Three times a month I think I’ll stop writing this blog. Three times a year I’m sure of it. Yet here I am, one week from my fourth blog birthday, still writing. Why?
You.
I keep writing because of you. Not in an altruistic way thinking I have such important information to share. Honestly, I’m more likely to compare pandas to Ashton Kutcher than to bestow pearls of wisdom. But knowing that you are reading keeps me writing. It energizes me. You’re the gas in the hybrid, keeping the engine speeding along.
When I push National Delurking Week and the Comment Challenge, I do so for two reasons. First, because of what you can get when you step out of the shadows and become an active participant in blogs a sense of connection and community. But also for what you can give energy, ideas, and humanity to what can be a lonely hobby. Statcounters show readers, but only as numbers, not as people who like popcorn and wool socks and muppets and hackeysacks and sparkling snow. Statistics can’t reveal blogging friends who strive to find joy, persevere, focus, savor, or, “as Tracy Jordan said on 30 Rock, ‘Live every week like it’s Shark Week!’” (Agreed, Jim.)
As you read blogs, remember how much you contribute just by saying, "I’m here." Be the energy. And think about how you can live every week like it’s National Delurking Week.
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National Delurking continues, being y'know... a week. I know that there are long-time lurkers out there waiting to be first-time commenters, so come on out and play with us. I'm staying with the positive energy, but making the question a bit easier. In fact, you'll only have to toss out a word or two to participate. Today topic: What small thing makes you happy?
After seeing what a steady diet of negative thinking has done to people, I've made a conscious effort to be more positive. There are really two ways to look for happiness. One is to step back and look at the big picture where you can be grateful for your family, friends, health, job, house, and indoor plumbing. The other way is to look at the things that make you happy in small, everyday ways. Right here, without leaving my seat, I can look around me and say these things make me happy:
My laptopNow that I've primed the pump, it's your turn. Delurk today with a happy thing like Sharpie pens, lip gloss, school glue, funny coffee mugs, Harry Potter, kids' artwork, Facebook, snowglobes...
I don't know how I lived without one for so long, and I love love love my Macbook!
Zendalas
I saw this Zendala video, and now I've been making them in little bits of downtime.
My camera
I don't take amazing photos, but I do take good pictures and love doing so.
Hallmark ornaments
I always buy at least one a year after the sales. Right now I'm enjoying the Marigold Fairy which reminds me of my niece.
American Idol
My fifth grader and I watch it together and analyze the singing. It's part fun, part vocal class.

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Thanks to those who commented yesterday and kicked off National Delurking Week. I truly appreciated your congratulations on behalf of my daughter, and I loved reading about the things that were making January great for you. In fact, I'm going to continue with the positivity theme with today's delurking topic: What's your resolution or goal or motto for the year?
For me, 2009 was a crappy year. I hate to even say that because I can't negate the big, wonderful things in my life. My family is generally healthy, financially comfortable, and amazingly connected. We all support each other in our individual ventures, do a lot of things together, and simply enjoy each other's company. I feel blessed and lucky and grateful. But.
If there ever was a year where I felt cursed in a death-by-a-thousand-paper-cuts kind of way, 2009 was it. Nothing was devastating, but nothing was easy either. I lucked into someone who would look at my picture book manuscript - and she left that job. I hoped to be more involved in the Junior Girl Scout troop, and had the whole thing dumped in my lap in September. I made peace with losing my job in June, to find out that additional budget cuts mean that I am never getting it back.
And it was my whole family that went through this craptastic year. Bill was promoted in his job, to find himself swamped with meetings and leading a department in an era of belt-tightening. He was thrilled to participate in the International Shootout, but it would be the one time that we lost valuable equipment. The fifth grader got a terrible, homework-obsessed teacher. The teen had her iPod stolen. It was like this all year. I'm not going into all of this for sympathy, but to set the stage for my 2010 motto:
Clean Slate.
You see, with so much going wrong it became hard to do anything at all. Everything felt tainted with history, baggage, failure. But what if I approached things this year without guilt or annoyance or despair? Instead of berating myself for not answering those emails, I could just answer them - or delete them and let it go. Instead of blaming someone else for not being organized with my troop, I could just set the time aside to get things together. Instead of being paralyzed by what to do with my manuscript, I could just send it out.
It's come to me in this year of "growth" that much of what holds us back is in what we won't release. The tasks themselves are often less onerous than what we bring to them. Guilt. Blame. Anxiety. Doubt. Discouragement. We can't banish these feelings, but maybe we can push them aside once in a while. Backtrack where we have to, but without issues. Let go when possible, without remorse. Start over when we can, without fear. Look at tasks and relationships differently, as if they were fresh.
What could I accomplish with a Clean Slate?
How about you?

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Other than the Arctic cold, this month is awesome. The Cybils finalists were announced and the choices are fab. Bloggiesta got people psyched to take care of bloggy business, and Comment Challenge 2010 is off the hook. In another week we'll have the ALA Youth Media Awards, which is totally TCP (my family's own made-up text speak for The Cat's Pajamas). And now it’s National Delurking Week!!!
I’m using the graphic I got from Paper Napkin in 2007. It is one of my favorite things ever. There are plenty more out there through Google or Yahoo images. Go find your favorite and encourage folks to delurk on your blog too.
Because I know that one of the obstacles in leaving a comment is feeling like you have nothing unique to add, this week I'll be featuring posts to make it easier to delurk. And delurk you will, if I have anything to say about it. So today's topic is: what is making or is going to make this month a winner for you?
In a personal way this month is amazing for me because my daughter auditioned for and was accepted in the summer workshop program of Broadway Artists Alliance in New York City. She had to perform parts of two songs and do a script reading in front of judges, plus learn a dance routine with other candidates and perform that in small groups. And all with lots of older girls around and me in another room. Honestly, the audition experience itself was worth it, much less acceptance in the five-day program. I am so proud of her. But I'm not entirely surprised.

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It seems that National Delurking Week caught everyone off guard, and that’s a shame because it’s a great chance to meet some of your less comment-prone readers. So I’m extending it to this week. Yeah, who’s going to stop me? The Delurking Police? I think not.
Once again, I’m using the graphic I got from Paper Napkin in 2007, but there are plenty more out there through Google or Yahoo images. Go find your favorite and encourage folks to delurk on your blog, too. There’s such fun in finding a quiet but dedicated reader. Sometimes you find a new blog or even get a compliment or a pony! Okay, maybe not the pony.
I hope my readers will continue to delurk at MotherReader, because I need far more external validation than you would ever guess. In fact, if I don’t reach my magic number by the end of the week, I’m shutting the whole blog down and taking up water polo. People say it’s the new golf.

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Hey people, apparently it’s National Delurking Week!!! I know, I also thought it was next week. That will teach me to pay attention, because first it’s National Delurking Week, and next thing you know it’s Get to Know Your Customer Day and then the month is practically shot.
I’m using the graphic I got from Paper Napkin in 2007. It is one of my favorite things ever. There are plenty more out there through Google or Yahoo images. Go find your favorite and encourage folks to delurk on your blog too.
But back to me. Take a minute to say hello. Let me know you’re out there reading this time-sucking distraction I affectionately call my blog. If you are stuck on what to say and extolling my fantasticness seems awkward, you can use this easy topic: Name one of your favorite children’s or teen books of 2008.
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I saw this over at TagnognaT:
It's National Delurking Week!
So if you're a lurker here, please post "hi" in the comments.
Mother Reader,
Your line about comparing pandas to Ashton Kutcher made me smile. Up until last fall, I was a long-time lurker because I felt I had nothing to add. Your thoughts on this idea were appreciated.
Also, thank you and Lee for the comment challenge. I've found out about some great books and "met" some interesting writers. My kids have read a lot of the book reviews, too and keep asking when we're going to the bookstore!
Congratulations on your upcoming blog-birthday. You add so much to our online community that I have a hard time picturing it without you here.
I only have a handful of kidslit blogs that make it to my must-read-every-day list. Yours is one.
I'm so happy to be gassy for you. Wait, that didn't quite...
I saw a great quote zip by on Twitter that ties into your last line. Source is unknown to me, but...
Dance like the photo's not tagged, love like you've never been unfriended, tweet like nobody's following.
Rock on, MR! See you in year five :-)
I am delurking. Indeed, no one can hear us read in cyberspace.
Excellent reminder :)
Oh honored Mother,
I have come to see the wisdom of your ways. All of a sudden people are looking at my blog, whereas before all I knew for certain was that my paltry attempts were at least getting me proficient at editing my own really bad spelling and grammar.
I e-mailed you my count of comments yesterday but was unclear if I was following proper protocol. Can I get reassurance?
Well done on the four years, and thanks for the good times.
I'm loving this challenge-I've had fun exploring other blogs and getting more comments on my own! A win-win situation. I'm very glad you keep writing!
I'm glad you haven't quit. And I had to check - I'm coming up on my 5th blog anniversary (come May). Wild!
I love the connections you make by reading/commenting on blogs.
And how would you compare a panda to Ashton Kutcher? Speaking of Ashton, That 70's Show is one of my all time favorite sitcoms!
Oh, yes. I am a professional lurker, but I'm trying, find my voice, raise my voice, be true to my voice. All those things we want our characters to do. Thanks for the challenge.
BE the energy. I will remember this nugget of wisdom when my kids challenge me to jog around the block. I'm glad you're still blogging. The blogosphere would not be the same without you.
I'm here! And I'm glad you're here!
-Suz
I'm here! I like popcorn.
Happy Blog Birthday (coming up).
I love this post...and I'm SO glad you haven't quit! I don't know where the kidlitosphere would be without you.
Let me just say I'm glad you're not giving up the blog as you approach your 4th birthday. I've loved the Comment Challenge and I live for the weekend after school when the 48 hour Challenge begins.
I've loved reading your blog these past few years; thanks for your contribution to the kidlitosphere!
Delurking to simply say, I'm here. And have been here for over a year, loving every minute of it. :D
I have learned so much from visiting other people's blogs. I'm enjoying the challenge. I have no idea how many blogs I visit each day, but I've been busy. Have a great weekend.
Congratulations on your upcoming blog birthday! My Book Review blog is just a baby, but I've been keeping a personal blog for almost four years (my blog birthday is coming up in February!). I stopped for awhile, but I really missed it. It hasn't been easy to get back into it, but I think it's really worth it.
Thank you, thank you again for the comment challenge!
Happy Blog Birthday!
Thanks for everything, and for your openness. :)
I should have put in this link in the first place, but here is how one compares pandas and Ashton Kutcher:
http://www.motherreader.com/2009/08/nonfiction-monday-round-up-pandas.html
Love the metaphor! Your comment challenges has really been fun for me. Since I am a newbie getting started, I find blogging is fun and difficult all at the same time.Consequently, I have really enjoyed seeing what other blogger talk about and learned at lot in the process. So I am glad you haven't stopped writing. Happy Anniversary.
Great post! I do try to comment and am taking part in your comment challenge too. Thanks for the opportunity to connect with other readers.
Hello everyone, I'm here too...lurking as usual because I don't feel like I have anything of use to contribute.
Thanks you, Mother Reader, for the Comment Challenge, for your blog, and for your presence on the web. Even when we don't agree :), I learn from your posts and comments, and you often make me smile with your own brand of humor.
Keep blogging.
Pandas to Ashton Kutcher, huh? I'll have to think about that one...
I love having you around, Pam. Thanks for not giving up. :-)
Awesomeness - well said. You continue to be an inspiration to so many of us - and what an accomplishment 4 years of your amazing blog will be!
I'll be there cheering for you in the first row,
namaste and a Hug,
Lee
Just discovered you.
I'm here and I'm glad you're still here.
Very inspiring! An apt comparison of blog commenters to gas in the hybrid. So, so true.
The comment challenge ahas also made me find time to create more posts for my blog. I have been lax this year.
Congrats on year four!! And please don't quit, you would be missed :)