A few weeks ago my dear sister shared an article titled "Why Readers, Scientifically, Are The Best People To Fall In Love With." Improper title capitalization rules and superfluous prepositions aside, I take issue with the article. What would one expect, coming from Elite Daily, a site, I must admit, I hadn't stumbled across before but calls itself "the voice of Generation Y." Isn't that a perfect title for a Gen Y site? Elite. Yes, yes you are. Maybe that's my problem. As a Gen Xer, I'm an old fart, skeptical of everything.
Even myself. And I'm also not all that special. I'm just a person with an opinion and about three pounds of neurons in my skull, but I do like to think.
I learned the habit of asking questions of EVERYTHING in undergrad at Kansas State University, probably even before that. Richard Fogg, if you're out there, your lab section of Psych 350: Experimental Methods in Psychology way back in the fall of 1995 was brilliant. Thanks for teaching me true inquiry, critical thinking, and objectivity--and the cool lesson about what happens to a person when they come to the emergency room on a heroin overdose from your days in LA. That was awesome.
But I digress. A little.
I don't believe, and never will, that reading makes a person more empathic. That would be a causal relationship, one the author of the article implies with lines like "readers are proven to be nicer and smarter than the average human, and maybe the only people worth falling in love with on this shallow hell on earth." Wow.
While readers may be smarter and nicer than the average human (14 + years in education make me question both of those claims), I do not believe for an instant, not one millisecond, reading makes a person smarter or, and here's the most important disbelief, nicer than anyone else. There's simply a correlation between reading and empathy, reading and intelligence, reading and "theory of mind" (the ability to hold opinions, beliefs and interests apart from one's own). I've known plenty of kids who could strip a 1968 Chevy Camaro and rebuild it who couldn't read all that well. How, exactly, are we defining intelligence?
Perhaps empathic, intelligent, and "mindful" people simply are drawn to reading. Perhaps.
But there's more. The author of "Why Readers...," Lauren Martin, cites another study which suggests kids who have more stories read to them have better theories of mind. I have no doubt--but using the word "prove" as in "results that prove the more stories children have read to them, the keener their [mindfulness]" really trips my critical analysis trigger. Maybe the interaction with people is the key, the common factors--good, healthy relationships with caregivers or other adults doing the reading--is the real seed of mindfulness and empathy. Show me a study suggesting a robot can read books to kids and those kids are more mindful than anyone else... well, I guess we're doing a whole lot of supposing without real results and a whole slew of ethical concerns. I haven't read the original studies, but these seem more correlative (collecting data and finding relationships) than causal (actual, controlled studies).
Are readers "the best people to fall in love with"? I don't know. But empathic people are nice. Mindful people are very nice. I'm in love with a woman who is empathic, mindful, and intelligent. She's nice. And while she reads ALL THE TIME I don't know that either of us have finished more than a book or two in the time we've known each other.
I believe reading is very important--Martin cites several other studies "proving" readers are the only worthwhile people on the planet--but it is not the only thing which creates a human. Reading is not the only factor which contributes to intelligence, empathy, and mindfulness.
And yes... this is coming from a guy who writes. And writers need readers. Did I just alienate all of you?
(crickets)
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Image by Elias Ericson The other night I was listening to Q with Jian Ghomeshi during which guests discussed the topic Does English Need a Gender Neutral Pronoun? Sweden has recently included the word "hen," a middle ground between the Swedish words "han" and "hon" ("he" and "she" in English) in its National Encyclopedia as an alternative to the gender specific pronouns. I went to a small
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Blogger recently added a fantastic feature that allows you to see how many page views a post receives. I was very surprised and pleased by the top five posts with the most views for books4yourkids.com. The Roar by Emma Clayton is at the top of the list followed by The Crows of Pearblossom by Aldous Huxley with art by Sophie Blackall, A Discussion of Shel Silverstein's The Giving
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Books to the ceiling, Books to the sky, My pile of books is a mile high!How I love them! How I need them!I'll have a long beard by the time I read them. Arnold Lobel from Whiskers & Rhymes Since I have been working with, reading and loving kid's books for much longer than I have been writing about them, my hope when I started this blog was to introduce readers to older books that might not be
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Politics and Prose bookstore in Washington DC. Photo by Drew Angerer/The New York Times On Friday, October 8th an article by Julie Bosman appeared on the front page of the New York Times, under the fold. Titled, Picture Books, Long a Staple, Lose Out in the Rush to Read, the article surmises that, in addition to the effects of the economic downturn, picture book sales are falling due to
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A few weeks ago I came across an article in the New York Times by journalist Michael Winerip, also author of the middle grade mysteries starring the young reporter Adam Canfield. A Father-Daughter Bond, Page by Page tells the story of Jim Brozina, an elementary school librarian, and his quest to stay connected to his youngest daughter, Kristen. His older daughter Kathy let Jim know she was
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Our newest National Ambassador for young People's Literature, Katherine Paterson, begins her tenure with a provocative op-ed for the New York Daily News. Prompted by the unveiling of the iPad, Paterson shares her thoughts on the art of listening and value and beauty to be found in the way that children read.Apple's iPad is no book-killer: Author says technology is a threat to reading we can
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How I assign reading levels to books, how the publishers do it, how schools do it and how you can help your reader find the right book at the right timeAfter recent emails and years of observing parents in the bookstore checking the back cover of books and trying to figure out the reading level (what does ages 8 - 11 or RL 2.4 really mean??) I have decided to try to write a post explaining what I
From top to bottom, our family is a fan of Barnett's work. Thanks for showing me that others worry and consider the gender balance in publishing.
Mine too! Thinking about these ideas, writing this article and corresponding with Barnett gave me an even deeper appreciation of his work. As always, thanks for reading and commenting!
Let me preface my comment with a little background: I am a woman who was one of only 3 women in my 300 and 400 level major classes. I wrote a paper in college about gender inequality in the math classroom. <br /><br />Now I have son, and I know if I had a girl, I would be buying her "boy" toys/books. Yet, there seems to be gender inequality in this area for boys, as people tend to
@Jennybell - Your comment is something that I, as the parent of two boys, struggle with and basis for a really great discussion - why do we encourage girls to play with/do "boy" things but not the reverse? <br /><br />My boys both had baby dolls, and they both played with their big sister's American Girl dolls on occasion. The love Miyazaki's movies, which usually have female
@Tanya - I just don't pay attention to the frowns. I just encouraged him. He has (and had) pink clothes (usually a polo type shirt). He was never "into" dolls (and not sisters), but he LOVES his Webkinz, which I think seem more marketed to girls. Not to say he doesn't like "boy" toys too. As for books, I just pull books from all the great books/homeschool literature
Pink polo shirts! Yes! That is great that he does not prefer boys as the protagonists - yet. I know there's a shift at some point in boys. Or maybe it's that the chapter books become very gender specific? Check out the TRACTION MAN picture books by Mini Grey. I have a review of the new one coming up next Tuesday. She does a great thing with boys and dolls/action figures. Also, this one is