure sounds worth it...smiles.
I think all writers wonder that at some point. But it is the love of the craft that keeps us going. I am not a skier. The thought of getting on and off a lift terrifies me, and having to navigate my way down an enormous hill on two thin pieces of wood or whatever they're made of now just about blows my mind. I think writing is similar. Just as you take a chance every time you get on the lift, that you're going to come down that hill all in one piece, so do we when we sit down to write that next chapter, or polish a manuscript and submit it. We have to believe that somebody somewhere out there will resonate with our words. And yes, sometimes we fall. And it hurts. But, like a good run, the finished product of what we worked so hard for, is well worth it.
Enjoy the slopes and I shall enjoy the sound of my fingers flying across the keys of my laptop! May we both find success and pleasure in the moment.
Skiing is worth it. I think it will be a bit more fun when I'm not carrying all my kids skis and stuck on the beginner slopes with them. :) And I don't think any of us would be writing if we didn't think it was worth it.
I've never gone downhill skiing, but with anything you enjoy, the prep is very worth it. Enjoy your day on the slopes!
Is writing worth it--the rejection, the waiting, the wondering?? Oh, yeah! Big time worth it. All that hard work eventually pays off. :)
Yes, definitely! Last fall, I feel like I shut out so much from my life just to finish my manuscript. It was great to know that I'd finished writing it, but when I realized how hard it would be to get it published or how much work I still needed to do with building a platform and so on, I felt incredibly discouraged. I think, though, that the process has taught me to have perspective when it comes to my writing vs. my life and how to prioritize. I love writing, and I do hope that someday my memoir gets published, but NOTHING comes before my family, and I also need to remember to be there for my friends.
Have fun skiing!!! I'm jealous!! :-)
Do I ever wonder if all the writing is worth it? Pretty much every day (ha!). But then if I don't do it, it just calls me back, because my mind keeps working on the challenge of the story.
:)
Make memories!
~ Wendy
Yes I wonder and yes it's worth it. I'm pretty good at procrastinating, but then when I finally sit down to write and really get in the flow it's so satisfying I wonder why I don't write every waking moment.
Enjoy your day in the snow!
y.e.s. it's so important to step away as you've done today. awesome photo!
Again today I am reminded, you are indeed the poet inside the agent :)
It is worth ... the long hours with no guarantee of outcome ... the worry and the doubt ... and at last the payoff ... that one moment when you are inside the magic.
Ah! The beauty of the Rocky Mountains. The high that you get as you glide down that mountain and see the wonders around you. Is it all worth it? You Bet!
Many joyous memories for you and your family!!
Writing is worth every minute invested in pouring the words out of me and onto the page. Writing is what I do; the love of my life (next to my husband); my heart's desire.
I borrow a stanza from Pink Floyd's "Learning To Fly" to describe my writing experience: There's no sensation to compare to this; suspended animation, a state of bliss.
Have a beautiful weekend in the mountains! ~ Angela
This is a great analogy!
I love to both ski and scuba dive. Both sports are very gear intensive and require travel and preparation. but both sports have the same saying: There's no such thing as a bad dive. There's no such thing as a bad day on the slopes.
Just like with writing, all the classes, the learning, the preparation, the risks, and the blunders are all worth it for those moments when you're doing something you love, getting better and better at it, and lost in your own world.
As a writer... do you ever wonder if it's all worth it? Yes. Every day.
Enjoy your time away:)) I only skiied once in Vermont as a freshman in colllege and paid for it dearly:)
Yes, there are moments I wonder why write. But haven't figured out how to stop yet.
Skiing is a lot of work, especially if you're not used to the elevation. But it is fun.
Yes, sometimes I wonder if it's worth it, but only when I'm working on my middle grade novel. The picture books are lots of work, but that's just the way my brain works, so I enjoy them more.
Snow covered trees. Thick snowflakes. Totally worth it. Writing evokes the same feeling within me.
Snowboarding and writing are always worth it. Never a doubt. Especially if you can do both in the Rockies. Have a great time!
Wait--there's a sound system in your helmet? That's so cool! You really do learn something new everyday :) I might just have to try skiing someday now--lived in CO my whole life and haven't tried it yet.
As far as writing...sure, I have those days. But mostly it's hard to even formulate the entire thought before I'm already assuring myself it's definitely worth it. Have a great time!
Having one of those "is it worth it?" segments in my life, and it's awful. When I'm writing, I'm in heaven. The problems around me are at a distance--I am sympathetic but not empathetic because they're not actually touching me.
And then there are the times when I'm not-writing. It's like a minor virus. You're not sick in bed, but you're not quite right. Nothing is right. These times happen when I falter, when I get a rejection or critique that seems to come out of left field. Yes, I can take constructive criticism--but once in a while life seems to gang up. The rejection, the illness, the family crisis, the unexpected financial problem. And then I falter, and think I should give up and get a job that pays. But I know I'll be miserable, so I try again. And it will be worth it.
Oh Nebraska living... where the tallest hill is the snow mound at the end of my driveway...
Your description makes me green with envy! Have fun!
As a professional writer for more than 20 years, I can say writing is not "fun," it's hard work. What's the secret to making it fun?
Theoretically writing always feels too hard, and some days I can scarcely envision my next move. But I can't seem to stay away. The unfinished projects are calling. I love the skiing analogy because you're right, it seems that everything wonderful in life is inconvenient and time consuming. And worth it.
I am SOOO JEALOUS! I want to be skiing...
That is all.
Is it worth it? Yes... and no. Yes, when I keep my eyes on the reason I write. No, when I get caught up in the tyranny of worrying about publication, popularity, and book sales. I feel God has called me to write--and to speak. So, I'll keep on writing and speaking as long as He plants ideas in my mind and gives me oppotunities. If it's for me and my own growth & development, great. If it's for others, even better! I'm honored when He allows me to participate!
Have fun skiing. I'm heading up to NorthStar at Lake Tahoe on Sunday to join my daughter and her family. I'm hoping to take the 2 1/2 year old snow shoeing! In three weeks I get a new knee, so maybe I'll be back on the slopes next year!
Is is worth it? Yes! When my brand-new-shiny MS is done and has yet to be torn apart by fellow writers and agents...that's when its worth it. That feeling of accomplishment is just awesome--almost as good as floating down the fresh fallen powder on my board.
It's funny you posted this, because I consider snowboarding my escape. When rejections and my never-to-be-published MS have got me down, I turn to the mountain and my board. That's where I can breath.
Maybe I would have been better off staying in New Zealand, kiwis also make such a lot of effort for a good time. My neighbour in NZ once took five kids, youngest two on 4 hr drive to go skiing for 2 days. Can you imagine all those skiis to put on? Next time I feel gripey I'm going to think of her.
Maybe I would have been better off staying in New Zealand, kiwis also make such a lot of effort for a good time. My neighbour in NZ once took five kids, youngest two on 4 hr drive to go skiing for 2 days. Can you imagine all those skiis to put on? Next time I feel gripey I'm going to think of her.
Good question. I don't know the answer. But what I do know is that I give up a lot of fun stuff for the sake of writing that one more page...and for the sake of not having to deal with guilt for thaking time away from writing.
:)
Glad you enjoyed your fun time in the snow.
Every time I sit to write I wonder if its worth it, then the words come and I know it is. Writing is my mountaintop:)
Have a blast!
Asking if all the effort that goes into writing is worth it, is the same as asking if I'm worth the effort. I may not have believe it a few years ago.
My dream is like every other writer--publication. The more I write, the more I read, the more I fine tune the craft; it becomes a part of my soul and who I am.
Oh and I'm jealous too (skiing). Here I live in the springs and I barely even go. I guess I'm afraid my kids will tumble down the mountain. :-)
I love this connection
I don't ski but I go through that same angst every time I begin the preparations for any holiday trip. Everything seems to take so much effort. Sometimes I'd be just as happy to stay home, but once I'm finally away I always have a good time.
Writing is a different story. It's my escape and I never think of it as effort, even when I'm struggling with revisions.
Hope your weekend is wonderful.
Katy - That's not me in the picture, those are my two daughters! But yes, she is as tall as me now. I knew the day would come but it still feels weird.
Take it from me, it's worth it! You can't put a price on something that's priceless. You're creating a memory and the memory will last a lifetime.
I too have two daughters and one son. All are now adults. Trust me; time passes fast. In a few short years your two daughters will venture out in the world in order to continue their education and paths in life.
The efforts you make now when you take precious time out of your schedules to create special memories will be the times all of you will be able to look back on later in life.
As we all know, nothing worth while comes easily in life. In most cases, it takes a great deal of effort and time to create something special and long lasting.
All of you will now be able to reflect, any time you choose, on the special day you described. I can almost guarantee you won't remember the time, effort and costs involved.
All that will remain is a priceless memory...
This the same way I feel about my writing. It will be worth the effort.
I hope you had a wonderful time and no broken bones.