Jacket description:
"Gretchen Rubin had an epiphany one rainy afternoon in the unlikeliest of places: a city bus. 'The days are long, but the years are short,' she realized. 'Time is passing, and I'm not focusing enough on the things that really matter.' In that moment, she decided to dedicate a year to her happiness project.In this lively and compelling account of that year, Rubin carves out her place alongside the authors of bestselling memoirs such as Julie and Julia, The Year of Living Biblically, and Eat, Pray, Love. With humor and insight, she chronicles her adventures during the twelve months she spent test-driving the wisdoms of the ages, current scientific research, and lessons from popular culture about how to be happier.
Rubin didn't have the option to uproot herself, nor did she really want to; instaed she focused on improving her life as it was. Each month she tackled a new set of resolutions: give proofs of love, ask for help, find more fun, keep a gratitude notebook, forget about results. She immersed herself in principles set forth by all manner of experts, from Epicurus to Thoreau to Oprah to Martin Seligman to the Dalai Lama to see what worked for her-and what didn't.
Her conclusions are sometimes surprising-she finds that money can buy h appiness, when spent wisely; that novelty and challenge are powerful sources of happiness; that 'treating' yourself can make you feel worse that venting bad feelings doesn't relieve them that the very smallest of changes can make the biggest difference-and they range from the practical to the profound."
My book club read this for the past month's selection and we were all pretty much in agreement with it. We all really enjoyed the first half and weren't so keen on the last half.
Gretchen Rubin has such a great idea in wanting to make herself happier by doing simple things with what she has. I really loved her organization chapter, wanting to simplify her life to ultimately increase her happiness and the tips that were throughout. Her chapter on marriage was profound and eye-opening and her "Pursue a Passion" chapter really hit home (she loves kid's books and formed a KidLit book club). Unfortunately, after those, I kinda felt like she went downhill.
The writing and the subject matter began to get repetitive and her somewhat self-righteous. She started being a little preachy with everything she had learned, rather than just informative and explanatory and I found myself skimming. Overall though, I found quite a few tips and tricks that I can apply to my own life, hopefully increasing my own happiness level.
I'm no longer going to apologize for the hobbies I have and I'm going to do what I enjoy, rather than what I think I SHOULD enjoy (like running, crocheting, or baking). I'm going to continue only reading 50 pages of a book before giving up if I'm not liking it and I'm going to quit nagging my husband about eating breakfast. He's a grown man...if he doesn't want to eat breakfast, he shouldn't have to. I'm also going to have an empty shelf in a closet (well that's one I'm working on).
Overall rating: 3 out of 5
Definitely a discussion book, making it a good choice for a book club, but also a good individual read. Everyone can take something away from this book, I just felt the 2nd half was almost unnece
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Rating: 4 out of 5
Jacket description:"Leelee Satterfield seems to have it all: a gorgeous husband, two adorable daughters, and roots in the sunny city of Memphis, Tennessee. So when her husband gets the idea to uproot the family to run a quaint Vermont inn, Leelee is devastated...and her three best friends are outraged. But she's loved Baker Satterfield since the tenth grade, so how can she not indulge his dream? Plus, the glossy photos of bright autumn trees and smiling children in ski suits push her over the edge. After all, how much trouble can it really be?
But Leelee discovers pretty fast that there's a truckload of things nobody tells you about Vermont until you live there: mud season, vampire flies, and the danger of ice sheets careening off roofs, just to name a few.
The inn they've bought also has its own host of problems: an odor that no amount of potpourri can erase, a tacky decor, and a staff of peculiar Vermonters. The whole operation is managed by Helga, a stern German woman who takes a special delight in bullying Leelee. Needless to say, it doesn't take long for her to start wondering when to drag out the moving boxes again.
When an unexpected hardship takes Leelee by surprise, she finds herself left alone with an inn to run, a mortgage to pay, and two daughters to raise. But this Southern belle won't be run out of town so easily. Drawing on the grit and inner strength she didn't know she had, Leelee decides to turn around the inn, her attitude, and her life. In doing so, she makes friends with her neighbors, finds a little romance, and realizes there's a lot more to love about Vermont than she first thought."
How my gosh, how hysterically I laughed through this book! If you're in the mood for a laugh, as well as a homey, feel-good read, this is such a great choice. Everything from the cover, to the characters, to the descriptions of Vermont and the inn are wonderfully done and I really loved that Lisa Patton didn't take the conventional way of writing a women's contemporary fiction novel, adding in lots of sex or making Leelee a complete spoiled brat. She came from money, sure, but she had to worry about finances just like the rest of us.
You'll get a great, lighthearted feeling while turning the pages, learning along with Leelee what it takes to run a business, jumping in completely inexperienced and in a brand new environment, having left everything familiar behind. She does some deep soul searching and ends up finding out a lot about herself that she never knew. Again, you'll laugh at her quite a bit, but you'll also end up with a big soft spot for Leelee in your heart.
Though Vermont is not shown in the best of lights, with the bugs and the crazy snow, etc., Patton's way of describing the state just made me want to go there more! I turned to my husband several times and whispered "let's move to Vermont!" Of course, evoking eyebrow raising from him. He just doesn't even ask anymore. I loved the constant descriptions of the scenery, the weather, the people, the clothing, everything. Patton really has a knack for describing.
Overall, a really great way to kick start my reading for 2010! I can't wait to see what else Lisa Patton has in that head of her's. If you're in the mood for some light reading and a bit of humor, Whistlin' Dixie in a Nor'ea

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Jacket description:"Evangelical pastor Ed Dobson chronicles his year of living like Jesus and obeying his teachings. Dobson’s transition from someone who follows Jesus to someone who lives like Jesus takes him into bars, inspires him to pick up hitchhikers, and deepens his understanding of suffering. As Dobson discovers, living like Jesus is quite different from what we imagine."
Inspired by A.J. Jacobs, author of The Year of Living Biblically, (which I reviewed back in May) Dobson has essentially tweaked the process Jacobs went through when he attempted to follow the Bible as literally as possible for one year, and decides to strictly live like Jesus. What happens is sometimes funny, sometimes emotionally riveting, and overall a really interesting experiment about a regular man attempting to live his life in a Jesus-like manner. It could not possibly have been an easy task to take on, but Dobson did so in a realistic manner, at times having to stray from his Jesus-like path to accommodate his daily life.
I felt the writing was choppy, although done in a journal-type style, so maybe the choppiness would work for some people. I was a bit put off by it in the beginning of the book, but slowly grew to appreciate Dobson's simplistic thoughts about his journey and note-jotting. We get a glimpse inside the world of this man, struggling to live with ALS, a degenerative illness, whose faith is astounding despite his self-proclaimed weaknesses.
The middle of the book is a bit history-heavy, filled with facts from the Jewish faith and the aspects of life in Jerusalem, as explained when Dobson leads a tour group. I found myself skimming a little here, but overall I really enjoyed reading Dobson's journey. His constant humility and humor was a great addition to the pages and I would have no problem handing both Christians and non-Christians the book. Either way, it's a good read.
The Year of Living Like Jesus: My Journey of Discovering What Jesus Would Really Do
Ed Dobson
304 pages
Non-Fiction
Zondervan
9780310247777
October 2009
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I am a huge fan of memoirs, which make up probably 90% of my adult non-fiction reading choices. Farm City: The Education of an Urban Farmer, written by Novella Carpenter (isn't that the coolest name???) was a fabulous memoir, filled with the utmost honesty and passion about growing and raising one's own food, even when the setting is not the most ideal.Carpenter and her boyfriend move from Seattle to a not-so-great...well, really, terrible, section of Oakland, California, where gun shots are their background noise and drug dealers litter the corners. They choose this area on purpose, liking the places that others find undesirable, and decide to start their own farm in order to subsist of the land, no matter where that land may be.
Filled with funny and sad escapades surrounding the growth of a successful garden, the raising of chickens, ducks, turkeys, bees, and pigs in downtown, urban Oakland, this book is really an enjoyable and educational read, cover to cover. We get the insight into who Novella Carpenter is, the biggest aspect of a memoir to me, and we learn a bit about farming...the good and the bad.
I was so impressed with the determination of Carpenter, especially when it came down to killing the animals for food. I know I couldn't kill a duck or a turkey I had raised, but she knew what she wanted and was not going to consider these animals her pets. She raised them, killed them, and cooked them!
I was also totally impressed with the couple's passion for the urban area they lived in. Though people were killed right around the corner from their home, they were not going to run away or be scared. They wanted to live an urban lifestyle and bring somewhat of a backyard paradise to the people of Oakland. Though they sometimes took advantage, people were encouraged to come and take vegetables for free, helping to feed the hungry as well as Carpenter.
I loved the cover, I really loved learning about Carpenter's eccentric neighbors, and definitely took away some valuable information when it comes to growing gardens. I plan to start my first this coming spring and enjoyed gathering tips as I read through the book. Carpenter and her boyfriend are inspirations to those of us that desire to live more from the land and help cut-down our usage of "stuff."
A great gift for an adult in your life that enjoys gardening or farming. I would also recommend this to fans to memoir reading or those new to the memoir genre. A very enjoyable, fast-paced read.
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Farm City: The Education of an Urban Farmer
Novella Carpenter
288 pages
Adult non-fiction
Penguin Press
9781594202216
June 2009
Borrowed from library

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I know I've said it before with the review of her previous two novels, After the Leaves Fall and Summer Snow, but I LOVE Nicole Baart. She writes with such description and personality that I'm always left in whatever location she has placed her characters, feeling an actually friendship or kinship with them and am always so sad when I finish the last page. She is most definitely one of those authors that I just wish could write faster, always keeping a book in my hand and those characters in my mind, but alas, I do suppose she's only human like the rest of us.The Moment Between is Baart's latest and thought slightly "different" than her previous two books, both in location and definitely in the intensity of the read, it was again, absolutely wonderful. The reader is brought to beautiful British Columbia, deep into wine country, following the main character, Abigail Bennett on her quest for knowing. Abigail wants nothing more than to find Tyler Kamp, the man she believes is responsible for the death of her sister, a woman that was already on a path of complete destruction before she met Tyler.
Abigail's "mission" is quite obviously an obsession, bringing her into a new country, giving her a new job working at a local winery, and forcing her to omit her real reasons for being there, in order to keep her relationship with her sister a secret. As Abigail is immersed with new people, wine, beauty, and this risky obsession, the reader also learns of her past with her sister, her family, and the reason she still feels the need to stand up for the sibling that is no longer alive.
Baart has this unique ability to write with such description that the reader really does feel as if he or she is there, in the moment. You will feel so strongly for Abigail, you will want to shake her at times and sometimes you just want to hug her, or drink a glass of wine with her. And believe me, the descriptions of British Columbia will leave you needing to take a vacation, fairly immediately. I've already informed my husband that the next vacation we take will be there!
This is a rather intense read, sad at times, and other times you will be filled with love...for siblings, for travel, for work, for love. The Moment Between was wonderfully breathtaking.
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The Moment Between
Nicole Baart
384 pages
Adult fiction
Tyndale House
9781414323220
April 2009
This sounds interesting. Thanks, Amanda!
I have heard a lot about this book. May check it out now.